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Topic: No Offense
MzCat73's photo
Sun 06/19/11 01:11 PM
But it's just something i can't stand! When ppl from other countries are tryna holla......like from ghana, uk, nigeria, etc.

Am i wrong for that??? frustrated cause i hate when things are said like: i wanna marry u...u are the this and u are that. just saying... cause we all know what that's about.

oh i hope i don't step on any toes. sad2

thewaterbearer's photo
Sun 06/19/11 01:13 PM
These are scammers, just ignore them.

msharmony's photo
Sun 06/19/11 01:13 PM

But it's just something i can't stand! When ppl from other countries are tryna holla......like from ghana, uk, nigeria, etc.

Am i wrong for that??? frustrated cause i hate when things are said like: i wanna marry u...u are the this and u are that. just saying... cause we all know what that's about.

oh i hope i don't step on any toes. sad2



I understand not appreciating offers of marriage without any courtship or effort to get to know ya

I dont think it should matter where such offers come from though,,,

MzCat73's photo
Sun 06/19/11 01:15 PM
so everyone from there are scam scams???? had one earlier write me, and yes had to block that, writing me about what i put on my page. i meant just what i said, i didn't want them coming at me. and here her come talking bout..........that's not true blah blah blah. ughhh and i did see the word MARRY in there. dude was FUGLY anyway ughhh

MzCat73's photo
Sun 06/19/11 01:16 PM


But it's just something i can't stand! When ppl from other countries are tryna holla......like from ghana, uk, nigeria, etc.

Am i wrong for that??? frustrated cause i hate when things are said like: i wanna marry u...u are the this and u are that. just saying... cause we all know what that's about.

oh i hope i don't step on any toes. sad2



I understand not appreciating offers of marriage without any courtship or effort to get to know ya

I dont think it should matter where such offers come from though,,,


oh, well i never seen an american do that. even on other sites, no american or any other country came at me like that. just those three that i mentioned above. that i can remember.

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Sun 06/19/11 01:24 PM

so everyone from there are scam scams???? had one earlier write me, and yes had to block that, writing me about what i put on my page. i meant just what i said, i didn't want them coming at me. and here her come talking bout..........that's not true blah blah blah. ughhh and i did see the word MARRY in there. dude was FUGLY anyway ughhh


Nigeria is famous for its scammers. Ghana is quickly developing a similar rep, and I've seen some from Ivory Coast, too.

I get a lot of Russian scammers, too, although I don't know if they have male Russian scammers contacting women. There has been a trend recently for a lot of the Russian scammers to pretend that they're actually in the US, but their mangled English tends to expose them.

"Hello, I am Ekaterina from Beloit in the Wisconsin and I am to be liking your structure. Is hope to me of that we some may day be marry and raise the biggest family of the happy time. Please is of contact this me letter of address of to be *******@yahoo.com for of more this then together am can be us now!"

It's true that a lot of Americans write this poorly, too, but after years and years of diligent study, I can usually pick out the actual scammers.

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Sun 06/19/11 01:27 PM


so everyone from there are scam scams???? had one earlier write me, and yes had to block that, writing me about what i put on my page. i meant just what i said, i didn't want them coming at me. and here her come talking bout..........that's not true blah blah blah. ughhh and i did see the word MARRY in there. dude was FUGLY anyway ughhh


Nigeria is famous for its scammers. Ghana is quickly developing a similar rep, and I've seen some from Ivory Coast, too.

I get a lot of Russian scammers, too, although I don't know if they have male Russian scammers contacting women. There has been a trend recently for a lot of the Russian scammers to pretend that they're actually in the US, but their mangled English tends to expose them.

"Hello, I am Ekaterina from Beloit in the Wisconsin and I am to be liking your structure. Is hope to me of that we some may day be marry and raise the biggest family of the happy time. Please is of contact this me letter of address of to be *******@yahoo.com for of more this then together am can be us now!"

It's true that a lot of Americans write this poorly, too, but after years and years of diligent study, I can usually pick out the actual scammers.



oh wow...u straight up on it lol. some of these ppl have bad english and i'm like UGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated

ujGearhead's photo
Sun 06/19/11 01:33 PM

so everyone from there are scam scams???? had one earlier write me, and yes had to block that, writing me about what i put on my page. i meant just what i said, i didn't want them coming at me. and here her come talking bout..........that's not true blah blah blah. ughhh and i did see the word MARRY in there. dude was FUGLY anyway ughhh


At least they read your profile. I always get them saying they liked my profile, then ask how old I am or where I live. Duh......it's in my profile. I thought you read it? Or on other sites where they say they liked my profile and I don't have anything on it! FAIL!

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Sun 06/19/11 01:36 PM
I´ve got so much Spam (scam)... but still, there are many nice people here too. Most of these people give you their personal email adress at their first mail. Behing a Yahoo adress is almost everytime a fake person...
But still. I´m here too to maybe meet someone special just for me :) and i don´t care if she lives in America, in Bali or maybe right next door to me. So don´t get upset. I think there could be someone out there just for you too :) Wait... i am sure there is! :)

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Sun 06/19/11 01:53 PM


so everyone from there are scam scams???? had one earlier write me, and yes had to block that, writing me about what i put on my page. i meant just what i said, i didn't want them coming at me. and here her come talking bout..........that's not true blah blah blah. ughhh and i did see the word MARRY in there. dude was FUGLY anyway ughhh


At least they read your profile. I always get them saying they liked my profile, then ask how old I am or where I live. Duh......it's in my profile. I thought you read it? Or on other sites where they say they liked my profile and I don't have anything on it! FAIL!


i know right lololol

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Sun 06/19/11 04:31 PM

It's true that a lot of Americans write this poorly, too, but after years and years of diligent study, I can usually pick out the actual scammers.



Me too whoa

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Sun 06/19/11 04:40 PM

oh, well i never seen an american do that. even on other sites, no american or any other country came at me like that. just those three that i mentioned above. that i can remember.


I've had a number of men that indicated in their profiles that they're from the US who did the same thing. Every country has them. It's not exclusive in just one, two or three countries.

MzCat73's photo
Sun 06/19/11 04:43 PM


oh, well i never seen an american do that. even on other sites, no american or any other country came at me like that. just those three that i mentioned above. that i can remember.


I've had a number of men that indicated in their profiles that they're from the US who did the same thing. Every country has them. It's not exclusive in just one, two or three countries.


aww ok well i haven't came across any americans who say: I WANNA MARRY U....right after they look at my profile lol. idk that just irks me that ppl think we that dumb to fall for it. lol frustrated slaphead

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Sun 06/19/11 04:46 PM



oh, well i never seen an american do that. even on other sites, no american or any other country came at me like that. just those three that i mentioned above. that i can remember.


I've had a number of men that indicated in their profiles that they're from the US who did the same thing. Every country has them. It's not exclusive in just one, two or three countries.


aww ok well i haven't came across any americans who say: I WANNA MARRY U....right after they look at my profile lol. idk that just irks me that ppl think we that dumb to fall for it. lol frustrated slaphead


One major clue is that the scammers will generally try to get you off-site as soon as possible. They will try to get you to message them through Yahoo most of the time (although I have seen MSN, too). It's basically a tell, because we have e-mail and IM right here on the site, so, if they're legit, then there's no need to go off-site right away (or at all).


MzCat73's photo
Sun 06/19/11 04:47 PM




oh, well i never seen an american do that. even on other sites, no american or any other country came at me like that. just those three that i mentioned above. that i can remember.


I've had a number of men that indicated in their profiles that they're from the US who did the same thing. Every country has them. It's not exclusive in just one, two or three countries.


aww ok well i haven't came across any americans who say: I WANNA MARRY U....right after they look at my profile lol. idk that just irks me that ppl think we that dumb to fall for it. lol frustrated slaphead


One major clue is that the scammers will generally try to get you off-site as soon as possible. They will try to get you to message them through Yahoo most of the time (although I have seen MSN, too). It's basically a tell, because we have e-mail and IM right here on the site, so, if they're legit, then there's no need to go off-site right away (or at all).




oh wow. indifferent i think i have noticed a few of those at one point in time. noway

MzCat73's photo
Sun 06/19/11 04:57 PM
AND THIS IS WHAT I GO BACK AND FIND LOOKN AT MY PROFILE: 27 year old male from Abuja, Nigeria

WELL GOLLYYYYYY........i'm 11 years older than this man in a suit, with his jacket hangn over his arm. smokin

MzCat73's photo
Mon 06/20/11 08:31 AM
OK these guys writing me from there are working my nerves. mad :angry: Talking bout it's not fair and blah blah blah. NOPE, I'M NOT HAVING IT. i want my mail open for ppl beyond 150 miles, but i see i'ma have to block that too. frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated rant

Totage's photo
Mon 06/20/11 08:41 AM

But it's just something i can't stand! When ppl from other countries are tryna holla......like from ghana, uk, nigeria, etc.

Am i wrong for that??? frustrated cause i hate when things are said like: i wanna marry u...u are the this and u are that. just saying... cause we all know what that's about.

oh i hope i don't step on any toes. sad2


http://www.419eater.com/html/hall_of_shame.htm

MzCat73's photo
Mon 06/20/11 08:42 AM


But it's just something i can't stand! When ppl from other countries are tryna holla......like from ghana, uk, nigeria, etc.

Am i wrong for that??? frustrated cause i hate when things are said like: i wanna marry u...u are the this and u are that. just saying... cause we all know what that's about.

oh i hope i don't step on any toes. sad2


http://www.419eater.com/html/hall_of_shame.htm


what's that?????????

Totage's photo
Mon 06/20/11 08:51 AM
It's a site that plays with advance fee fraud ("419") scammers. They get them to send them stupid pictures and pretty much just waste the scammers time.

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