Topic: is it possable to meet a real person in such an impersonal w
ChinchillaZilla's photo
Tue 02/07/12 01:56 AM
im ready to meet that person but i dont know if im looking in the right places...thers bound to be someone like me here..right?..idk but im willing to find out and willing to be found. but im skeptical that i can establish an emotional connection with someone through a mechanical, cold, computer..but who the hell knows right? so find me..im not hiding anymore :P

soufiehere's photo
Tue 02/07/12 02:00 AM
Oh, it's possible.
And, even easier online because you
can weed out the undesirables.

Pleasant profile.
Welcome, enjoy the forums :-)

TommyDeroush2's photo
Tue 02/07/12 02:03 AM
i've been trying to find out the exact same answer, and so far no such luck. all i know is that my next love is out there somewhere and i ain't giving up till i find her

eileena9's photo
Tue 02/07/12 02:21 AM
This place has worked for me and TheCaptain and for Soufie and Krupa, among many others. Good luck to you in your search! flowerforyou

Dan99's photo
Tue 02/07/12 02:28 AM
I dont think it is right for everybody but it does work for many. It is worth a go, what is the worst that can happen?

no photo
Tue 02/07/12 04:22 AM
Hi how are you,

Yes I agree be skeptical,and if they are charging a fee.
Make sure you aren't looking through lots of profiles for nothing.

Empty profiles would be a big time waster.


Seeya

yellowrose10's photo
Tue 02/07/12 04:50 AM
Things take time. Join in the forums and get noticed. Many have met on here. drinker

Your profile looks good to me


Hi how are you,

Yes I agree be skeptical,and if they are charging a fee.
Make sure you aren't looking through lots of profiles for nothing.

Empty profiles would be a big time waster.


Seeya


Mingle is free. There is no fee to pay.

teadipper's photo
Tue 02/07/12 06:55 AM

Oh, it's possible.
And, even easier online because you
can weed out the undesirables.

Pleasant profile.
Welcome, enjoy the forums :-)


I totally disagree. Losers who would not DARE approach in real life feel very brave behind screen names. It takes a lot more nerve and personality to meet someone face to face and date them.

ChinchillaZilla's photo
Fri 02/10/12 06:34 PM
yeah u guys are right. it wouldnt hurt to really try and even if i dont meet the "right guy" (wich i dont think i believe in) ive met some pretty cool people so far that i wouldnt have other wise :] i guess i might as well have some fun with this

no photo
Sat 02/11/12 02:05 AM
Emotions can be turned to written words, to such that the connection turns to phone calls and phone calls lead to meetings. it's possible to meet 'the one' on a site. But be caresulf because people hide their true self through a scree. Before agreeing to meet make sure someone knows where you're going and who you're going with.

txmomof2's photo
Sat 02/11/12 03:55 AM

Losers who would not DARE approach in real life feel very brave behind screen names. It takes a lot more nerve and personality to meet someone face to face and date them.


Just because one is more brave behind a screen name does not make them a loser. For some it enables to be who we really are up front with out the shy awkwardness of meeting face to face

Dodo_David's photo
Tue 02/14/12 08:02 PM

im ready to meet that person but i dont know if im looking in the right places...thers bound to be someone like me here..right?..idk but im willing to find out and willing to be found. but im skeptical that i can establish an emotional connection with someone through a mechanical, cold, computer..but who the hell knows right? so find me..im not hiding anymore :P

Why did you have to hide in the first place?

Chuckie67's photo
Tue 02/28/12 01:50 PM
I agree with that. Wish more would fill out profile more.

kale68's photo
Tue 02/28/12 06:52 PM
Anything is possible jus have to get out there and friend people...Every day is a gift, an unwritten page that we get to write ourselves...Have a wonderful evening...

nintenduderino's photo
Wed 02/29/12 10:43 AM
Edited by nintenduderino on Wed 02/29/12 10:44 AM


Oh, it's possible.
And, even easier online because you
can weed out the undesirables.

Pleasant profile.
Welcome, enjoy the forums :-)


I totally disagree. Losers who would not DARE approach in real life feel very brave behind screen names. It takes a lot more nerve and personality to meet someone face to face and date them.


i tend to agree and the people who wouldnt be given the time of day still wont for the most part. but, on the other end of it, it does broaden your options and make it a little better to find somone. i have been on many sites and had no luck even to meet anyone and im feeling it will be the same with this one but you never know until you try :smile:

ChinchillaZilla's photo
Fri 03/02/12 05:00 PM


im ready to meet that person but i dont know if im looking in the right places...thers bound to be someone like me here..right?..idk but im willing to find out and willing to be found. but im skeptical that i can establish an emotional connection with someone through a mechanical, cold, computer..but who the hell knows right? so find me..im not hiding anymore :P

Why did you have to hide in the first place?



wanted to stay single for a while after getting out of an abusive relationship and i got comfortable so a while turned into a long while :/ i guess i wasnt really hiding just wasnt willing to risk my emotion for anyone but now im ready to give someone the chance to really know me

MJ032159's photo
Fri 03/09/12 01:03 AM
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