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Topic: Lol How Do I Swing A Date In This Situation?
MrDolla Joined Fri 11/07/08 Posts: 122	Sun 02/26/12 07:59 PM
So this girl I really like who I have on facebook posted some status about how she was trying to sell a ticket to some concert. And me this girl never really talk but I messaged her and was like " hey Im interested in your ticket if you still have it etc....blah blah blah" The thing is is Im not interested in this concert at all. I just wanted to have an excuse to message her and maybe be able to meet up and parlay it into a date. You see what Im saying? So she replied back something like "I might be selling it to a friend, but I will let you know in a few days if that doesn't pan out! I just wanted __ for it" so.....I guess just wait to see if she wants to sell it and meet up somewhere? And then be like "Hey I just realized I don't want your ticket but how about we go grab cofee?" lol or how do I play this/

newarkjw Joined Sun 05/25/08 Posts: 17172	Sun 02/26/12 08:03 PM
You could always pass her a note in study hall........

pyxxie13 Joined Wed 09/28/11 Posts: 3835	Sun 02/26/12 08:07 PM
Well looks to me that you started out with a lie. What do you think?

Spidercmb Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 13137	Sun 02/26/12 08:08 PM
so.....I guess just wait to see if she wants to sell it and meet up somewhere? And then be like "Hey I just realized I don't want your ticket but how about we go grab cofee?" I think that you should buy the tickets, otherwise you run the risk of making her mad.

MrDolla Joined Fri 11/07/08 Posts: 122	Sun 02/26/12 08:08 PM
Well looks to me that you started out with a lie. What do you think? Not a lie. I just asked her how muc for her ticket and if she still had it? Nothing lying about that. Never even said I wanted it.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sun 02/26/12 08:09 PM
You could always pass her a note in study hall........ o u bad man that was hilarious

MrDolla Joined Fri 11/07/08 Posts: 122	Sun 02/26/12 08:10 PM
so.....I guess just wait to see if she wants to sell it and meet up somewhere? And then be like "Hey I just realized I don't want your ticket but how about we go grab cofee?" I think that you should buy the tickets, otherwise you run the risk of making her mad. i will probably just buy it if i can as an excuse to meet up and then sell it right away lol

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sun 02/26/12 08:10 PM
So this girl I really like who I have on facebook posted some status about how she was trying to sell a ticket to some concert. And me this girl never really talk but I messaged her and was like " hey Im interested in your ticket if you still have it etc....blah blah blah" The thing is is Im not interested in this concert at all. I just wanted to have an excuse to message her and maybe be able to meet up and parlay it into a date. You see what Im saying? So she replied back something like "I might be selling it to a friend, but I will let you know in a few days if that doesn't pan out! I just wanted __ for it" so.....I guess just wait to see if she wants to sell it and meet up somewhere? And then be like "Hey I just realized I don't want your ticket but how about we go grab cofee?" lol or how do I play this/ u could also tell her the truth and hope for the best NO MORE GAMES

justme659 Joined Wed 10/03/07 Posts: 6144	Sun 02/26/12 08:10 PM
so.....I guess just wait to see if she wants to sell it and meet up somewhere? And then be like "Hey I just realized I don't want your ticket but how about we go grab cofee?" lol or how do I play this/ If you did that to me I would be ticked off. Really? You JUST realized! See ya! Man up and just ask her out for the coffee. Do not play games with the ticket stuff. Thats just BS.

MrDolla Joined Fri 11/07/08 Posts: 122	Sun 02/26/12 08:16 PM
So this girl I really like who I have on facebook posted some status about how she was trying to sell a ticket to some concert. And me this girl never really talk but I messaged her and was like " hey Im interested in your ticket if you still have it etc....blah blah blah" The thing is is Im not interested in this concert at all. I just wanted to have an excuse to message her and maybe be able to meet up and parlay it into a date. You see what Im saying? So she replied back something like "I might be selling it to a friend, but I will let you know in a few days if that doesn't pan out! I just wanted __ for it" so.....I guess just wait to see if she wants to sell it and meet up somewhere? And then be like "Hey I just realized I don't want your ticket but how about we go grab cofee?" lol or how do I play this/ u could also tell her the truth and hope for the best NO MORE GAMES yea but the thing is is I havent seen this girl in a while. And I dont really want to ask her out over facebook. Hence why I wante to at least have an excuse to meet her and ask her out that way. I could still buy the ticket and ask her out.

pyxxie13 Joined Wed 09/28/11 Posts: 3835	Sun 02/26/12 08:16 PM
Well looks to me that you started out with a lie. What do you think? Not a lie. I just asked her how muc for her ticket and if she still had it? Nothing lying about that. Never even said I wanted it. hmm well you mentioned you only asked in order to know her or chat ..so I would think that is deceiving. I wish you the best of luck on it.

MrDolla Joined Fri 11/07/08 Posts: 122	Sun 02/26/12 08:21 PM
Well looks to me that you started out with a lie. What do you think? Not a lie. I just asked her how muc for her ticket and if she still had it? Nothing lying about that. Never even said I wanted it. hmm well you mentioned you only asked in order to know her or chat ..so I would think that is deceiving. I wish you the best of luck on it. Thanks I think lol. And well obviously it isn't optimal but I it seemed like a good excuse to get together with her.

Spidercmb Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 13137	Sun 02/26/12 08:23 PM
so.....I guess just wait to see if she wants to sell it and meet up somewhere? And then be like "Hey I just realized I don't want your ticket but how about we go grab cofee?" I think that you should buy the tickets, otherwise you run the risk of making her mad. i will probably just buy it if i can as an excuse to meet up and then sell it right away lol You could turn it around into something romantic. If I did that, I would probably buy the tickets and ask her out. When she said yes, I would eat the cost of the tickets and save them. If it works out between you guys, give her the tickets on your anniversary with a note admitting that you bought them just to meet her.

pyxxie13 Joined Wed 09/28/11 Posts: 3835	Sun 02/26/12 08:25 PM
so.....I guess just wait to see if she wants to sell it and meet up somewhere? And then be like "Hey I just realized I don't want your ticket but how about we go grab cofee?" I think that you should buy the tickets, otherwise you run the risk of making her mad. i will probably just buy it if i can as an excuse to meet up and then sell it right away lol You could turn it around into something romantic. If I did that, I would probably buy the tickets and ask her out. When she said yes, I would eat the cost of the tickets and save them. If it works out between you guys, give her the tickets on your anniversary with a note admitting that you bought them just to meet her. What a true romantic. It is nice to see it is still around.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Sun 02/26/12 08:27 PM
So this girl I really like who I have on facebook posted some status about how she was trying to sell a ticket to some concert. And me this girl never really talk but I messaged her and was like " hey Im interested in your ticket if you still have it etc....blah blah blah" The thing is is Im not interested in this concert at all. I just wanted to have an excuse to message her and maybe be able to meet up and parlay it into a date. You see what Im saying? So she replied back something like "I might be selling it to a friend, but I will let you know in a few days if that doesn't pan out! I just wanted __ for it" so.....I guess just wait to see if she wants to sell it and meet up somewhere? And then be like "Hey I just realized I don't want your ticket but how about we go grab cofee?" lol or how do I play this/ Just ask her out. Why fake interest in buying a ticket?

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Sun 02/26/12 08:28 PM
Well looks to me that you started out with a lie. What do you think? Not a lie. I just asked her how muc for her ticket and if she still had it? Nothing lying about that. Never even said I wanted it. People don't ask questions like that unless they want it. So, if she comes back to you, you should probably buy it.

MrDolla Joined Fri 11/07/08 Posts: 122	Sun 02/26/12 08:28 PM
so.....I guess just wait to see if she wants to sell it and meet up somewhere? And then be like "Hey I just realized I don't want your ticket but how about we go grab cofee?" I think that you should buy the tickets, otherwise you run the risk of making her mad. i will probably just buy it if i can as an excuse to meet up and then sell it right away lol You could turn it around into something romantic. If I did that, I would probably buy the tickets and ask her out. When she said yes, I would eat the cost of the tickets and save them. If it works out between you guys, give her the tickets on your anniversary with a note admitting that you bought them just to meet her. But the thing is is she cant go to the concert which is wh she's selling it in the first place. Just figured id get her to meet up. bu the ticket mabe and ask her out seperately

newarkjw Joined Sun 05/25/08 Posts: 17172	Sun 02/26/12 08:30 PM
You could turn it around into something romantic. If I did that, I would probably buy the tickets and ask her out. When she said yes, I would eat the cost of the tickets and save them. If it works out between you guys, give her the tickets on your anniversary with a note admitting that you bought them just to meet her. That is romantic brother but have you seen the price of concert tickets lately? I'd be scalping those damn things....

MrDolla Joined Fri 11/07/08 Posts: 122	Sun 02/26/12 08:30 PM
So this girl I really like who I have on facebook posted some status about how she was trying to sell a ticket to some concert. And me this girl never really talk but I messaged her and was like " hey Im interested in your ticket if you still have it etc....blah blah blah" The thing is is Im not interested in this concert at all. I just wanted to have an excuse to message her and maybe be able to meet up and parlay it into a date. You see what Im saying? So she replied back something like "I might be selling it to a friend, but I will let you know in a few days if that doesn't pan out! I just wanted __ for it" so.....I guess just wait to see if she wants to sell it and meet up somewhere? And then be like "Hey I just realized I don't want your ticket but how about we go grab cofee?" lol or how do I play this/ Just ask her out. Why fake interest in buying a ticket? I mostl want an excuse for us to meet up and ask her out that way. Cause only other option is asking her on facebook which i dont really want to do

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Sun 02/26/12 08:31 PM
You could have just started a conversation with her, asked her for her number, then asked her out. Making up excuses is not the adult way of doing things.