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| Topic: What do you GUYS think about single mothers?? | |
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Maximum repect to single mums! I brought my son up since the age of 7 and it aint easy. Hes grown up now, but i'd do it all over again if I had to!
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I have to laugh at some men saying they can't trust a woman becuse they are single mothers, and they had children out of wedlock:p Good grief this is 2013, not the stone ages. What about single fathers? don't hear no one downing them eh'? I am a single mom of 3. Never cheated once on the father, he cheated on me, and the kids were "too hard", so he left and enjoyed his life, while I took the responsibility to take care of my children. Its not easy work, I love my children to the moon and back, and infinity and beyond!! But it do get lonely being by yourself day in and day out, without having a SO to share it with. My children always comes first, and their love is unconditional, and they make me whole. I find it hard meeting men, because the minute they hear I have 3 children, they bolt:(</3
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You can do it! Your a good mom ;) stay blessed!!
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I have three kids and I make it all right. I don't think anyone will marry me tho cuz they don't want to "pay" to support my kids. Which I don't expect anyways but it is a deterrent for men, I think. I enjoy going on dates though even if the relationships don't last it's nice sometimes.
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I'm not sure what the question meant as far as what GUYS are supposed to think about, but does it really matter what anyone thinks about you as a single mom? I've been a single mom for a long time, and there are loads of single moms out there(and on here), who do it day after day without complaining. It is what it is, and no one can judge you for being a single mom. It's one of the hardest things out there to be a single parent, and be able to cope and deal with it emotionally/mentally/physically on a daily basis. There's times you can be so exhausted all you want to do is cry, but you can't. There's times when all you want to do is sleep, but you can't. There's times when you wish that you had someone who cared about you and loved you, but everything you have is in your kids. The kind of strength it takes to be a single PARENT is one of a kind. I have my good times and my bad moments, and I wish I had someone to help me sometimes, even if it's just to talk to and say 'hey, you're a good mom, and you can do it'. But it doesn't always happen, and you have to put everything aside for your kids. They keep me going sometimes, when I don't think I can do it anymore. Amen to that... Well put. X |
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Single mothers married mothers are in most cases the very same"i think they are just unlucky to have met a man who cares only for himself,i have a few single mother friends and i have a wife who i help as much as i can,to ask what do you think of single mothers is not the question,the question is why do women choose to be alone and not not fight for fathers rights.
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Full respect for you honey....
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So true ..Our children are always come first and yes as soon as men know we have children they disappear..
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I take offense the the assumption that a single mother either "sleep" around or had kids out of wedlock. I am a single mother of four. I did not sleep around nor did I have my kids out of wedlock. I was married to their father for 9 years. He chose to walk out on the kids and I for another woman. For those guys who assume the worst of a single mother, GET YOUR FACTS straight before condemning single mothers. It's not always their fault.
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I spent 20 years married to a woman who was a single mother when we met. I raised her child as my own. Not all men are afraid of children. If they find out you have kids and disappear, he wasn't the right guy in the first place.
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i love single mothers.. strongest women i know
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I was married too. And what about single DADS?
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Single mothers married mothers are in most cases the very same"i think they are just unlucky to have met a man who cares only for himself,i have a few single mother friends and i have a wife who i help as much as i can,to ask what do you think of single mothers is not the question,the question is why do women choose to be alone and not not fight for fathers rights. Why would we fight for fathers rights. They treat us like crap and beg for mutual custody to minimize their child support then cancel all their visits while throwing the mom under the bus in court. Eff fathers rights. If a man is abusive, cheats or leaves his wife then screw him! Especially when he doesn't pay his child support. Don't punish the child! 
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Single mothers are very great women who should b given full respect...
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I know, very high respect, it's a thankless full time job that pays no money and yet we required to work a real job to support our kids all on our own.
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Thanks Simone. U rock too
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Single mothers married mothers are in most cases the very same"i think they are just unlucky to have met a man who cares only for himself,i have a few single mother friends and i have a wife who i help as much as i can,to ask what do you think of single mothers is not the question,the question is why do women choose to be alone and not not fight for fathers rights. Why would we fight for fathers rights. They treat us like crap and beg for mutual custody to minimize their child support then cancel all their visits while throwing the mom under the bus in court. Eff fathers rights. If a man is abusive, cheats or leaves his wife then screw him! Especially when he doesn't pay his child support. Don't punish the child! |
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Edited by
msharmony
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Sun 12/22/13 09:13 AM
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Not sure really, I personally think it`s a little wrong ... I mean, kids should have two parents. Even though there are many reasons for someone having to raise kids on their own. Takes a lot of effort, I`m sure. Here in Norway, it almost seems as raising children on your own, is the norm - I don`t like it, I just don`t, and I would be somewhat hesitant to involve myself with a single mum because I don`t think I would be able to trust her fully to be faithful in a relationship. But, I could be ignorant, who knows. I don't think its ignorant. I too believe children are meant to grow up with a mother and father. There are those who think of what they want and feel love is all that matters,, most of them not bad people probably, but still robbing the child, in my opinion. There are also those who have no problem doing the deed and walking away from the responsibility of that deed,,,,I think in general that they suck...lol Im not a single mother by choice, IM a single mother out o necessity , as many single mothers are. But, in general, parents who love and guide and sacrifice to raise the children they create,, ROCK! |
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We are just simply AMAZING just like all the single dads out there.
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Because of my age, single mothers are generally the women I run into. In my experience they fall into two categories. One group just wants a man who meets their fantasy and often end up in abusive relationships. Although, I think its nice that Rihanna and Chris Brown are back together; they go together like peanut butter and whatever punches peanut butter in the face. The other group have serious trust issues. In fact the only woman I ever came out and said "I love you" to, claimed that I would just get her pregnant and leave her like the others. It was so bad I stopped dating her after three months.
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