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Edited by
wux
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Tue 11/06/12 02:15 PM
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when a stranger mails you, what is the best thing you would like him/her to say? She is wealthy, single and likes Melmacians.  Don't they all? I had a lot of wealthy, single women turn me down, with saying if I had only some malmacian blood in me. I went home, drank a couple of gallons, and they would not even open the door for me when I returned to their houses. I'll never figure out women properly, even if I live to be a thousand-years-old. |
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be genuine! I get a lot of emails calling me "babe" "honey" (you don't know me so either asking my name or just saying "HI" is favorable) initially in email flattery of that nature does NOT encourage me to respond favorably.. or those claiming to have read my profile when obviously that wasn't the case because nothing in their email remotely sounds like someone I'd be interested in! personally I prefer someone to mention something of what they've read in my profile or on the forums.. showing at least there was enough interest to encourage that initial step and start on a common ground.. but that's JMO!  |
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I've realized that asking how big their shoe size is OR if they have a horrible nose picking habit isn't working..  I guess I should find some new material!!   Coz it makes you look like you're rather very judgmental. Most guys consider the picking good, and a nice habit if it's in their noses. Their mothers tole them not to pick up girls, but the nose was and is normal territory. And if a guy's shoe size stinks, then it's personal. |
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In initial contact I generally prefer a little bit of polite respectful formality,
A man who greets me by Screen name and a polite saluatation like I hope you are having a nice day or I am glad to see your profile. If you don't refer to something in it I figure you are are too selfish to even make a similiar effort because someone wo emails me I read your profile. At least if it is not one of the marathon ones. Then I want to see something that suggests you can actually hold an independent thought recently. If it is just a repeat of the profile I am irked. Then tell me something that I should find interesting about you but doesn't fall in the TMI category. If you say just ask me anything I just dumber than a rock or lazy. Then thank me for my time and sign at least your first name if you actually want me to consider you more than just a Mingle pal shooting the breeze. It really isn't neccessary to beg or tell me when to answer you. And if you don't get an immediate answer don't bug on me. I might actually be waiting until I have some personal time to think about what you have posted and what I want to say to you. Or something might actually be going on in my life that I am not putting on line. |
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as for me, when i read a profile and see something funny or interesting i write them. I could see a beautifull pic of a child too, a tatto, anything that catches me. Some times they write back, most times they dont( dont bother me doe) i could see a very beautifull lady too and tell her she is pretty..
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