i really liked this guy and we dated for a while i met him off of here and then he started to get clingy and never stopped calling then got to controlling what am i suppossed to do i need help i finallt broke it off with him now he wont go away he keeps sending flowers and stuff but i caint be with some one who tells people we have sex when we dont what do i do

if u havent done this already :
block ur email.
block ur phone
stop talking to him
if u have a cell phone might want to change the number. they cant block cell phone numbers.
dont anser his txt messages.
return to sender.(from the mail). refuse the flowers.
block him from jsh and other instant messagers.
send ur new boyfriend after him lol (even if u have to find a friend to be a fake one lol).
i am sure you told him a 1000 times. but once more would not hurt.

Be rude straight tell him you don't want anything to do with him. It sounds like your going to have to. Any man who brags about having sex with you when he has not probably isn't very good at it anyway. Buck up and lay down the law. Don't argue with him just tell him how it is. Well that's what I think anyway.

I agree!!!

Call Kojack or any other detective and have him file a restraing order on him

Yeeaahhhh...its time to, in a sense, grow some balls and tell him how it is and how its gonna be. As long as you humor him, he will take that as a sign and keep trying.

And dont put all guys in the same class as this guy just because hes a jerk.

I don't think all guys are like this, just a percentage.
& to be fair..a percentage of women are like this as well..
but not all! You'll find a good one if you keep looking, maybe go for a guy you wouldn't see as your type? Sometimes that works.

As for this jerk, tell him how it is and then do as cajun says.
Make it known to him once more that you do not want anything to do with him and maybe, just maaaaaaybe he will get the picture.

There is only one way to handle this properly.

To just avoid the guy is stupid women always try this and when it fails they want to bring the law into what is a private affair and made more out of it then it should be.

Talk to him go meet in a public place. Sit him down and tell him to listen with interruption and explain that your relationship has come to an end.

when you are done allow him a few minutes to vent and prout.

Then hug or shake hands wish him the best and walkaway.

oh the question is why are all guys the same. I,m nothing like this guy. Maybe its you without a clue of how to pick the right sort of guy.

Sorry hon but not all guy's are the same

creepy...

You may have to file a restaining order. I've done it several times. My picker is broke so I seem to run into alot of men that are assholes. He has not threatened you so a no contact order might be the way to go. I keep both on hand just in case. Just joking but it is not that hard to file either one. But get real before this gets out of hand and you get hurt. Just do it. Good luck

I dont think all men are the same......I think you have to look inside yourself and wonder what you are doing to attract these people?????

Most men do background checks of women they are serious about.
We are looking for things like restraining orders.
yes sometimes its necessary and some times its not.
If its determined that maybe she acted unreasonably then the guy makes up something to end the relationship.
Try to avoid being marooned on a dating site.. talk to the man.

..you want i should call da boys and see about makin' him disappeah permennantly ...

I do background checks myself. However if you do a check on the women you want to go out with and there is record of her filing against a man you should respect her for protecting herself. A simple non emergency call to the cops to have them talk to this guy may be all that is needed. Regardless how she got into this position it still needs to be delt with. It's a weird world and who knows what this guy may be capable of. Protect your self and don't worry about hurt feelings.

And dont put all guys in the same class as this guy just because hes a jerk.



i agree,believe it or not but not ALL guys are like that.us guys sometimes need our space too,so i say send a friend after him and then find you a nice guy..well one like me j/k

Mountainloven, nothing that she has said justifys legal intervention.
She had a relationship with the guy and ended it abruptly with little discussion.
Closure is will once and for all end his trying to fix this.
The only way to do this is to talk thru why she came to this decision.
If this does not work then maybe she should take it further.
But come on would you go out with a guy that has a restraining order against him. Would you enough listen to him explain what happened to cause it.