So would he feel stupid about his actions when he's sober!
There's an old expression we used to say in the early 80 s when I wasn about 14 & never really herd it
since but have never forgot, this is very suiting for your situation.

This expression is taylor made for a young man, but life can put us in these unique situations as your
In now.
Expression goes as folows;

Its not the face you f♥ck, its the f♥ck you face, so look at it from all sides, Daughter included and
you will have the answer.
If you can face it, and it happens again ask him this!

I find myself faced with this again in my life as it seens the majority of the
female interest as of late are 20 years younger.

Being a gorwn up,am sure you know whats really going on here!!!

We all know that,what a person does when drunk,has done before when not drunk-in his/her mind! Alcohol just gives them that courage they need!!

So,my dear,soon,very soon,it will be a full on French kiss,and actual fondling/gropping!!

Haha I can't see that happening. He's been a grumpy man since it happened in Sunday.

Thank you.

Most of the people we know think it already happened a year ago.
My ex husband was so convinced that we ended up divorced.
I will let you know how it pans out.

Is this true?
I thought drunk words or actions were just crap?

You got divorced because your ex thought you and your daughter's ex were doing the deed? And you still see him? You must really like this young man.
I'm just wondering though, he thinks of you as a mom, but do you see him as a son? Are you considering taking him up on the more he seems to drunkenly be trying to put on the table?

And what does your daughter think about you hanging out with her ex?
You say he wants her back, are you actively trying to help them get back together?

I love this young man like my own son. He lived with us for a year and he is my family. Yes I will do what I can to see them back together but it's not possible to happen for awhile yet.
My ex was jealous because this young man is very handsome. He broke up my daughters relationship with him and broke up the family. I wasn't going to abandon this young man at the worst time in his life. It's a very complex story

My daughter is very aware of I spent a lot of time with her ex. Sometimes it bothers her. Other times not

And then,you also said you and young man have only each other-or something like that!

Sounds like theres something beyond what you are telling us,mho!
But,
You also think,he could be seeing a little bit of your daughter in you-wonder what that trully means; you and daughter look alike?? You feel the need to feel young-like your daughter?? You and daughter act the same??

Btw,
What exactly is it that you need help sorting out??
Because,basing on your responses on here, i say,you got it under control,your mind is set on keeping young man,whether daughter likes it or not!

We only have each other because of the circumstances that have happened to him and to me. Separate issues but nevertheless enough to cause us to rely on each other for support.
Perhaps some similar traits I share with my daughter is what he may see but definitely not looks. My daughter is quite stunning.
I don't act like her.
I won't abandon him or her.
The reason for posting this initially as I wanted clarification from an outside view. Wanted to see if what I thought was a general notion or whether it would go the other way which it seems to have.

All I know is that men/boys have 2 heads & only enough blood to run one at a time. Alcohol will always allow the "lower head" to take full control & make all the descisions with one thing on it's mind...

Well,
You know what you want to do...
You know what you want to be the outcome....
You know how you feel....
You dont really know what this young man is feeling though!!

So,
Some bit of distance will put a stop to the sexual thoughts boy has toward you-that is,if thats what you want!?

Because,the closer you get,the more attracted he will be towards you,and the more time you spend together,the easier it gets,for him to muster the courage to go further in actions!


Especially with alcohol involved!
And i tell you,you might not resist it......

I don't think he really has any sexual thoughts for me.
Distance is impossible. Neither of us could survive that. We have basically been in each others pockets for the last year.

Ya know, when people spend a lot of time together, you can't help but get clos and feelings deepen. Taking the time to talk to him about it in a compassionate way may help both of you figure out where things stand. I firmly believe that age should not be a barrier to love, so I wouldn't let that stand in the way; as previously mentioned, y'all just need to be clear about how you want to proceed.

My experience has been that if I even get an inkling that there is "something else going on" there usually is. Trust your instincts. Listen to your heart. Do what is right for you. All the best to you in your journey.

Thank you

you dont think he has any sexual feelings,yet the boob fondle and the lip kiss......??

Ok,
So,would you have sex with this young man-if he so dove for it,during his drunkeness?? And yes,he'll feel''terrible'' about it tomorrow-i know!???

you dont ''believe'' boy has sexual feeling here,YET you are confused about his sexually leaning actions??????

Ok,
I bow out!