Do you believe you have to be sexually compatible to marry someone s/n if anyone wants to talk inbox me :)

no,, I don't think there is a static sexual situation called 'compatible',,

people must communicate and pay attention , and they will be compatible sexually,, its not rocket science of some natural automatic ability,,,,


I think people have to be willing to communicate and PAY attention, and the sexual compatibility will happen,,,

I'm gonna say yes. I've noticed many married people have affairs because their wife/husband doesn't satisfy them enough. I see no point if one has a high sex drive and the other doesn't.

Mmm Im interested to know how is yours. Mine is a bit seasonal

Female folks re hard to satisfy sextually most of the times...Men don't have much trouble with that...you as a person,,,if sex is all that you want in a marriage...i say YES...if otherwise,,i did say NO...Mind you sex isn't every thing you know......

I believe as msharmony does. You have to pay attention to the wants and needs of your partner. You have to learn what turns them on and makes them feel good. Then think of their needs ahead of yours.

Awhile back, in my younger days, an evangelist visited our church and held a "young couples'" discussion group. She said something that I still remember after some 30 years ... "women are like irons, you need to warm them up first before things get hot, men, on the other hand, are like light bulbs, turn on the switch, there is light!"

To a certain extent, yes. If your S/O has sexual needs you absolutely cannot fulfill, it's going to be a problem in the long term.

My answer is no you don't have to be sexually compatible to get married. While it would be weird you could be a woman who marries a man with no dick and you would be married.

The real question is does sexual compatibility help a marriage last and for that I would say it depends on the people in the relationship and if one of them is an ungiving greedy jerk. You can have two different sex drives and make things work. But both people have to make compromises to make it work. I kind of theorize this is the main problem with people. To many feel entitled and don't compromise. They are selfish and greedy and this is what kills relationships.

well said

i agree to that

can u add girls

It would be much more enjoyable in a marriage, if both partners were sexually compatible. People marry and they are not sexually compatible, but still manage to stay married. So, the answer would be Yes, you could marry someone you are not sexually compatable with.

of course you have to be compatible who wants to be with someone who doesn't satisfy them or doesn't satisfy the person theyre with?

sex is just sex, way more to a marriage than just sex...

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u cn learn 2 b sexually compatible

I agree with this.

Married people have affairs because their priorities are all messed up.