Topic: I Dont Understand How
ChangeofHeart's photo
Tue 07/30/13 01:26 PM
Some can take your Man, or Woman from you. How can another person convince your mate to leave you?

Toodygirl5's photo
Tue 07/30/13 01:33 PM
A mate will only leave if they choose to go. No one can take someone from you.

ChangeofHeart's photo
Tue 07/30/13 01:35 PM

A mate will only leave if they choose to go. No one can take someone from you.
I agree.

axl_rose40's photo
Tue 07/30/13 02:08 PM
Having someone leave a mate for someone else does not entail conviction from anyone. I'd say most of the time, it is somewhat an affirmation that one should decide to leave a mate by then. Only happens that it takes someone else to let that person finally realize that he/she should have left even before the affirmation has come. Ethical judgments dictate though that it is not appropriate to leave a mate FOR someone else.

ChangeofHeart's photo
Tue 07/30/13 02:13 PM
flowerforyou

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Tue 07/30/13 02:20 PM
I think we all crave attention and feeling that we are heard! If we are not feeling this in our relationship, then I believe we can become easily enchanted by someone new who does seem to care.
I also believe that we do take others for granted, especially those we love, and we convince ourselves that nothing will change - life is good. And then it changes...
flowerforyou

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Tue 07/30/13 02:22 PM
Unfortunately, we are creatures who learn from our mistakes not our successes! We can only strive to be a better person!

axl_rose40's photo
Tue 07/30/13 02:41 PM
...point of the matter is - when someone decides to leave you for someone else, try to learn from that and do better in the next relationship. If all else fails, start thinking that it may not be you but the mates you choose laugh Kidding aside, one could need to make a good choice of a mate.

navygirl's photo
Tue 07/30/13 04:39 PM

Some can take your Man, or Woman from you. How can another person convince your mate to leave you?


I get dumped for prettier women. Crap happens and I accept it as is just life.