Well here is the deal, I have only had one G/f and this was at 16..I was w/ her for three months and it took me a while to get over her but she is my best friend and we really didnt "break up" but she said she wasnt ready for a serious relationship, anyway thing is I havent had a relationship since because I dont like playing around and being with just anyone, so how much do you think this will hurt me in future relationships??..I dont think I am a bad guy and all and I dont think I look to bad so the prob. may be just that but im not sure what it is..anyway any opinions would be greatly appriciated

just take your time and do what you feel.

It won't hurt ya at all dude,,,she and you were young, and still are.
So her not want a long time with ya is normal.
Just go slow and try to email back any that mail ya, and talk on some posts ,like your doing now,,the babes will see ya and you them.
The rest will all be good and you will make some great friends here,,,,Have fun,,and smile,,,,,alot,,,lol

I'm not worried and I've NEVER had an actual relationship...ever!

Well then Joshy, YOU SIR ARE DO.....Good luck man,,,

Well I like how you are not worried that is great..im not either its just that sometimes I wonder what its like you know and sometimes when I go out with friends and all I feel out of place since I cant really relate to them when they ask me or talk about relationships but ive always been patient and will continue being so..but at times its tough...and thanks for the tips iam4u

hmm any1 else

You are young... Not getting seriouse- should not be too important at this stage in your life... Make friend's and get to know people. In time you may find someone. Enjoy life and
a relationship will fall into place when its time...
Goodluck!

Hang in there! You're young, and the pain you feel won't last long. Have fun, make new friends...and when the time's right...and you meet that special gal...you'll know it!! Good luck!!

sweetie you are so young, you don't need a serious relationship yet, you need to play the field, go out with a lot of girls so you can develop an idea of what it is you want in a woman. Go to college, get an education and a career so you can have something to offer, and take the time to mature. I wish I had a daughter though, you are adorable

I don't think you have anything to worry about!! Right now the main thing you should be focused on is your education. You have plenty of time to worry about women...get your life in order first. Do every thing that you want to do!!
Get enrolled into some college courses, trust me without that education...life becomes more complicated! The more education you have, the better things become! Get your degree and worry about your education first...then when you are in college, you will meet plenty of "hot chicks" (thats what my son calls them)
Good luck

I think your friends will envy you IF you are the one making all the money and they are the ones who are broke and didn't go to college

you're only 18, you have plenty of time. just don't rush into anything, enjoy life.

Just enjoy being young.......I thought i was ready for a serious relationship at your age.....i got pregnant when i was 17 and it wasn't easy....so slow down and enjoy being young.

Thanks for the advice everyone..and yea I do agree w/ alot of whats been said and I do appriciate the help but im not sure anymore..yes I am going to college,yes im young,yes to alot of other things but im not even thinking marriage and kids or nothing like that..when I say serious I mean something that is not going to last me 2 weeks and done....I want something steady then and only then everything else will come into play but yea once again thank you all for the help..

HAHAHA....aight for your inexperince that sucks im glad you going to collge but. TALK TO WOMEN MAKE FRIENDS WITH WOMEN..dude you going to be 25 and on this site because you wanted to be patient. and you being to wary of your past. talk to women and you wont have to worry about no exp. this way you feel alot comfatable with a new girl. i dont know what to say but good luck man.. and have fun.

OH and never ever tell a woman you wanna be serious let her do it. there is so much i should say but i got to get dressed...

OH and never ever tell a woman you wanna be serious let her do it. there is so much i should say but i got to get dressed...

appriciate the advice..but just so u know if u was refering to me I just turned 18 im not 25..

Sounds like youre not over her yet........and she is. She just wasnt "into you"....and maybe she wasnt ready to go to the next level.....who knows??? Its time for you to start fresh.....put on a smile...forget about women for 3 seconds and just be happy being you!!!

At your age you have raging hormones and you basically want to get laid. Men peak at 20 years old as far as there sexual drive goes. This gets a lot of guys in trouble because they are thinking with the wrong head. Concentrate more on your studies right now and get on your feet. You have very low bills right now. Build that nest egg and get that carreer in full swing before you get that bird to move in with you and then have to support a bunch of little peeps along with that new 2 story nest.