Yeah, what she said. ^^^^

Men who respect women won't want to have sex with them until they are married.

As far as I'm concerned, no man who wants to have sex with a woman outside marriage, respects her, so perhaps its time you looked at yourself, your values and views on life and relationships heh.

God would not want you to be sleeping around, he wants you to value and respect yourself and women.

"The bigger the mouth, the smaller the willy."

I wonder whether Mingle pays ppl like Redmist to keep us entertained so we don't bugger off?
He posts these things on an average of once a week (guestimating here) then ppl trample each other to comment.
He's English, so the least we could do is form a queue:
"An Englishman, even if he is alone, forms an orderly queue of one."

Anyways, I think he's on Mingle's payroll. With Krupa gone, they needed someone else to entertain us.

Gee, I've seen a lot of other guys who would have been much more interesting! I wonder if they have a Mingle Suggestion Box for Male Replacements? If I were them, I'd look into seeing how much Krupa wants to come back and PAY UP!!!

There are women on here that will put out alright man. Probably not for you on this forum though because you know what they say about Americans not getting irony.

Personally, I like your sense of humour and I'm sure that you will find a girl that does one day. The thing is though, there are so many pervs and weirdos on here that you can't just talk to them like this. They will tend to take it seriously if you don't get to know them a bit first.

Good luck.

I think it's hilarious. But you got a couple good points.
Drawback of (pretending to be) a wanker on the forums is that you can't interact normally if you wanna stick to the image of being an wanker.
Option would be several accounts, although that could complicate things.

Both sides have to be ready for a relationship, thats`s the thing. Have nothing to with appearance and stuff, really.

Well, that's not what he's talking about. Appearance does matter, at least to a certain extent. Women that I have met through this have said to me that I look and sound nice. If I came on here with a lame profile with ridiculous pictures of me with my paps out they would just think that I was an idiot. Doesn't mean that they aren't going to want to see the goods if we meet and hit it off though.

I got a girlfriend before by just writing her a letter and putting a CD in with it that was a recording of me playing the guitar and it had a photo of me on the cover. She told me later that she was interested because she thought that I was hot. She didn't "put out" straight away though and we got to know each other before jumping into bed together. The thing didn't work out in the end obviously, or I wouldn't be on here but don't kid yourself that women don't care if you are good looking or not because they do.

Well, you dress boring, which again makes you look boring. Even your haircut is boring. You can`t expect to find a woman this way. I wouldn`t date you if I were a woman. Shape up man or else, you will end up alooone. Handsome fella, so you will have no problem finding a woman if you dress a little different :)

There are woman here who I'm sure will "put out" and they are hiding in plain site too.
Heres a hint to where they are hiding. "If your looking for them you'll never find them."

Yeah, actually I've decided to grow my hair longer again since those photos were taken. Those pictures were taken at a weekend when I was visiting my family and I was only wearing sloppy old jeans and an old shirt. I usually wear a suit but I thought that the Jim Morrison lizard king one that is my usual outfit might make people think that I'm a bit sad and need to grow up.

To hell with it. I don't care anymore and the last girl that I dated thought that I looked cool in it. She said that she would like to straighten my hair but I'm not sure about that.

Basically, my "boring haircut" was functional. If you get a short back and sides number two you don't even need to comb it. I don't spend my time looking in a mirror and when I'm sitting on my own at home or taking the dog out I'm not too bothered but I have decided to make more effort with my appearance recently since I started dating again and I've bought new clothes.

I'd love it if someone could tell me where it came from about women not being into looks? Like who started that ridiculous rumor? Who are these women who only date ugly men?

There is a larger percentage of psychopaths among us than you might think. Not all psychopaths are dangerous or serial killers, but they all have difficulty relating to humans with normal emotional functioning.

Thinking that women should fall all over you or "put out" because you are good looking is very shallow. Using a Baphomet‎ for a profile picture will cut your chances with a lot of people, and even narrow them down to those who worship Satan or goths. Neither atheists or the religious would not respond well to that.

Paintcards, it is not a rumor. I see it everyday.

If you "see it everyday" and you are good looking (as you claim) then why are you not getting laid?

Oh that's right, that is the question you asked.

Okay, I'll tell you.... you need more than just good looks. How about a personality that does not depend and expect to flaunt their good looks?

In addition to good looks, what do you have?

Are you respectful to women?
Do you have a good occupation or money or home?
What are your intentions? Marriage or just to get laid?

All of these things matter.

If you just want to get laid, then perhaps you should find a hooker.

Oh, come one! Don't want to start another debate but does anyone here even know what Baphomet represents? I'm quite sure Redmist does. There are two interpretations, question could be: which one is his?

"Inquisition decided Baphomet was Satan incarnate.
In the ancient mystery schools of Europe, monstrous figures were often displayed outside temples and near sacred groves in order to scare off anyone who would let appearances alone deter them from their spiritual path. If a person showed true dedication to the seeking of knowledge, looking beyond the image and into the symbolism, then he or she was allowed access to the inner mysteries"
Raven Grimassi - Encyclopedia of Wicca & Witchcraft.

The same meaning can be said about the pentacle, however it is, as you say, ancient.

People TODAY (unfortunately) associate that symbol with cults and Satan.

The pentacle and the pentagram was used by Christians to ward of evil and witches.

But today most Christians believe it represents the Devil and the occult.

But the occult only means "the secret knowledge" so what's wrong with the occult?

Nothing.

But anything that is not "Christian" is percieved (by Christians) as evil.

A five pointed star (pentacle) is used as a shield even today by law enforcement, and it is all over our American flag.

Message to the cat. I don't get any because I don't have the self belief or the confidence to approach women. I spend too much time hating myself. But a philosopher once said: "Your greatest moment is the hour of great contempt." I intend to get better. So all you women better watch out!

Actually a 5 pointed star is a pentagram, a pentacle has a circle around it

Mostly an inverted pentagram/pentacle is associated with satanism. Which is also incorrect, although satanists might have nicked it.
When I still had my pagan & Wicca shop I sold inverted too (witches sometimes did buy them, symbol of 2nd degree)

Terribly off-topic, hihi. But we got a good excuse: Halloween is upon us, lol