Topic: Advice
lockhard13's photo
Sun 11/03/13 04:27 AM
New here just looking for constructive criticism.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Sun 11/03/13 04:35 AM
Imagine you check out a woman's profile and read what you've put there.
Seriously, try imagining that, and what you would do next.

lockhard13's photo
Sun 11/03/13 04:37 AM
Not think twice or worry about it, life's to short.

massiel's photo
Sun 11/03/13 04:48 AM
Eventhough you're only here for an encounter, you still need to describe yourself, your personality. Honestly if I were to be looking for an encounter, I wouldn't choose you because..... your profile doesn't say anything about the person that you are...

Well good luck in your search and hope this helped a bit flowerforyou

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Sun 11/03/13 06:41 AM

Not think twice or worry about it, life's to short.

Well, you can be that kind of guy, we're all different. But ... women might feel that life's too short to bother finding out about a guy who doesn't tell anything about himself other than that he's had it up to here (not very enticing!) and simply move on.
So if you want positive reactions, you may want to take the time to add a bit more text, about yourself, but also what you're looking for. Surely you can invest half an hour for a possible life-time of happiness with the right woman?!
:angel:

Good luck

PacificStar48's photo
Sun 11/03/13 08:52 AM
Comes off selfish, angry, and depressed. Might get you laid but that is not likely since you probably resent paying for it and most on this site are going to demand more than a peeved attitude to give it up.

Fix whatever it is that is eating you before you mess up and end up in jail. You might be dangerous, even get off on that, but in jail they will smell your weakness and eat you alive for getting old man.

Your right life is short and it is more than cheap encounters and a half effort at getting what you really want.

Journeyman236's photo
Sun 11/03/13 09:01 AM
Ask for an opinion & you will surely get one here! Maybe I'll have you guys rate me someday..:tongue:

PacificStar48's photo
Sun 11/03/13 09:13 AM
Might surprise you Journey. You might find out things about yourself and how people view you that you would not expect.

Journeyman236's photo
Sun 11/03/13 09:29 AM

Might surprise you Journey. You might find out things about yourself and how people view you that you would not expect.

Knowing this group I better not then..laugh
I agree that op needs to add more to his profile & tell more about himself.

no photo
Sun 11/03/13 10:05 AM
You need to fill out the details of your profile and add more information, what do you like to do and what kind of person are you looking for. You also need more photos. Good luck to you.

no photo
Sun 11/03/13 10:07 AM
if I were to be looking for an encounter, I wouldn't choose you


most of you ladies don't choose anyone anyway
{no offense}
so i wouldn't let that bother me personally pard

:laughing:

lockhard13's photo
Sun 11/03/13 08:11 PM
Actually completely not the case. I'm slow to warm up to people and have been told people take me wrong. But angry, depressed and everything else you said leads me to believe your an angry old lady who just rags on people. Not to mention you think you know what your talking about when infact your oblivious to the truth. So I say to you that I'd like to meet the man that ****ed you up cause he did a number.

BellaV's photo
Wed 11/06/13 10:02 AM
Edit your profile any way you want it. You don't need for everyone to know you. Just the right ones.

Have fun!:smile:

no photo
Wed 11/06/13 10:10 AM
Welcome to the Jungle..Best wishes.

PacificStar48's photo
Wed 11/06/13 11:06 AM

Actually completely not the case. I'm slow to warm up to people and have been told people take me wrong. But angry, depressed and everything else you said leads me to believe your an angry old lady who just rags on people. Not to mention you think you know what your talking about when infact your oblivious to the truth. So I say to you that I'd like to meet the man that ****ed you up cause he did a number.


Would be the first person to say that my opinion's about your profile are limited to what you put out there. Remember you asked for the rating. And you are admitting that you are often "taken wrong". Could it be because you put out a persona that suggests exactly what I said?

Someone that attacks someone for stating an observation insulting their relationships fits exactly how I evaluated this profile.

I am not angry. How you present yourself has no bearing on my life what so ever. You ask for me to pass the time saying what I see on a screen and I obliged. Nobody is ragging on you. If you think that I would add paranoid or maybe someone who doesn't like being seen for what they project.

Fortunately the people that have made me peg your persona are peer professionals, not personal relationships, that find this personality types in institutions/prisons, in unemployment offices, on the street wasting time on shelter computers or looking for a mark all the time demonstrating the same false bravado and distain for others this profile reflects.

If you are just a guy, who is only slow to warm up, you sure are ice cold on this profile. Change it or leave it makes no difference to e. I figure you will get what you deserve. Maybe it will be someone who wants to play with what you are putting out there but my guess is you will get minimal responses. Well maybe some hoping to sell you what you won't attract in a relationship with this demeanor.

PacificStar48's photo
Wed 11/06/13 11:10 AM


Might surprise you Journey. You might find out things about yourself and how people view you that you would not expect.

Knowing this group I better not then..laugh
I agree that op needs to add more to his profile & tell more about himself.


Actually I was thinking that you are well liked and desirable but just honoring your desire for friends and hanging out. If and when you consider otherwise I think you will get a lot of attention.