Why don't girls/women reply to a message in mingle2 ??? I don't understand. I have joined this site few days back and tried to contact many but nobody gives a reply. When I see some girls online,I message them but same again..don't get a reply..this is irritating. Please come forward guys and help me if you have any clue.

They don't reply because they're not interested in talking to you. Not to be rude, but it's not complicated; if I don't want to talk to someone, I ignore them. Keep trying until you find someone who's interested. Good luck.

Dude..... Lots of fake grlz accounts out here.....

It's because you're just looking for sex. This is a mainstream dating site. I can go on a casual sex site and loads of women will talk to me but on here it just isn't like that.

They probably see you as rude, pushy, whiney, maybe even insulting coming in and insisting attention because you just showed up. It is the holiday season maybe they are busy.

They are probably able to read and follow site rules.

They are probably not interested in an intimate encounter with someone who is unemployed and doesn't see any reason to make any commitment to use their body for your pleasure.

They probably are not interested in someone who is not even invested enough to post a photo or demonstrates any interests or history.

You need to read about netiquette; it is very rude to message some one you have not introduced yourself to my at least a minimum of a profile and a polite email first.

To name only a few reasons you are receiving a very cool welcome.

Agreed.

Also depends on the type of message you send. If someone sends a decent message, I usually reply, even if it's just to let them know I'm not interested, wish them luck nonetheless.
But I often get that many messages, that answering all would simply eat up too much time.
So no answer = no interest. Simple as that.

And this;
I like you so much, I wanna marry you --> bin
I like you so much, I wanna meet you --> bin
I like you so much, I wanna talk to you, this is my skype/ chat/ mail/ phone nr ---> bin

To all who had replied to my topic....

First of all I want to tell that I am an honest person,at least I have written in my profile,what I actually want.I haven't been dirty in any message that I have sent to girls. I saw girls who also want the same..but they didn't reply. I didn't understand the logic behind it.Yes I do agree that offering sex to a lady apart from a call girl can be rude and indecent but I have never offered that in my messages to anybody.I see many people here,who ask for friendship..you never know what he is actually thinking or wants!!! Why to become a hypocrite?I have asked for an intimate encounter in my profile,because I want that in my life to happen.Obviously I don't want only the physical intimacy but friendship too.My point is to keeping a relation with a lady who is ready for a physical relationship too after friendship.But the problem is I can't keep the relationship for marriage.Every love bonding ends up with marriage in our country,better say in our city.I don't believe in that because the physical nature and demands can be different from the mental demands.If you are sad,don't you feel hungry?Don't you feel sleepy?I do feel the urge to having an intimate encounter with a lady with whom I can share my views too.The basic thing is,I want to have such kind of relationship but main criteria is to matching the mental wavelengths..but please don't confuse it with girlfriend.After a relationship girlfriends become wife and mother first and then a good friend later if any time saved.
but last but not the least I have liked all the replies. You all said the facts. Specially I liked the illustration of Pacificstar48. Thank you ma'am.

Hmmm! Why no pic?
Well if you are not going to have a pic posted, then join the forums and let your dazzling personality shine through
Tons of women read the forums

Second..why jobless? That can be a huge turnoff as well as making you look suspicious..especially if you are sending foreign women emails

Think about it

Yeah, a profile with no photos of you, and listing your profession as "jobless" won't get you many takers. I don't reply to profiles that lack photos, period. If I can take the time to post mine, so can anyone who wants to talk to me. It also looks creepy and suspicious as if you're hiding something.

Even if a woman is into an intimate encounter, she should want to know what the person she's hooking up with looks like....

Oh and I noticed that you drink and smoke often, you don't believe in god and you are looking for sex [is this for real?] I don't think thats very appealing to many

Just saying..cuz you asked

Agreed.

@ Pacific School him girl

@Ronit you got your answers. No need to explain to anyone the who's and why's. Peace out

i have a feeling that i answered this before , but i can't find my post

FOX I saw 2 different post posts yesterday.

That's the straight truth right there. May be hard to take, but there it is.

Why do people always have to bring religion and money into it? Did Jesus have a job? Well, yes but that was just because his dad was a carpenter and taught him a trade.

That's what you need. It's something to fall back on when none of your plans work out. If Jesus could get a job on a building site, then so could you if you had a trade but as an unskilled labourer, well, I don't think that you could start a religion.

I am a freelancer.

Yes it is sad that Religion and money were brought up but its the truth so deal with it!

He asked a question an I assume he wanted honesty