Has anyone else ever fallen in love with someone who doesn't reciprocate affection but doesn't reject you because they're really nice so you keep trying to win them even though it's futile? Any advice from anybody would be much appreciated

Yeah, find someone who like you back. Its not fair to yourself to like someone who does not like you. My advice is to move on to happiness!

It sucks dont it. Im right there with you.

Im living THAT right now dude,,just be the BEST FRIEND you can be, and maybe she will see YOU in a better light, but PLEASE, lose your REAL HOPES, as "SHE" will probably NEVER
change her mind,,but to keep her in your heart, FRIENDS are
FOREVER,,,thats the BEST I can tell you, as it is also my best for ME!!! Good luck and great success to YOUR finding PEACE.

Terry

ya i gave it my all, and she was passin it back to her gal pal.!!!! lol

My Nurse, lol..lol

ur my bestest friend

It's pretty often. Specially in a cold and dry society in which the main objective is make money to pay debts.
it's frustrating when u come from a society where people is affectionate per se.
The key is not change what u r, if the other person does not realize ur value, he/she loses.
Now after a while u have to step away because for me it would be humiliating being behind this person like a dog, and just get a nap in the back for being a good boy.

stay true to yourself and you will find someone on the same spiritual plane as yourself

He really broke this situation down. I wouldn't want to be involved with someone who gives "one-sided love"

I think that really sucks!!!
Why even stay or want too?

Hey sexy lil bored!!!

Ah, youth. I remember it well.

Lizard-as you said, it is futile. Keep a place in your heart for her as it is difficult to shut down true feelings. Then dust yourself off and get back out there.

M

Yeah,I remember those days also. I dusted myself off so many times I ruined all my clothes.

Thnx 4 the advice peoples, my biggest problem is this person is to nice to directly reject me so i just kina sit waiting for her to call

I've been there before....

Who hasn't?

This is not the movies. It's real life .....

She'll never change her opinion of you
No matter WHAT you do or say.....

Better to just move on, accept things as they are,
Find someone who'll love you as you want to be loved.

It's hard. I know. especially when you have to see her every day
Yes, I know whereof you speak
I worked with a woman I was crazy about,
But wasn't interested in me that way.

I managed to come to terms with the situation.
We're good friends, and that's all it will ever will be.

Just be glad she's your friend.
You can never have too many friends.

Have more respect for yourself then that! Believe me. Yes, you love her, and you wish she would love you back, but you should be looking for someone where you won't be overlooked as an option. You shouldn't have to try to win her over and over again, especially if you know the only reason she isn't rejecting you is because she's "too nice". A beautiful, perfect girl will fall for you and only you... you just have to wait for it. It'll all be worth it in the end.

thats uplifting i suppose...

still I just love her some much and its like every time im ready to give up she calls me and we talk on the phone about trivialities and I fall for her anew

contrary 2 poplar belief relationships are not 50/50....... both have to give 100%....... move on dude