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Topic: Baby's and profile pics?
teebee79's photo
Tue 12/03/13 03:26 AM
@crystal I get what you're saying.
I didn't think that far into it though... My pet peeve is the initial picture. The head profile that draws you in.
This has the opposite effect for me.

lionsbrew's photo
Tue 12/03/13 03:31 AM


Can someone explain me whats d problem in having kids pic??? I rather believe that is being truthful as they are telling that if you think of dating us we also have kid along us... so know that fact

Read the topic, lots of someones have explained.

I also understand that kids are part of the package, still doesn't explain why you have to put their pictures on here.
And does the kid even know? In Lionsbrew's case he's almost 14. Would he like having his face on a dating site for every nut-job to see? And he's not really old enough to judge for himself. What does his mum think about his and how will the kid feel when he's 20 and finds out you put his pictures on dating sites?
(If I'd found out my ex did this, I'd be livid!)

I've got two kids myself, no way in he|| would I ever put their pictures online! I'm very careful where I post my OWN pictures, let alone my kids'.
I respect my kids' privacy and I wouldn't show pictures of them unless I was somewhere further down the line of really getting to know someone.
I wouldn't introduce them to every Tom Dick and Harry either, why bother them with my love life, until there's a real special someone. So why would I show their pictures? I feel it's an infringement of their privacy and lack of respect.

Kids' pictures are family business, meaning some privacy should be involved, they're not dating-site material.
I would go as far as to say: Ask yourself why you have this urge to expose your kids? I think it's ego driven, sort of like needing the acknowledgement that you're a (good) parent by showing it off to the world.
Like someone said, I think you're a better parent if you are more careful with pictures.
I'm very very proud of both my kids too, but to me that's all the more reason to be careful.


Actually I did ask him and her. My reasoning of showing how proud I am of him. He is a part of me that will continue after I'm gone. As a lot have said this isn't just a dating site either. A lot are here to socialize myself included. My son already has his own facebook page and the like. I've always been a man with nothing to hide. I wear my soul on my sleeves and I have been raising my son the same way. Probably is a bit ego driven. But I have a great kid whom I am very proud of and Yes I would like the world to know how awesome my son is. Just like if I have a beautiful woman as my partner I will want to show her off to the world too. Maybe it is a bit conceited but oh well. Just who I am. smokin

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Tue 12/03/13 03:52 AM



Can someone explain me whats d problem in having kids pic??? I rather believe that is being truthful as they are telling that if you think of dating us we also have kid along us... so know that fact

Read the topic, lots of someones have explained.

I also understand that kids are part of the package, still doesn't explain why you have to put their pictures on here.
And does the kid even know? In Lionsbrew's case he's almost 14. Would he like having his face on a dating site for every nut-job to see? And he's not really old enough to judge for himself. What does his mum think about his and how will the kid feel when he's 20 and finds out you put his pictures on dating sites?
(If I'd found out my ex did this, I'd be livid!)

I've got two kids myself, no way in he|| would I ever put their pictures online! I'm very careful where I post my OWN pictures, let alone my kids'.
I respect my kids' privacy and I wouldn't show pictures of them unless I was somewhere further down the line of really getting to know someone.
I wouldn't introduce them to every Tom Dick and Harry either, why bother them with my love life, until there's a real special someone. So why would I show their pictures? I feel it's an infringement of their privacy and lack of respect.

Kids' pictures are family business, meaning some privacy should be involved, they're not dating-site material.
I would go as far as to say: Ask yourself why you have this urge to expose your kids? I think it's ego driven, sort of like needing the acknowledgement that you're a (good) parent by showing it off to the world.
Like someone said, I think you're a better parent if you are more careful with pictures.
I'm very very proud of both my kids too, but to me that's all the more reason to be careful.


Actually I did ask him and her. My reasoning of showing how proud I am of him. He is a part of me that will continue after I'm gone. As a lot have said this isn't just a dating site either. A lot are here to socialize myself included. My son already has his own facebook page and the like. I've always been a man with nothing to hide. I wear my soul on my sleeves and I have been raising my son the same way. Probably is a bit ego driven. But I have a great kid whom I am very proud of and Yes I would like the world to know how awesome my son is. Just like if I have a beautiful woman as my partner I will want to show her off to the world too. Maybe it is a bit conceited but oh well. Just who I am. smokin

Nothing wrong with being proud of your kid :) Very good thing!
I can relate to that, although my own kids are a bit older. Those feelings remain :)

no photo
Tue 12/03/13 04:58 AM


Can someone explain me whats d problem in having kids pic??? I rather believe that is being truthful as they are telling that if you think of dating us we also have kid along us... so know that fact

Read the topic, lots of someones have explained.

I also understand that kids are part of the package, still doesn't explain why you have to put their pictures on here.
And does the kid even know? In Lionsbrew's case he's almost 14. Would he like having his face on a dating site for every nut-job to see? And he's not really old enough to judge for himself. What does his mum think about his and how will the kid feel when he's 20 and finds out you put his pictures on dating sites?
(If I'd found out my ex did this, I'd be livid!)

I've got two kids myself, no way in he|| would I ever put their pictures online! I'm very careful where I post my OWN pictures, let alone my kids'.
I respect my kids' privacy and I wouldn't show pictures of them unless I was somewhere further down the line of really getting to know someone.
I wouldn't introduce them to every Tom Dick and Harry either, why bother them with my love life, until there's a real special someone. So why would I show their pictures? I feel it's an infringement of their privacy and lack of respect.

Kids' pictures are family business, meaning some privacy should be involved, they're not dating-site material.
I would go as far as to say: Ask yourself why you have this urge to expose your kids? I think it's ego driven, sort of like needing the acknowledgement that you're a (good) parent by showing it off to the world.
Like someone said, I think you're a better parent if you are more careful with pictures.
I'm very very proud of both my kids too, but to me that's all the more reason to be careful.


:thumbsup: Well said.

jacktrades's photo
Tue 12/03/13 06:03 AM

I have a picture on here with my son. Hes part of the package that is Lionsbrew. Its okay though if I get passed by because of it. I wouldn't want to be with a woman who can't accept my family is part of who I am.flowerforyou

I knew I liked lionsbrew for a reason your a very honorable man sir!

no photo
Tue 12/03/13 02:30 PM


Can someone explain me whats d problem in having kids pic??? I rather believe that is being truthful as they are telling that if you think of dating us we also have kid along us... so know that fact

Read the topic, lots of someones have explained.

I also understand that kids are part of the package, still doesn't explain why you have to put their pictures on here.
And does the kid even know? In Lionsbrew's case he's almost 14. Would he like having his face on a dating site for every nut-job to see? And he's not really old enough to judge for himself. What does his mum think about his and how will the kid feel when he's 20 and finds out you put his pictures on dating sites?
(If I'd found out my ex did this, I'd be livid!)

I've got two kids myself, no way in he|| would I ever put their pictures online! I'm very careful where I post my OWN pictures, let alone my kids'.
I respect my kids' privacy and I wouldn't show pictures of them unless I was somewhere further down the line of really getting to know someone.
I wouldn't introduce them to every Tom Dick and Harry either, why bother them with my love life, until there's a real special someone. So why would I show their pictures? I feel it's an infringement of their privacy and lack of respect.

Kids' pictures are family business, meaning some privacy should be involved, they're not dating-site material.
I would go as far as to say: Ask yourself why you have this urge to expose your kids? I think it's ego driven, sort of like needing the acknowledgement that you're a (good) parent by showing it off to the world.
Like someone said, I think you're a better parent if you are more careful with pictures.
I'm very very proud of both my kids too, but to me that's all the more reason to be careful.


Well said. Parents do not have to have their kid's pics on here to show they're important.

Mungvi's photo
Tue 12/03/13 02:44 PM
Better to put a pic of our own as a profile pic. This indicates that we are serious with what we are and not just fooling and flirting around.

peekapoo31's photo
Tue 12/03/13 02:53 PM
I personally am not turned off by seeing a picture of a man's children on here. I love kids. I, myself, have great kids. But. I do not nor will I ever approve of putting my children's picture online in any association with my love/dating life. I do disclose, in fact, that I have children. I do not volunteer names or anything, unless I am asked. I actually do not bring my kids into the mix of a relationship unless I feel it is getting to be of a very serious nature. If you bring your children in the middle of every relationship you have, they get hurt as well, should it not work out.

msharmony's photo
Tue 12/03/13 06:10 PM
I choose also not to post my kids pic on this site, I have on other sites,, but it depends upon the type of site and the crowd that is there to be honest

as far as whether they mind, I assure you, they are hams who enjoy being seen, wouldn't bother them a bit,, so long as it is a pic WITH ME,,,

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