Topic: Need Some Prayers, Friends
Cutiepieforyou's photo
Mon 02/10/14 08:38 AM

Start to pick myself up and get dealt with another blow. We just found out my mom has an incurable disease and all's they can do is give her medication to prolong her life but it works on less then 50% of people. sad



I am very sorry to read this. flowerforyou

sticko1234's photo
Mon 02/10/14 03:22 PM
the best thing to do is just get in the bible and read constantly

The good lord will carry your burdens and make it easier. Also

you have a covenant with God if married in a church. This is Gods

battle if you will just stand to get your wife back and don't give up

in time he will bring her back just believe . You have to pray and

forgive her . she is not you enemy Satan is and where does he attack

us her mind. You have to pray that God bring her back , change her

hardened heart and tear down the hostile walls she built against you and your marriage. do a search on line for standing spouses rejoice
ministries.org is a good one

sticko1234's photo
Mon 02/10/14 03:24 PM
Edited by sticko1234 on Mon 02/10/14 03:24 PM
http://rejoiceministries.org/


sticko1234's photo
Tue 02/11/14 07:12 AM
“Should I send my prodigal spouse something for Valentine's Day?” Please do not send flowers simply because Charlyne did. You need to follow Charlyne's example in only one way, by asking the Holy Spirit to guide you in what you should or should not do. When you follow God's direction, and not man's instruction, you will never be wrong.

I wish you a Happy Valentine's Day on behalf of your prodigal spouse. The person for whom you stand and pray for may not be able to say that right now, but I can promise that you are on their heart this very week.
Because He lives,

sticko1234's photo
Wed 02/12/14 07:42 AM
The Thing To Do
To us it is no secret, what the Lord wants to do.
Restore our marriage and make us happy, too.
What He's done for millions, He's wanting to do,
Restore our marriage, make our family new.

We have our doubts, think it can't be done,
When we trust in Jesus, He'll make us one.
It matters not how bad the past has been,
Let the Blood of Jesus cover all your sins.

Others will say divorce is the thing to do.
Even a court may say the marriage is through,
Our Lord is wanting His perfect will to do,
Restore our marriage, make our family new.

To us it is no secret, what the Lord wants to do,
Restore our marriage and make us happy too.
What He's done for millions, He's wanting to do,
Restore our marriage, make our family new.

Lpdon's photo
Thu 02/13/14 01:17 AM

(((Lpdon)))flowers :heart: flowers


Thanks, this Friday is going to be a little tough so will March 2nd (would have been our one year anniversary). sad

Lpdon's photo
Thu 02/13/14 01:19 AM


Start to pick myself up and get dealt with another blow. We just found out my mom has an incurable disease and all's they can do is give her medication to prolong her life but it works on less then 50% of people. sad



I am very sorry to read this. flowerforyou


It's life.

Lpdon's photo
Thu 02/13/14 01:22 AM

the best thing to do is just get in the bible and read constantly

The good lord will carry your burdens and make it easier. Also

you have a covenant with God if married in a church. This is Gods

battle if you will just stand to get your wife back and don't give up

in time he will bring her back just believe . You have to pray and

forgive her . she is not you enemy Satan is and where does he attack

us her mind. You have to pray that God bring her back , change her

hardened heart and tear down the hostile walls she built against you and your marriage. do a search on line for standing spouses rejoice
ministries.org is a good one


I am over religion, and have been for years. Some horrible things happened to me a long time ago, if there was really a God things like that wouldn't happen and people wouldn't have pain and go through hurt. We wouldn't have all this death and destruction and crime.

I appreciate your posts but I have serious issues with Religion and probably always will.

Duster4x4's photo
Thu 02/13/14 06:25 AM
Sad story, but life goes ups and down...keep a brave and trusting heart you can to it...may be it will be better for you tomarrow.. God bleessed Amen..

Lpdon's photo
Fri 02/14/14 03:42 PM

Sad story, but life goes ups and down...keep a brave and trusting heart you can to it...may be it will be better for you tomarrow.. God bleessed Amen..


Thanks, I do appreciate it. I think after Valentines Day (needless to say I am having a rough day today and it is killing me inside and outside) and our Anniversary March 2nd I will be much better.

Lpdon's photo
Sat 02/22/14 12:44 AM
Woohoo made it through Valentines Day with a little help from Valium and Xanax, and I was really starting to feel better. The next day that is going to be hard is March 2nd which would have been our first anniversary (so if anyone will be on that night might need some people to talk to :(

On the downside I found her old cell phone. We upgraded in December, it feel behind the Rabbit cage and was able to get into it, she had it password protected once I got past that it felt like I got hit in the stomach. There were nude pictures she was sending and pictures of Lingerie I bought her in November for us to use. Then her and this guy were texting like 30 times daily with I miss you, I love you, I need you, sexting. They also were sending each other pictured of wedding ring sets for each other. Which makes no sense to me because she cheated with five other guys I know about, but this makes six and this one seems to really hurt. The others were just random sex situations (FWBS) but this is a romantic, sex marriage thing and for some reason it has really crushed me, worse then I am have been. I am back to the emotional wreck I was right after she left, and I don't know why because I was honestly in the process of getting over her!


Cutiepieforyou's photo
Sat 02/22/14 02:37 AM

Woohoo made it through Valentines Day with a little help from Valium and Xanax, and I was really starting to feel better. The next day that is going to be hard is March 2nd which would have been our first anniversary (so if anyone will be on that night might need some people to talk to :(

On the downside I found her old cell phone. We upgraded in December, it feel behind the Rabbit cage and was able to get into it, she had it password protected once I got past that it felt like I got hit in the stomach. There were nude pictures she was sending and pictures of Lingerie I bought her in November for us to use. Then her and this guy were texting like 30 times daily with I miss you, I love you, I need you, sexting. They also were sending each other pictured of wedding ring sets for each other. Which makes no sense to me because she cheated with five other guys I know about, but this makes six and this one seems to really hurt. The others were just random sex situations (FWBS) but this is a romantic, sex marriage thing and for some reason it has really crushed me, worse then I am have been. I am back to the emotional wreck I was right after she left, and I don't know why because I was honestly in the process of getting over her!




I know that you are feeling really bad right now, but in the future you will see that you are better off without someone that you can't trust. You deserve better than what she was giving you.

Lpdon's photo
Sat 02/22/14 02:41 AM


Woohoo made it through Valentines Day with a little help from Valium and Xanax, and I was really starting to feel better. The next day that is going to be hard is March 2nd which would have been our first anniversary (so if anyone will be on that night might need some people to talk to :(

On the downside I found her old cell phone. We upgraded in December, it feel behind the Rabbit cage and was able to get into it, she had it password protected once I got past that it felt like I got hit in the stomach. There were nude pictures she was sending and pictures of Lingerie I bought her in November for us to use. Then her and this guy were texting like 30 times daily with I miss you, I love you, I need you, sexting. They also were sending each other pictured of wedding ring sets for each other. Which makes no sense to me because she cheated with five other guys I know about, but this makes six and this one seems to really hurt. The others were just random sex situations (FWBS) but this is a romantic, sex marriage thing and for some reason it has really crushed me, worse then I am have been. I am back to the emotional wreck I was right after she left, and I don't know why because I was honestly in the process of getting over her!




I know that you are feeling really bad right now, but in the future you will see that you are better off without someone that you can't trust. You deserve better than what she was giving you.


I already know that I am and will be better off without her but right now it still hurts and knowing that doesn't take the pain away.

no photo
Mon 02/24/14 10:32 AM
Take one second... One minute... One hour... One day... at a time...

Brightest Blessings~flowerforyou

sweetprincess68's photo
Tue 02/25/14 12:02 AM
If you think about suicide i will kick your butt. It is not a way out. trust me i have been in your shoes. turn your eyes to God he will help you

hugs

michelleflowerforyou

Lpdon's photo
Sun 03/02/14 03:10 AM
Well, Happy Anniversary to ummmmm not me! sad

Lpdon's photo
Sun 03/02/14 03:12 AM

Take one second... One minute... One hour... One day... at a time...

Brightest Blessings~flowerforyou


Thank you drinks

Lpdon's photo
Sun 03/02/14 03:18 AM

If you think about suicide i will kick your butt. It is not a way out. trust me i have been in your shoes. turn your eyes to God he will help you

hugs

michelleflowerforyou


Not even a consideration. I wont let that Sociopath ruin my life anymore. Yea I've come to realize it's probably gonna hurt for a while, but better I find out now then 5 years when I'm more invested.

PacificStar48's photo
Sun 03/02/14 08:07 AM


If you think about suicide i will kick your butt. It is not a way out. trust me i have been in your shoes. turn your eyes to God he will help you

hugs

michelleflowerforyou


Not even a consideration. I wont let that Sociopath ruin my life anymore. Yea I've come to realize it's probably gonna hurt for a while, but better I find out now then 5 years when I'm more invested.


This is the kind of thinking that will turn your life around.

Everyone has people come into their lives at one point or another and pretty much up end things. But you live and learn. Yea it can make you pretty miserable until you realize that good relationships don't make you make you emotionally, physically, financially, socially; lol all the "ally" words on them but a happy well rounded person that just feels good and can stand with them or independently. Once you get stung you have the motivation to self preserve more so; in effect actually doing you a favor making you stronger in the long run.

Lpdon's photo
Tue 03/25/14 09:19 PM



If you think about suicide i will kick your butt. It is not a way out. trust me i have been in your shoes. turn your eyes to God he will help you

hugs

michelleflowerforyou


Not even a consideration. I wont let that Sociopath ruin my life anymore. Yea I've come to realize it's probably gonna hurt for a while, but better I find out now then 5 years when I'm more invested.


This is the kind of thinking that will turn your life around.

Everyone has people come into their lives at one point or another and pretty much up end things. But you live and learn. Yea it can make you pretty miserable until you realize that good relationships don't make you make you emotionally, physically, financially, socially; lol all the "ally" words on them but a happy well rounded person that just feels good and can stand with them or independently. Once you get stung you have the motivation to self preserve more so; in effect actually doing you a favor making you stronger in the long run.


Yea, but a good relationship is hard to find!