Is it my pic or my profile or even my location that I haven't been so lucky yet?

Being honest, I thought you were a guy in that photo and i'm not joking!

Well that will have boosted her self-confidence

you sometimes have to be cruel to be kind, I'm sure she will appreciate the honesty.

Wow,ok.What makes u think that m a guy,what gives u that Idea?Tnx for ur honesty.

Well have a good look at your photo? I don't see anything feminine about it at all? I'm not having a go at you, but you did ask us to be honest, didn't you?

Ok,I guess I got to change my pic.Tnx for ur input.

I didn't think you looked like a guy when I saw the pic. You look sporty with the baseball cap on. As for your profile my advice would be to add more. Talk more about yourself, post more pics and interests. I don't know about other guys but I don't usually contact a women unless I have something to say. The more they write the more I have to talk about if I contact her. I've also noticed that the more active you are on this site the more you get out of it, so use everything, gl

You look gorgeous, no worries :-)

I saw both pics...This one looks great..
Welcome and best wishes.

nothing bad to say about your profile.but it seens to be missing something.add more details and yeah... I give you 4 stars..

Hey~ With the hat and glasses, it's hard to see your face~ that combined with the short profile might discourage people from contacting you. :) Good luck!

I don't think you look like a guy at all, I honestly don't know what that guy was talking about.

I just think it's the glasses and hat since it's covering your face and probably hiding your beauty :)

Thank u all,much appreciated.

Hi they seem to like to see your eyes in the pic. the profile is a little short. more interest, more things you like to do... but welcome to mingle2..Stay Sweet

Hi they seem to like to see your eyes in the pic. the profile is a little short. more interest, more things you like to do... but welcome to mingle2..Stay Sweet.. i think saying no pervs might attract them... just my opinion..

You went for a 'tough girl' picture, which might work well on an A4 size page, not so much so as a thumbnail-sized picture.
At that size it is indeed not clear to see if your male or female. In some cases size does matter, and certainly the case with small pictures. So find one that works well at thumbnail size!

Add more text, esp. what you're looking for in a partner. And maybe "god fearing" scares ppl off, although it seems to be normal for Africans to say this, as if it's an asset?

Good luck

Your very attractive,it would be nice to see your eyes and your smile.Your profile is great you come across as smart and self assured.I'm sure very soon tons emails will be coming your way.Be picky you have a lot to offer someone.

Ask her to put the first photo she had as her profile pic and then you'll see what i'm talking about?

Really like all the art work in your profile