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I can't even get laid. I'm stuck going through an involuntary sexless lent -- think the movie 40 Days 40 Nights but in my case giving up sex for lent isn't my choice. I also had sexless lents the last 3 yrs in a row (thankfully I wasnt celibate that whole time period but I did go through a year and a half of total sexual celibacy, not my choice, I was 60 lbs overswollen from nephritis and was physically handicapped from the excessive swelling in my legs).
I keep getting stood up. The farthest I got all year was an actual date, but I paid $65 for a sitter when im in huge debts, just to have the guy tell me he wouldn't be seeing me again because he wants marriage very soon and he doesnt see me to have marriage potential. Looking back, he wouldn't even go farther than a light kiss, pulled away when I tried to kiss goodbye. Oh and a while before that obviously unsuccessful date, I did meet a guy who I'd been talking to but he literally tried to grope me when my small child was in the same public area (oh heck no) and once I was alone with him he made it very obvious he was just looking for a quickie. I actually turned it down because I didn't feel like being a last minute cheap whore. He's a cop too. Oh and he never took me on an actual date either. But he's the closest ive gotten to a hookup in a while now. Every other guy has been totally frigid (where's the happy medium here??) or refuses to meet me or ditches out on me. The stand-ups are astronomically more frequent than the average girl gets...yes I looked up stats on it, because im a nerd and I had nothing better when I was stood up a few of those times. |
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my god!
if those are your real pics,i dont see why people should not want you.... good luck for the future |
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It's because it's not all about looks. I would not have wanted to marry a handsome man who whined and complained a lot.
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Damb this is getting good.Iam just going to pull me up a seat and watch the show. next?
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Cause and effect. I didn't start whining until I got burned a number of times
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Everyone goes through the same process, some even more than others. The difference is what one does after. Do you complain about it or do something to resolve the issue? In my experience, complaining does nothing to improve any situation.
I've come across a number of your posts, and if I remember correctly, all of the ones I've read is a complaint about something. You have a lot going for you, and you do claim to be intelligent. Use them to your advantage. |
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Cause and effect. I didn't start whining until I got burned a number of times lol... so does the whining help? |
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slow down---if the pictures are really you they will come to you---we men are attracted to eye candy---its the mans job to find you--- we are hunters by nature---''attraction is not a choice'' eye candy will not keep a man forever---he has to be emotional connected to you that takes time---''read up about us get to know what we all about'' a good example is the book ''act like a lady--think like a man'' by steve harvey--''if you want real love commitment great sex and real intimacy HE HAS TO EARN IT'' like i said learn more about us and stop running around in the dark--the connection in life that makes us fully human is the heart to heart connection-good luck-
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I try to resolve the issue then when that doesn't work I complain in private to my best friend or on message boards. And I waited for guys to come to me but all that got me was a year and a half of involuntary celibacy and a few cobwebs up near my cervix. The logic of "lean back" makes sense theoretically but unfortunately it's backfired on me
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I know what you mean, princess!
Honestly, I'm done with online dating. I think there is a "mentality" to it. Like the date isn't real to some of them so it's ok to stand people up or just be an a$$ to people. Now... I only date in real time...forget online |
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Edited by
no1phD
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Sat 03/15/14 08:55 AM
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hi. princess.. oh yes the name so original... doesn't say high expectations at all..lol.. maybe you just need a more confident man... some men are intimidated by a woman's looks.... maybe you need to be . the pursuer.. after all if I need something I go out and get it.... I'm sure it can't be very hard for you to get laid....lol
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I try to resolve the issue then when that doesn't work I complain in private to my best friend or on message boards. And I waited for guys to come to me but all that got me was a year and a half of involuntary celibacy and a few cobwebs up near my cervix. The logic of "lean back" makes sense theoretically but unfortunately it's backfired on me WOW Really? Really? WOW A real WOMAN does not whine, bi*ch and moan the way you have been doing in your posts. No wonder men are afraid! H*ll if I were a man I would run for the hills too. Some things should be left off a dating forum if you are truly seeking a real relationship. WOW I am still trying to figure out your logic...Doubt that will happen..WOW |
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I know what you mean, princess! Honestly, I'm done with online dating. I think there is a "mentality" to it. Like the date isn't real to some of them so it's ok to stand people up or just be an a$$ to people. Now... I only date in real time...forget online Good for you teebee79 but I miss you're funny comments and good advice you gave me few times. I hope everything is going good for you. Stop by once in a while  Princess: Don't let men put you down! we as woman can be stronger than them in some ways..Remember they go far with you as long as you let them.Don't get me wrong, I love men but I don't like when they mistreat me...Just think positive and you will find the right men out there, It takes time. Best luck to you dear
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Edited by
Leigh2154
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Sat 03/15/14 09:08 AM
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I can't even get laid. I'm stuck going through an involuntary sexless lent -- think the movie 40 Days 40 Nights but in my case giving up sex for lent isn't my choice. I also had sexless lents the last 3 yrs in a row (thankfully I wasnt celibate that whole time period but I did go through a year and a half of total sexual celibacy, not my choice, I was 60 lbs overswollen from nephritis and was physically handicapped from the excessive swelling in my legs). I keep getting stood up. The farthest I got all year was an actual date, but I paid $65 for a sitter when im in huge debts, just to have the guy tell me he wouldn't be seeing me again because he wants marriage very soon and he doesnt see me to have marriage potential. Looking back, he wouldn't even go farther than a light kiss, pulled away when I tried to kiss goodbye. Oh and a while before that obviously unsuccessful date, I did meet a guy who I'd been talking to but he literally tried to grope me when my small child was in the same public area (oh heck no) and once I was alone with him he made it very obvious he was just looking for a quickie. I actually turned it down because I didn't feel like being a last minute cheap whore. He's a cop too. Oh and he never took me on an actual date either. But he's the closest ive gotten to a hookup in a while now. Every other guy has been totally frigid (where's the happy medium here??) or refuses to meet me or ditches out on me. The stand-ups are astronomically more frequent than the average girl gets...yes I looked up stats on it, because im a nerd and I had nothing better when I was stood up a few of those times. Stop throwing yourself at them....Men like their women to be whores in the bedroom and ladies in public...You're scaring the chit out of every guy you meet...Tone it down a bit,,,, |
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..ohh.. princess I wouldn't file charges against you.. I took an oath.. I'm here to serve..lol... don't give up.. for every Apple' there is a tree...
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Mystery solved! :)
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Mystery solved! :) 
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Noticed the pictures came down...maybe THAT wasn't really her.
My opinion, (for what it's worth), if that was truly you in the photos...maybe try working on your inner beauty...if there is any. The postings you have put here are not very attractive at all. You say you don't want to be treated like a cheap whore...so quit acting like that...just saying. Concentrate on your child and changing your attitude. A positive attitude is much more attractive! |
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Edited for insults and retaliations.
soufie Site Moderator |
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i have one final thing to say---YOU ARE RECYCLING FAVORITE FEELINGS AND REINFORCING OLD CHILDHOOD BELIEFS---THE SAD THING IS MOST CHOSE TO STAY STUCK--THE PAY OFF ''POOR ME'' ''AINT IT AWFULL''----THE PROBLEM IS NOT ''OUT THERE'' ITS NEVER ONE HANDED WE ALL HAVE LIMITING BELIEFS--- UNTILL YOU SEE YOUR PART ENJOY THE NEGATIVE FEELINGS EVERY SWEET MOUTH FULL----
I LIKE MY FIRST ANSWER BEST HOW EVER SOMETIMES TRYING TO BE GENTLE DOES NOT WORK...
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