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Topic: does love still exist in todays time ??
travismiller1234's photo
Sat 03/22/14 08:10 AM
hi just wondered peoples views on love does it still exist in todays world cos i cant seem too find any??

Crys876's photo
Sat 03/22/14 08:14 AM
It exists
hard to find sometimes
keep yourself open and you'll find it

SGuard1's photo
Sat 03/22/14 08:36 AM
In my view, the true understanding of being in love or being with your soulmate has been clouded darkly, by tv and movies and peer pressure, people seem to have cold hearts, fleshly desires more than what is needed to build a relationship, but i believe there are still concious people out there looking and wanting to find true love... there is always hope :)

travismiller1234's photo
Sat 03/22/14 08:55 AM
yer i was raised if u dont see a future with the woman dont lead her on its just in todays world it is hard more so cos of my age i was raised by a roman catholic latin italian mother

no1phD's photo
Sat 03/22/14 08:57 AM
.. yeah just keep flipping those rocks over.. you're bound to find it under one of them...hi....:smile:

travismiller1234's photo
Sat 03/22/14 08:59 AM
yer it is hard tho cos im probaley the only 18 year old male who would rather settle down now and any girls my age dont wont that so i ask a woman older than myself out but they dont ever take me serious ??

teebee79's photo
Sat 03/22/14 09:19 AM
Yes! I joke about it but I'm a hopeless romantic..for other people!
eventually Id like to fall in love! and I will :)

teebee79's photo
Sat 03/22/14 09:22 AM

yer it is hard tho cos im probaley the oInly 18 year old male who would rather settle down now and any girls my age dont wont that so i ask a woman older than myself out but they dont ever take me serious ??


Older women aren't taking you seriously because you haven't lived yet... If I complain about healthcare costs, you have no idea what Id be talking about!

pkh's photo
Sat 03/22/14 09:22 AM
Yes it does never lose hope, keep believing

msharmony's photo
Sat 03/22/14 09:24 AM

In my view, the true understanding of being in love or being with your soulmate has been clouded darkly, by tv and movies and peer pressure, people seem to have cold hearts, fleshly desires more than what is needed to build a relationship, but i believe there are still concious people out there looking and wanting to find true love... there is always hope :)



THIS ^ I was going to say I think media has convoluted what 'love' is to promote 'romance' instead,, and likewise our educational system is restricted to teaching only the anatomy of lust

there aren't enough examples of love, just lust and romance and 'good timey' type stuff that people confuse for love,,,

but I do believe there are those who have seen amazing examples at home and through their families who understand love much better than most,

Crys876's photo
Sat 03/22/14 09:30 AM

Yes! I joke about it but I'm a hopeless romantic..for other people!
eventually Id like to fall in love! and I will :)


me too.

Crys876's photo
Sat 03/22/14 09:31 AM

yer it is hard tho cos im probaley the only 18 year old male who would rather settle down now and any girls my age dont wont that so i ask a woman older than myself out but they dont ever take me serious ??


your the only 18YO I know who wants that

travismiller1234's photo
Sat 03/22/14 09:32 AM
teebee79 you wouldnt have to complain cos it would of alraedy been payed for i work hard :-)

and msharmony thats true think my genaration has a diloded view on love they think saying love means u love them there wrong tho its the actions and things u do for the woman to show that u appreatice her thats love :-)

no1phD's photo
Sat 03/22/14 09:33 AM
.. my advice my honest advice.. I would do a little more growing.. experience what life has to truly offer.. then when you're ready.. you will have more to offer that special person.. just my thought.. enjoy life you're young... there's going to be plenty of time to be serious... believe me.... sincerely PhD.

travismiller1234's photo
Sat 03/22/14 09:37 AM
yer me too crys876 thats my problem :-(

and thanks no1phd appreatice the advice and thats too everyone thanks for the advice :-)

teebee79's photo
Sat 03/22/14 09:51 AM

.. my advice my honest advice.. I would do a little more growing.. experience what life has to truly offer.. then when you're ready.. you will have more to offer that special person.. just my thought.. enjoy life you're young... there's going to be plenty of time to be serious... believe me.... sincerely PhD.


Totally agree here

SGuard1's photo
Sun 03/23/14 04:06 AM
@Msharmony.

I believe so too, home examples starting with family builds better understanding of what love entails, through the tough times and the good times, if you happen to look at your parents or grandparents and hopefully they are still strong together its possible to know the kind of person you want.

Thats why today they is an attack on the family especially in discipline and morality

cha7385's photo
Sun 03/23/14 06:48 AM
Of course!! It'll never be outdated.... its the one.of the most wonderful feeling to love and be loved..

hazeliz811's photo
Sun 03/23/14 10:32 AM
Edited by hazeliz811 on Sun 03/23/14 10:34 AM
"Beauty isn't about having a pretty face, but a pretty heart, mind and soul." AND "A soulmate is someone who makes you be the most YOU that you can possibly be." Those help me a lot. Everyone always tells me, "Quit looking and it will find you." But, 38 years later, you have to start looking before life passes you by. So, keep looking and try not to get discouraged.

Dodo_David's photo
Sun 03/23/14 10:40 AM

hi just wondered peoples views on love does it still exist in todays world cos i cant seem too find any??


Love is not based on the way that a man looks without his shirt on. So, try using different profile images.

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