How do u deal with a cheating partner, breaking up isn't an option coz u really love him/her, how do u go about overcoming that?

I don't know what to tell you there other than what I did.
Cheating for me is not an option and a no brainer.
I walked after a 22 year marriage because he cheated.
That was betrayal, lack of respect and trust lost all rolled up into one!
Good luck with whatever you decide.

Ditto walked after 11 years.....there comes a point in a relationship ship that there is no turning back...and mine is the cheating.....

I think cheating is one of the most hurtful things you could do to another human being.
Then again, the hurt that one human being is capable of inflicting on another is beyond my comprehension.

"A journy of a thousand miles starts in a day." is not a day job but time. try to find whats his/ her like of things,be they for her when she /he needs you and if you are away just try and give him/her a call etc. by doing this,he/she will limite the bad act in him/her. cos you are trying to let him/her know that you are all ways there for him/her even when you are away.

You love the person..fine.
Does that person love you? Seems like a one sided problem. I wouldn't fight to stay with a person who cares so little for me.

Well.....the first problem you have is that you are a weak person staying with someone like that. But then again.....swingers are all the rage these days.

Just leave them. If they are cheating on you know, why wouldn't they do it again.

Well younger man, You can adopt the motto that some
smaller towns seem to have and that's; If a partner
cheats, "You dont loose your partner you just loose your turn".
I like this one "If you don't stand for something then you will fall for anything.You can't be both people.
"How can you get over it"?get under another!
..seriously...How can you when its still on going! You just can't.
Get used to it or get out!

I can tell you three things you don't do and that's

1)investigate 2) blame the third
party or 3) change yourself.

I cheats is a cheat is a cheat.

*Nods agreement, pats Pony on his backside*

Overcoming the love we feel towards someone that doesn't respect boundaries or us isn't easy. But you'll find that love will diminish naturally over time anyway if you choose to stay with a cheater because you'll realize the hard way that the person cheating is doing it because they don't love you first. Being a gluten for punishment, even if pain feels better than loneliness is an issue only you can decide. Good luck staying or going, sooner or later.

Well if the person is cheating on you the love is one sided and won't last

Just stop talking and avoid...