What is your opinion ? If you have money and material means ? Should u date someone who dose'nt ?

Why not? Are you in search of love and someone's heart and attention? Or are you in search of more money and material means?

Oh give me a break. People with money have been dating people with no money forever. Numerous Sugar Daddy dating web sites. Even though it looks funny at first it is accepted. If I had a daughter, I would rather she marry someone that could support her and the grandkids than some bum with no prospect in life.

That falls into the reasons one may be dating another. I've never started dating someone that I didn't hope for it to evolve into possible marriage through time. Never understood the concept of dating this person for a little while, that person for a little while, this other person, ect ect. Always thought dating was for the time to get to know one another on a different level then just friends or "hi my name is...".

"should"? meaning am I obligated or have a duty to date a person who doesn't have money and you do??

No I sure don't. But what I did care about is if he could support himself. I didn't care how much he makes but that he indeed does or has other means.

I was looking for a partner NOT a dependent.

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Hi Rose....

Wimmins need to bring some money or shut up.

yes it would be nice if they had some!!.. I do not mind sticking my hand in my pocket.. when I am dating someone.. but I do not want.. to feel bad.. are sorry for their circumstances.. and I am the type of person.. that would want to help them out financially.. but in doing so..
that tends to change the nature of the relationship... awkward...hmm..
get a job....

Sometimes bad tidings fall on good people - and one's that work too - rather let's not get into that topic as it would get me totally

to answer the OP - if you have the opportunity to help out and it is not begrudgingly then why not - but if it turns out that you feel as though you are being used ........then cut your losses and move on.

As long as they shower normally I really don't care.

I've noticed those who have no money, are completely obsessed by money. Understandable I guess?

This does not suit me in a relationship.

I don't care how much money a man has as long as he can support himself and as long as he loves his job...

A poor man who loves and takes pride in is work is just as admirable as someone who makes a lot....

Oh goodie... another topic my vast experience with men gave me the wisdom and now the opportunity to share my life's lessons over...

Husband #1 had college education, career and money and didn't want me working, so he supported me in a fashion I became accustomed too.

Husband #2 had a high school diploma and was working, living independently when we met. After he asked me to marry him and we wed, he quit his job and relied on me to support him for the most part while he worked out at the gym daily... left a bitter taste in my mouth.

Husband #3 had no high school diploma but was an extremely hard worker and we pulled together building a life we both enjoyed.

Of these three experiences, I have to admit that I enjoyed being spoiled by #1, but divorced him so I could have a career of my own.

#2 taught me that no amount of love or "good lovin" is worth taking on all the responsibility for two people to survive.

#3 once again spoiled me because I experienced what it's like to work with a partner to build a life we could both be proud of, even when we didn't so much agree personally.

With all this experience, I can honestly say that I don't want another man I have to support. I want a man to partner with so we can help each other get where we both want to go.

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you should be able to support each other in one way or another

but at the end of the day its how well you treat and respect each other

I want someone I can respect, whether its because of the energy they put into parenting(which is a job if done properly) , or into a paid career, Id rather have that person who makes the effort than the one who is spoiled into thinking they shouldnt have to make any

a person who was lazy and rich would be just as unappealing to me as one who was lazy and poor,,

I am a stay-at-home dad who (when my physical pain isn't too severe) performs all of the housework and takes care of my minor child.

I am anything but lazy, but because my disability prevents me from working outside the home, plenty of women consider me unsuitable for a relationship.

So, yes, money does matter.

I would look at his heart...not how big is his pocket/properties, not materialistic at all.

Money is very important to a relationship if you do not have any./

Money is a completely different thing. It amazes me how many people base it on whether a relationship will work out. Just makes me roll my eyes and say "Here we go again".

Sure why not?

I have no problem paying for things, but if it gets to a point where they just want my money. Then we have a problem.

I prefer the chicks with the $100K credit limit.