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Topic: YES or NO
Tin_Tin143 Joined Fri 05/09/14 Posts: 250	Fri 07/04/14 12:50 AM
Would you need to sleep with someone before you considered marrying them?

panchovanilla Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 5396	Fri 07/04/14 12:55 AM
No

dreamerana Joined Sat 09/21/13 Posts: 21544	Fri 07/04/14 12:57 AM
No

2469nascar Joined Fri 11/22/13 Posts: 5231	Fri 07/04/14 12:59 AM
nope

AMILIA1724 Joined Thu 05/08/14 Posts: 372	Fri 07/04/14 01:45 AM
No

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Fri 07/04/14 02:08 AM
no

jacktrades Joined Tue 09/11/12 Posts: 4395	Fri 07/04/14 02:23 AM
Yes, because what if they really did not like it and you do, it could lead to troubles down the road.

Lemminique Joined Fri 11/29/13 Posts: 14	Fri 07/04/14 02:28 AM
nop

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Fri 07/04/14 02:30 AM
Yes, because what if they really did not like it and you do, it could lead to troubles down the road. only if sex is stale,, usually, people can learn and adjust as they get to know each others 'spots',,,,,,

jacktrades Joined Tue 09/11/12 Posts: 4395	Fri 07/04/14 02:43 AM Edited by jacktrades on Fri 07/04/14 02:53 AM


msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Fri 07/04/14 02:48 AM
if they didnt like it,, whenever that was, it shouldnt be a problem the first time in no way has to be the same way as the next or the next or the next,,,or very few people would be able to have 'good sex',,,, people get better as they experience more , they learn more how to satisfy each other, the more experience they share with one another unless neither feels they need to change or try to do anything different,, ie, not communicating or paying attention to their partner than it can cause problems down the road

jacktrades Joined Tue 09/11/12 Posts: 4395	Fri 07/04/14 02:56 AM
if they didnt like it,, whenever that was, it shouldnt be a problem the first time in no way has to be the same way as the next or the next or the next,,,or very few people would be able to have 'good sex',,,, people get better as they experience more , they learn more how to satisfy each other, the more experience they share with one another unless neither feels they need to change or try to do anything different,, ie, not communicating or paying attention to their partner than it can cause problems down the road Your speaking from your experiences not mine I appreciate your thoughts but I have answered according to what happened my life not everyone elses.

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Fri 07/04/14 03:00 AM
no probs its all just opinions, often based in experiences mine has been that what makes good sex is communication and paying attention, and that sex with anyone can BECOME awesome with those two things

Unknow Joined Sat 10/21/06 Posts: 3353	Fri 07/04/14 03:15 AM
not sure. The age that I'm at now, good sex is one of the last things I'm worried about.

flobadob Joined Tue 04/15/14 Posts: 6	Fri 07/04/14 05:22 AM
Surely it depends on how much marriage means to you, personally a good relationship is more important to me than getting married. so i would not get married until i was in a relationship for a long time. So i would want sex prior to getting married

Pinkbunny43 Joined Sun 05/12/13 Posts: 26547	Fri 07/04/14 05:29 AM
Nope

Thomas27 Joined Sun 10/21/07 Posts: 4860	Fri 07/04/14 05:34 AM
Are we talking about sleep here, or are we talking about sex? Personally, I do not let any girls sleepover at my house... After we have sex, I send them home so I can sleep by myself and be rested for work the next day or whatever... Next time I get married, it will probably be part of the deal that we sleep in separate bedrooms...

Scoobert Joined Sat 09/28/13 Posts: 12895	Fri 07/04/14 05:42 AM
Yes for me, because I don't want to end up with someone I'm not sexually compatible with and end up in divorce over resentment.

kai27 Joined Sat 06/28/14 Posts: 3	Fri 07/04/14 06:30 AM
No.

2KidsMom Joined Tue 09/30/08 Posts: 58206	Fri 07/04/14 06:33 AM
No