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Edited by
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There is nothing wrong with a person choosing to refrain from casual sex if that person wishes to do so. agreed, but conversely, the same is true, if that is what the person wishes to do. it's all about personal choice. |
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There is nothing wrong with a person choosing to refrain from casual sex if that person wishes to do so. agreed, but conversely, the same is true, if that is what the person wishes to do. it's all about personal choice. In a general forum such as this one, I'm not going to badmouth a person for choosing to have casual sex. |
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There is nothing wrong with a person choosing to refrain from casual sex if that person wishes to do so. agreed, but conversely, the same is true, if that is what the person wishes to do. it's all about personal choice. In a general forum such as this one, I'm not going to badmouth a person for choosing to have casual sex. not suggesting you were. |
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For some of you that say wait,lets be real now,how long are you willing to "wait",sopose you're "waiting for that "specail person"for years on years,you mite aswell be F&%#en priest or nun  ,for those that want to go head and"wait",am going F¥£¢% the S&%T out of some P£€$¥,nothin wrong with waitng but JESUS,not for F£€¥$%G ever lol   Yeah. If you personally want to have sexual intercourse, and if your personal standard for determining right from wrong will permit it, then go for it. Just don't badmouth others who have chosen not to do so. |
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Edited by
fleta_n_mach
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Tue 08/12/14 03:05 PM
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A casual relationship can develop into a serious one and I think that's how most relationships start these days. Most people won't say that they're in a relationship without it having been a sexual relationship for some time. Developing feelings for a prostitute is not likely to have a fairy tale ending though and could totally do your head in and make you feel crappy about yourself. At least if it's just a matter of sexual atraction you know that there's something that they like about you and out of all of the people that they could have had sex with they chose you. That's not bad for starters. Some prostitutes may enjoy it and have prefered clients but how can you tell? If they're good they will seem to enjoy it and like you and that's how they get regulars. Also, if I have casual sex with someone it's always more than just sex and unless you're a jerk or agree that it's just a one night stand there's the expectation that they're going to call you and I think that most people that do it don't actually sleep around and they want some sort of exclusive relationship. I was in an on and off casual relationship myself for years and that only ended when she met someone else. We did all of the boyfriend/ girlfriend things apart from living together and it wasn't all about sex and there were some "strings" but she wanted to just call it an FWB thing and I went along with that. I think that we both probably had good intentions at the start but it just didn't work out and that's the way that it goes sometimes. You can have a great sex life and even love each other but just not work as a couple. That's a completely different kettle of fish from going with a prostitute. I agree. how are you to know if you are starting out casual what the future will hold? could go either way  Casual one night stands, mean no communication, no relationship. From what I gather. No answer, is an answer. No phone call. |
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Edited by
Awatersign
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Tue 08/12/14 03:19 PM
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For some of you that say wait,lets be real now,how long are you willing to "wait",sopose you're "waiting for that "specail person"for years on years,you mite aswell be F&%#en priest or nun ,for those that want to go head and"wait",am going F¥£¢% the S&%T out of some P£€$¥,nothin wrong with waitng but JESUS,not for F£€¥$%G ever lol 
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I am curious how many who are supportive of 'casual sex', or sex based merely on an initial chemistry,, are equally supportive of prostitution, or sex based merely on monetary gain? Not a judgement in any way. I don't believe in the whole 'casual sex' thing, but in perspective, I fail to see how prostitution is better or worse than casual sex for free. I fear for the safety of prostitutes of course, but I don't look down upon them.  And why can't one wait? Is sex a necessity? People choose to wait or don't wait. It's up to them whatever they want to do with their bodies. One would hope they are safe. |
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Casual sex.......Nah screw dat...
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For some of you that say wait,lets be real now,how long are you willing to "wait",sopose you're "waiting for that "specail person"for years on years,you mite aswell be F&%#en priest or nun ,for those that want to go head and"wait",am going F¥£¢% the S&%T out of some P£€$¥,nothin wrong with waitng but JESUS,not for F£€¥$%G ever lol Yeah. If you personally want to have sexual intercourse, and if your personal standard for determining right from wrong will permit it, then go for it. Just don't badmouth others who have chosen not to do so. |
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Casual sex.......Nah screw dat... What do they call it in AUS? Pulling a buuurd 
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We have gone way off topic.
The OP asks the following: I am curious how many who are supportive of 'casual sex', or sex based merely on an initial chemistry,, are equally supportive of prostitution, or sex based merely on monetary gain? How about we stick to answering that question. |
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Casual sex.......Nah screw dat... What do they call it in AUS? Pulling a buuurd Morning Mariah..  thats a bit english, they used to say that here...my fav used to be ...scoring...as in sport.
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All i was TRYING to say,while" waitngt"is good,dont expect EVERYBODY to be able to just do that,nobody's perfect and every situation is difrient,and casual sex does'nt mean sleeping with EVERYONE you meet,so people who have casual sex are the ones being judged or put down here,NOT the ones that wait,stop getting it twistted!
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Edited for disparaging of members.
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Casual sex.......Nah screw dat... What do they call it in AUS? Pulling a buuurd Morning Mariah.. thats a bit english, they used to say that here...my fav used to be ...scoring...as in sport. Ahh so it is a game men play with us.
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Casual sex.......Nah screw dat... What do they call it in AUS? Pulling a buuurd Morning Mariah.. thats a bit english, they used to say that here...my fav used to be ...scoring...as in sport. Ahh so it is a game men play with us. hehe it's a game I used to play.....before I found self respect. |
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All i was TRYING to say,while" waitngt"is good,dont expect EVERYBODY to be able to just do that,nobody's perfect and every situation is difrient,and casual sex does'nt mean sleeping with EVERYONE you meet,so people who have casual sex are the ones being judged or put down here,NOT the ones that wait,stop getting it twistted! ................................ As far as I can tell, nobody is putting anybody down in this thread. Now, can we please go back to the original question of the OP? Here it is again: I am curious how many who are supportive of 'casual sex', or sex based merely on an initial chemistry,, are equally supportive of prostitution, or sex based merely on monetary gain?
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Casual sex.......Nah screw dat... What do they call it in AUS? Pulling a buuurd Morning Mariah.. thats a bit english, they used to say that here...my fav used to be ...scoring...as in sport. Ahh so it is a game men play with us. hehe it's a game I used to play.....before I found self respect. self-realization is a powerful thing. |
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I for one do not pay for sex..
. well there was that time at the massage parlor..hmm.. . does that count.?.lmao .ok.. where was I.. oh yeah . being paid for sex... .. yes I always enjoy that part.. . when they had over that cash...   
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