Topic: "how to attract girls" -- brief reflection
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Sat 08/23/14 07:29 PM
Despite endless attempts to answer it, I see this question popping up like dysfunction at an urban high school. I won't try to talk about what to do to get girls because

1. I'm not Casanova (despite my sincerest attempts..)

and

2. This has been said before (money, confidence, social standing, style, aggression/dominance).

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Instead I take issue with the notion that getting a girl will "make you happy". Even if you have a million girls... A problem I'd like to have, but even then one wouldn't "be happy" in the sense that I think is implied.

You can read of former male porn stars who got paid to sleep with beautiful girls of every sexy shape and indulge in whatever kinky fetish they wish. Oh, and and had fans throwing themselves at them. With that, they descend into drugs, depression, etc... Really? Rich, good-looking, 1000+ notches on the belt and depressed? Seems crazy, but it happens.

I can't speak from a female perspective, but the notion that a guy who gets girls, even if 3/day, will "be happy", seems mistaken. Once again, this over-success with girls is problem I'd like to have, but I sense that it would be a "problem" nonetheless.

Girls are girls. They are not the gates to paradise.

bashajones's photo
Sat 08/23/14 08:05 PM


Happiness comes from within...

...and don't count your chickens before they hatch....lol

I know. I know....offtopic

SPINEY's photo
Sat 08/23/14 08:10 PM
Booze, man. Simply booze *greasy smile*

bashajones's photo
Sat 08/23/14 08:32 PM

Booze, man. Simply booze *greasy smile*



drinks

Beachfarmer's photo
Sat 08/23/14 08:44 PM
Edited by Beachfarmer on Sat 08/23/14 08:46 PM
The loneliest you can feel is not by being alone. It's by being next to someone who is a million miles away.

I didn't read anything about passion or even luke warm "like". So AGREED....all the above mentioned will not necessarily make anyone "happy".

bashajones's photo
Sat 08/23/14 08:48 PM

The loneliest you can feel is not by being alone. It's by being next to someone who is a million miles away.

I didn't read anything about passion or even luke warm "like". So AGREED....all the above mentioned will not necessarily make anyone "happy".



Happiness comes from within your pants....


...and 2 heads are better than 1.

Wait? Huh?what

Beachfarmer's photo
Sat 08/23/14 08:50 PM
YOUR Happiness that is. bigsmile

bashajones's photo
Sat 08/23/14 09:14 PM

YOUR Happiness that is. bigsmile


I bet YOUR happiness can come from within my pants, too.....haha

:wink:

Beachfarmer's photo
Sat 08/23/14 09:29 PM
All my joy and pain usually does.laugh

TawtStrat's photo
Sun 08/24/14 02:01 AM
You've never had a girl that made you happy? How sad.