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Topic: RELATIONSHIP BEFORE MARRIAGE
Segbo15 Joined Sat 09/20/14 Posts: 40	Thu 09/25/14 02:02 PM
How many month or year can someone be in Relationship before Marriage?

mrld_ii Joined Thu 05/15/14 Posts: 1410	Thu 09/25/14 02:03 PM
<--- 10+ years, and I still didn't marry him! We'll see if I can't beat My Personal Best, next time.

Datwasntme Joined Fri 07/25/14 Posts: 9701	Thu 09/25/14 02:11 PM
there is no limit had a friend that was with her lady was 60 some odd years they where together when he died .... married is just a piece of paper <shrug>

beverduster Joined Sun 07/27/14 Posts: 6	Thu 09/25/14 05:28 PM
you bet, i dont buy a pair of new boots without tryin them on, sme with the women

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76356	Thu 09/25/14 06:21 PM
Hell I dated a guy for 12 years and never lived with him much less marry him..... So there is no amount of time one has to wait to get married. Just make sure that is what you really desire....

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Thu 09/25/14 10:15 PM
How many month or year can someone be in Relationship before Marriage? Five months, seven days and twelve hours......and if she gives good headache then take away a month.

Duttoneer Joined Sun 07/01/12 Posts: 4669	Fri 09/26/14 01:40 AM
How many month or year can someone be in Relationship before Marriage? Depends upon what you both want in my opinion. If you want marriage then you should make that clear in the relationship, and together arrange a timescale or even a date when the wedding is going to be. If your partner is not wanting marriage then the sooner you are aware of it the better, because you can then decide if you need to find someone who wants what you want in the long term, you really must discuss such serious matters with your partner.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33251	Fri 09/26/14 01:55 AM Edited by SparklingCrystal 💖💎 on Fri 09/26/14 01:59 AM
I'd say at least a year. It takes about a year for being in love to change into love and for the "pink clouds" to disappear. These clouds usually colour everything more positive than they are. So after approx. a year you get your common sense back and see each other for what you are, for real. If it still works and feels good, then you can start considering the next step. I think it would be smart to wait at least half a year though, so you can really find out if you get along without the pink clouds. So all in all I think 1,5 -2 years. F**, that means if I want to get married before I'm 50, I gotta find him* very soon ... as in today ...

vanaheim Joined Sun 12/29/13 Posts: 531	Fri 09/26/14 02:48 AM
Oh I'd marry a christian chick after like a day to get into her pants if she was hot, because a hot chick is worth it. I'm so stereotypical :(

Segbo15 Joined Sat 09/20/14 Posts: 40	Fri 09/26/14 05:18 AM
I'd say at least a year. It takes about a year for being in love to change into love and for the "pink clouds" to disappear. These clouds usually colour everything more positive than they are. So after approx. a year you get your common sense back and see each other for what you are, for real. If it still works and feels good, then you can start considering the next step. I think it would be smart to wait at least half a year though, so you can really find out if you get along without the pink clouds. So all in all I think 1,5 -2 years. F**, that means if I want to get married before I'm 50, I gotta find him* very soon ... as in today ... I am very much happy for your comment, please stay around i need more enlightment from you.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33251	Sat 09/27/14 02:53 AM Edited by SparklingCrystal 💖💎 on Sat 09/27/14 02:53 AM
I'd say at least a year. It takes about a year for being in love to change into love and for the "pink clouds" to disappear. These clouds usually colour everything more positive than they are. So after approx. a year you get your common sense back and see each other for what you are, for real. If it still works and feels good, then you can start considering the next step. I think it would be smart to wait at least half a year though, so you can really find out if you get along without the pink clouds. So all in all I think 1,5 -2 years. F**, that means if I want to get married before I'm 50, I gotta find him* very soon ... as in today ... I am very much happy for your comment, please stay around i need more enlightment from you. You're welcome ... @ Blondey, pressure? Nah, no pressure at all. I maybe got date tomorrow, I didn't expect it to be more than just a nice afternoon. But now I know I got a lot riding on this ... marriage before 50 ... But no, absolutely NO pressure whatsoever

mikey5360 Joined Wed 04/23/14 Posts: 26096	Sat 09/27/14 03:47 AM
When you both feel the time is right....

Beth143 Joined Wed 04/03/13 Posts: 55	Sat 09/27/14 06:26 AM
as long as you love each other, theres no limit of time...

Segbo15 Joined Sat 09/20/14 Posts: 40	Sat 09/27/14 03:01 PM
as long as you love each other, theres no limit of time... Yes, you have a point

Rock Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 21250	Sat 09/27/14 07:31 PM
Forever, and ever, and ever. Better dead, than wed.

vilav Joined Wed 05/21/14 Posts: 12	Tue 09/30/14 07:53 PM
Kindly relationship is by destiny and willing of god you might seen good relationship that can lead to marriage between a month but relationship need trust and feelns,I want serious marriage to sacrifice my heart my soul and my life.

vilav Joined Wed 05/21/14 Posts: 12	Tue 09/30/14 07:55 PM
Kindly relationship is by destiny and willing of god you might seen good relationship that can lead to marriage between a month but relationship need trust and feelns,I want serious marriage to sacrifice my heart my soul and my life.