Topic: Is sex is important for love????
bashajones's photo
Fri 10/10/14 08:44 AM

Who wants sex? I just want to cuddle.


Cuddling is all fun and games...until somebody gets a boner.

laugh

Then it's even MORE fun and games!!!

ChangeofHeart's photo
Fri 10/10/14 08:51 AM



sex is not important for love.

Then remove sex from the equation and see what you end up with ... a brother-sister type of relationship. Sure you can love deeply, but you'll miss out on a very important aspect in the relationship.

In a healthy love relationship you have tension of attraction (dunno the right English word for it) between partners. This attraction defines how you behave around each other, how you interact, the things you say, the jokes you make, the way you look at each other etc. etc.
The natural desire to become one with the one you love so much, to melt together, become one body in love and passion and share the ultimate you can share together, mind body and spirit.
When having sex with someone you love, you allow yourself to be vulnerable, to open up, literally and emotionally, if the trust is truly there, you give yourself 100%, and have a man enter your body to become one. Which is also quite something, scares some people to 'lose' themselves in another.
When a man comes it's a subconscious act of giving, basically the most intimate gift a man can give a woman. Some men can't - or are reluctant - to give their seed to someone they don't love.

If you take all that out of the equation, the entire relationship will change, interaction and behaviour, everything. You lose a very precious aspect of the relationship. You'll end up with a platonic relationship. Can be okay, if both are okay with that, but you will miss that precious thing.
blah blah
blah?
Good to see someone in their 50's give such a well thought out mature response.
blah?lah? :(

ChangeofHeart's photo
Fri 10/10/14 08:55 AM



In a good relationship, love grows over time. Sex changes over time.
yes sex changes to She doesn't want it anymore. Keep your options open.

blah blah ... these days men have headaches, not women...
well you ladies wanted a soft, sensitive ,feeling expressing Man. I take an aspirin and keep it moving. So manly? Yes?

ChangeofHeart's photo
Fri 10/10/14 08:57 AM



In a good relationship, love grows over time. Sex changes over time.
yes sex changes to She doesn't want it anymore. Keep your options open.



Based on empirical data, do you mean the women you've known don't want it with you "anymore" or not ever again in their lifetimes?






aaaaaaaaaaaa....No :)

Beachfarmer's photo
Fri 10/10/14 09:07 AM


Who wants sex? I just want to cuddle.


Cuddling is all fun and games...until somebody gets a boner.

laugh

Then it's even MORE fun and games!!!


scared Oh no......she has a strap on.

mrld_ii's photo
Fri 10/10/14 09:11 AM

well you ladies wanted a soft, sensitive ,feeling expressing Man. I take an aspirin and keep it moving. So manly? Yes?



Ummmmm...that's not an "aspirin" you're taking to "keep it moving".


Jus' sayin'.

:angel:

BeYou_Saurabh's photo
Fri 10/10/14 12:18 PM
Sex is very much important... It shows how close n how much confident u r in ur relationship...

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Fri 10/10/14 12:36 PM


well you ladies wanted a soft, sensitive ,feeling expressing Man. I take an aspirin and keep it moving. So manly? Yes?



Ummmmm...that's not an "aspirin" you're taking to "keep it moving".


Jus' sayin'.

:angel:

:laughing:

ChangeofHeart's photo
Fri 10/10/14 02:36 PM


well you ladies wanted a soft, sensitive ,feeling expressing Man. I take an aspirin and keep it moving. So manly? Yes?



Ummmmm...that's not an "aspirin" you're taking to "keep it moving".


Jus' sayin'.

:angel:
whatever keeps you happy ;)

Awatersign's photo
Fri 10/10/14 02:49 PM
Edited by Awatersign on Fri 10/10/14 02:50 PM

i love my fam .
i dont want to see any of them in the nude or have sex with them
i love my dog
i dont want to have sex with her either
Come on man,that's not really the same type love lol!what :laughing:

mrld_ii's photo
Fri 10/10/14 03:04 PM



well you ladies wanted a soft, sensitive ,feeling expressing Man. I take an aspirin and keep it moving. So manly? Yes?



Ummmmm...that's not an "aspirin" you're taking to "keep it moving".


Jus' sayin'.

:angel:
whatever keeps you happy ;)


Wrong woman. I've yet to be with a man who needs to pop little blue "aspirins" to keep me happy.







mikey5360's photo
Fri 10/10/14 03:07 PM
Edited by mikey5360 on Fri 10/10/14 03:43 PM

Then remove sex from the equation and see what you end up with ... a brother-sister type of relationship. Sure you can love deeply, but you'll miss out on a very important aspect in the relationship.

In a healthy love relationship you have tension of attraction (dunno the right English word for it) between partners. This attraction defines how you behave around each other, how you interact, the things you say, the jokes you make, the way you look at each other etc. etc.
The natural desire to become one with the one you love so much, to melt together, become one body in love and passion and share the ultimate you can share together, mind body and spirit.
When having sex with someone you love, you allow yourself to be vulnerable, to open up, literally and emotionally, if the trust is truly there, you give yourself 100%, and have a man enter your body to become one. Which is also quite something, scares some people to 'lose' themselves in another.
When a man comes it's a subconscious act of giving, basically the most intimate gift a man can give a woman. Some men can't - or are reluctant - to give their seed to someone they don't love.

If you take all that out of the equation, the entire relationship will change, interaction and behaviour, everything. You lose a very precious aspect of the relationship. You'll end up with a platonic relationship. Can be okay, if both are okay with that, but you will miss that precious thing.

This ^^^ Its hard to add anything to this.....Its all about trusting the one you are falling in love with, if you are the right ones for each other it is a natural progression in the relationship.....
I dont want a sibling relationship with the one I am falling in love with.....I have siblings for that.....
None of this makes me any less manly.....quite the opposite in fact, showing vulnerability, emotionally and literally makes me more attractive to her.....

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Fri 10/10/14 03:41 PM


Then remove sex from the equation and see what you end up with ... a brother-sister type of relationship. Sure you can love deeply, but you'll miss out on a very important aspect in the relationship.

In a healthy love relationship you have tension of attraction (dunno the right English word for it) between partners. This attraction defines how you behave around each other, how you interact, the things you say, the jokes you make, the way you look at each other etc. etc.
The natural desire to become one with the one you love so much, to melt together, become one body in love and passion and share the ultimate you can share together, mind body and spirit.
When having sex with someone you love, you allow yourself to be vulnerable, to open up, literally and emotionally, if the trust is truly there, you give yourself 100%, and have a man enter your body to become one. Which is also quite something, scares some people to 'lose' themselves in another.
When a man comes it's a subconscious act of giving, basically the most intimate gift a man can give a woman. Some men can't - or are reluctant - to give their seed to someone they don't love.

If you take all that out of the equation, the entire relationship will change, interaction and behaviour, everything. You lose a very precious aspect of the relationship. You'll end up with a platonic relationship. Can be okay, if both are okay with that, but you will miss that precious thing.

This ^^^ Its hard to add anything to this.....Its all about trusting the one you are falling in love with, if you are the right ones for each other it is a natural progression in the relationship.....
I dont want a sibling relationship with the one I am falling in love with.....I have siblings for that.....
None of this makes me any less manly.....quite the opposite in fact, showing vulnerability emotionally and literally makes me more attractive to her.....

Phew, was beginning to think I was the only one who understood things to work this way, lol.

Hi Mikey!
waving flowerforyou

mikey5360's photo
Fri 10/10/14 03:44 PM



Then remove sex from the equation and see what you end up with ... a brother-sister type of relationship. Sure you can love deeply, but you'll miss out on a very important aspect in the relationship.

In a healthy love relationship you have tension of attraction (dunno the right English word for it) between partners. This attraction defines how you behave around each other, how you interact, the things you say, the jokes you make, the way you look at each other etc. etc.
The natural desire to become one with the one you love so much, to melt together, become one body in love and passion and share the ultimate you can share together, mind body and spirit.
When having sex with someone you love, you allow yourself to be vulnerable, to open up, literally and emotionally, if the trust is truly there, you give yourself 100%, and have a man enter your body to become one. Which is also quite something, scares some people to 'lose' themselves in another.
When a man comes it's a subconscious act of giving, basically the most intimate gift a man can give a woman. Some men can't - or are reluctant - to give their seed to someone they don't love.

If you take all that out of the equation, the entire relationship will change, interaction and behaviour, everything. You lose a very precious aspect of the relationship. You'll end up with a platonic relationship. Can be okay, if both are okay with that, but you will miss that precious thing.

This ^^^ Its hard to add anything to this.....Its all about trusting the one you are falling in love with, if you are the right ones for each other it is a natural progression in the relationship.....
I dont want a sibling relationship with the one I am falling in love with.....I have siblings for that.....
None of this makes me any less manly.....quite the opposite in fact, showing vulnerability emotionally and literally makes me more attractive to her.....

Phew, was beginning to think I was the only one who understood things to work this way, lol.

Hi Mikey!
waving flowerforyou

Gidday Crystal :smile: waving most of the real men are too busy doing the dishes to chat.....damn, honey where is the dish cloth? hehe

captamerica1977's photo
Fri 10/10/14 03:57 PM
:wink: I think both are important, it depends on the relationship and what two people are looking to get out of it!!!drool

no photo
Sat 10/11/14 01:05 AM
Hai

m3k4y's photo
Sat 10/11/14 01:32 AM




Then remove sex from the equation and see what you end up with ... a brother-sister type of relationship. Sure you can love deeply, but you'll miss out on a very important aspect in the relationship.

In a healthy love relationship you have tension of attraction (dunno the right English word for it) between partners. This attraction defines how you behave around each other, how you interact, the things you say, the jokes you make, the way you look at each other etc. etc.
The natural desire to become one with the one you love so much, to melt together, become one body in love and passion and share the ultimate you can share together, mind body and spirit.
When having sex with someone you love, you allow yourself to be vulnerable, to open up, literally and emotionally, if the trust is truly there, you give yourself 100%, and have a man enter your body to become one. Which is also quite something, scares some people to 'lose' themselves in another.
When a man comes it's a subconscious act of giving, basically the most intimate gift a man can give a woman. Some men can't - or are reluctant - to give their seed to someone they don't love.

If you take all that out of the equation, the entire relationship will change, interaction and behaviour, everything. You lose a very precious aspect of the relationship. You'll end up with a platonic relationship. Can be okay, if both are okay with that, but you will miss that precious thing.

This ^^^ Its hard to add anything to this.....Its all about trusting the one you are falling in love with, if you are the right ones for each other it is a natural progression in the relationship.....
I dont want a sibling relationship with the one I am falling in love with.....I have siblings for that.....
None of this makes me any less manly.....quite the opposite in fact, showing vulnerability emotionally and literally makes me more attractive to her.....

Phew, was beginning to think I was the only one who understood things to work this way, lol.

Hi Mikey!
waving flowerforyou

Gidday Crystal :smile: waving most of the real men are too busy doing the dishes to chat.....damn, honey where is the dish cloth? hehe
in the laundry basket babe..need to be wash..you used it to wipe the...ahhh..earlier..remember???lol:tongue: joke..laugh laugh laugh

mikey5360's photo
Sat 10/11/14 01:44 AM





Then remove sex from the equation and see what you end up with ... a brother-sister type of relationship. Sure you can love deeply, but you'll miss out on a very important aspect in the relationship.

In a healthy love relationship you have tension of attraction (dunno the right English word for it) between partners. This attraction defines how you behave around each other, how you interact, the things you say, the jokes you make, the way you look at each other etc. etc.
The natural desire to become one with the one you love so much, to melt together, become one body in love and passion and share the ultimate you can share together, mind body and spirit.
When having sex with someone you love, you allow yourself to be vulnerable, to open up, literally and emotionally, if the trust is truly there, you give yourself 100%, and have a man enter your body to become one. Which is also quite something, scares some people to 'lose' themselves in another.
When a man comes it's a subconscious act of giving, basically the most intimate gift a man can give a woman. Some men can't - or are reluctant - to give their seed to someone they don't love.

If you take all that out of the equation, the entire relationship will change, interaction and behaviour, everything. You lose a very precious aspect of the relationship. You'll end up with a platonic relationship. Can be okay, if both are okay with that, but you will miss that precious thing.

This ^^^ Its hard to add anything to this.....Its all about trusting the one you are falling in love with, if you are the right ones for each other it is a natural progression in the relationship.....
I dont want a sibling relationship with the one I am falling in love with.....I have siblings for that.....
None of this makes me any less manly.....quite the opposite in fact, showing vulnerability emotionally and literally makes me more attractive to her.....

Phew, was beginning to think I was the only one who understood things to work this way, lol.

Hi Mikey!
waving flowerforyou

Gidday Crystal :smile: waving most of the real men are too busy doing the dishes to chat.....damn, honey where is the dish cloth? hehe
in the laundry basket babe..need to be wash..you used it to wipe the...ahhh..earlier..remember???lol:tongue: joke..laugh laugh laugh
See what I mean, hahaha, better than the....ahhh never mind, maybe its better you dont know, after all I am a manlaugh laugh laugh
Damn, better get that washing machine on....pronto:wink: laugh laugh laugh

no photo
Sat 10/11/14 03:10 AM
Yes. I guess? Why would you do sex to someone u dont love? Besides, its like putting trust to the one ur doing it with. But its not that youll do it with every man you trusted. To the man u trusted to be with for lifetime

Beachfarmer's photo
Sat 10/11/14 10:12 AM
Eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew

Coooooooooooooooooooooooties!