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I had an ex, who unfortunately, learned to talk, but never learned to shut up. . Literally, from the nanosecond her eyes opened in the morning, until she drifted off to sleep at night. . I've avoided hyper- kinetic personalities ever since. Oh...the wiring issue, maybe? Men and women express their taught and feelings in different ways. It can cause a misunderstanding. But when there is a will, there is also a way. Women sometimes speak too much because they are not satisfied with something. When the rant stops it usually means they gave up trying to deal with it, whatever it may be. Sometimes men do not hear or do not want to hear when they are asked (not) to do something in plain English. Some men simply do not listen, some act as if they do not understand and ask for an explanation. When they get an explanation, if they still stick to (for example) an annoying habit they have, women sometimes continue ranting, as if it will change anything. Once they realize it won't change a thing they become silent. That's not a good sign. Of course, I do not know anything about you or about your ex, so I am talking generally. Do not take it personally, please. Conclusion: both sexes can be equally annoying. |
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My ex fiancee lived 250 miles from me. She would call me, insisting that I just had to come right away. So I would. When I got there, she would go to sleep. She would sleep for 2 days. So while she slept I would clean her apartment, do her laundry, do her grocery shopping, fix her car, etc. Went through this routine about 50 times. So who was the stupid one??   It took you 50 times before you realised why she wanted you to come over, lmao!!! Love does make us blind. That's why opening our eyes is so painful. I hope he will be able to trust someone again. Some people get so hurt that it leaves them unable to open up their minds and their hearts again. I recently met such a man and recognized those hidden scars. Too deep and still bleeding! As selfish as it may sound, I admit I run away. I just couldn't offer a shoulder for crying again. Not again! I am only human too, sorry... It takes time to heal. All of us have been hurt at some point of our lives, but if someone still feels the pain after so many years, than it's better not to expect patience at all the wrong places, as if the whole world has to stop because of the personal loss of one individual and owns him something. I am willing to help, but not to carry someone all the way. Besides, how do you help someone who doesn't accept it, but rather uses excuses and a self pity? |
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I had an ex, who unfortunately, learned to talk, but never learned to shut up. . Literally, from the nanosecond her eyes opened in the morning, until she drifted off to sleep at night. . I've avoided hyper- kinetic personalities ever since. Oh...the wiring issue, maybe? Men and women express their taught and feelings in different ways. It can cause a misunderstanding. But when there is a will, there is also a way. Women sometimes speak too much because they are not satisfied with something. When the rant stops it usually means they gave up trying to deal with it, whatever it may be. Sometimes men do not hear or do not want to hear when they are asked (not) to do something in plain English. Some men simply do not listen, some act as if they do not understand and ask for an explanation. When they get an explanation, if they still stick to (for example) an annoying habit they have, women sometimes continue ranting, as if it will change anything. Once they realize it won't change a thing they become silent. That's not a good sign. Of course, I do not know anything about you or about your ex, so I am talking generally. Do not take it personally, please. Conclusion: both sexes can be equally annoying. Yes, you can put it that way. 
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My ex fiancee lived 250 miles from me. She would call me, insisting that I just had to come right away. So I would. When I got there, she would go to sleep. She would sleep for 2 days. So while she slept I would clean her apartment, do her laundry, do her grocery shopping, fix her car, etc. Went through this routine about 50 times. So who was the stupid one?? It took you 50 times before you realised why she wanted you to come over, lmao!!! Love does make us blind. That's why opening our eyes is so painful. I hope he will be able to trust someone again. Some people get so hurt that it leaves them unable to open up their minds and their hearts again. I recently met such a man(*) and recognized those hidden scars. Too deep and still bleeding! As selfish as it may sound, I admit I run away. I just couldn't offer a shoulder for crying again. Not again! I am only human too, sorry... It takes time to heal. All of us have been hurt at some point of our lives, but if someone still feels the pain after so many years, than it's better not to expect patience at all the wrong places, as if the whole world has to stop because of the personal loss of one individual and owns him something. I am willing to help, but not to carry someone all the way. Besides, how do you help someone who doesn't accept it, but rather uses excuses and a self pity? (*) Just to clarify, by such a man, I didn't have in mind panchovanilla |
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In the end, all he did was look at me...and it drove me bonkers...  Oh, think I had one like that too .. indeed bluddy annoying.. had put me on a pedestal .. which is cool, but I would appreciate the man I love to climb up there to stand next to me, so we both have a wonderful view of the world, the universe and .. each other 
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Conclusion: both sexes can be equally annoying. That says it all!... 
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Hello hello
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My ex fiancee lived 250 miles from me. She would call me, insisting that I just had to come right away. So I would. When I got there, she would go to sleep. She would sleep for 2 days. So while she slept I would clean her apartment, do her laundry, do her grocery shopping, fix her car, etc. Went through this routine about 50 times. So who was the stupid one?? It took you 50 times before you realised why she wanted you to come over, lmao!!! In her defense, I should say High school can be quite exhausting, these days. 
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Edited by
HoneyFly
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Sun 10/19/14 12:58 AM
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My ex counts calories & obsessed with staying fit & healthy. I quickly lost my appetite when my ex started counting what I partake.
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