The way to get a woman is to be sexually confident but to not assume that she's going to have sex with you.

This seems somewhat contradictory if you think about it but that's how it works.

Edited for vulgarity and targeting of groups.

soufie
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Takes a little bit more than simply being sexually confident to get this woman.


Having some semblance of intelligence, having a sense of humor, showing an interest in the world around him, being able to handle his own financially, emotionally, physically, and psychologically


are a few of those other things that are necessary for me to be "gotten".



I am A-OK with the fact that I am NOT easily *had*. Best of luck to you with the ones who are.

it truly does seem advice on how to "get a women" is hunter gather data.

if one superimpose chickens in front of it's eye's when looking at women it may only "get" women who run around like chickens.

erase "get" and start anew.

a friend told me he uses this tactic---be extremely egotistical and jump at every opportunity to heap on the self-praise....to hear him tell it, he never has any problems getting dates, in fact, he says he practically has to fight women off with a stick....

A sexpert on a dating site seems somewhat contradictory as well.
but thats how it works right.

the quality of the catch doth only matter to quality people.

Toxic men can be ... intoxicated ... then you wake up with a hangover and decide to never go there again..
Self praise is very off-putting, doesn't appeal to me at all, so I don't get that one. I know this really unbelievable gorgeous hunk of a guy ... and he bluddy well knows he's hot .. but I don't think I ever heard him brag about himself. That's what makes him so danged hawt

I don't see anything wrong with flaunting what you got. There are many males in the animal kingdom whom put on a show of what they are made of in order to do that voodoo that they do so well.

Thanks..sounds like the secrete formula... How is it working for you?.. still looking for a girlfriend?

but humans are supposed to be more wise than animals!

We are wise enough to know that if something isn't broken it doesn't really need fixing.

strut it and see if what one gets it respects.

go get em tiger.



show em all that manhood that dazzle and leave em frothing at the mouth.

seems like that may be why some have wandered down to the mingle watering hole...

but if one catch the same fish it did before, and it self was not happy with it so ended here, why would one use the same tactics and expect a different result.

quality confident women don't feel the need to have to flaunt it, and neither do quality confident men.

this isn't really breaking news. it's exactly what women can do to 'get the man'. that's how it works. it's a pendulum that swings both ways. that really isn't a game of confidence though, it's more of an insecurity IMO, because pretty much anybody can get somebody to have sex with them if that's what they're after. if it's an actual relationship either were looking for, substance would matter....to both. you reap what you sow. cockadoodle doo :)

some things never actually worked at all, it just takes longer for a hunter gatherer mentality to notice it.

Long time no See Bastet how the hell are ya?

Not counting your chickens

Perhaps these will help you then.




I used to count chickens. and eggs too.

aloha lions! you can always strut your stuff round here :)-

Thats not exactly true because what works for one may not work for another. But that doesn't mean it doesn't work it is a great big world full of all different kinds of people. The point is to find what works for you.

Of course I can why do you think I keep coming back. ((((Bastet)))