Topic: I have Done it again,
green407's photo
Fri 11/07/14 02:53 PM
I have been learning and training myself to NOT be a "nice guy" and a few moments ago I fell right back into it, trying to fix somebody's problem instead of just listening and being a friend. Thus making an anus of myself, again.

Anybody else have this experience?

frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated

no1phD's photo
Fri 11/07/14 02:55 PM
seriously I'm having a hard enough time... training myself.. not to miss the toilet bowl.. lol... let alone not fixing everybody's problems....

....... sometimes its best just to listen..

..... nod your head and say..awww... I'm so sorry.. I wish I could offer you some advice.... but I don't have any...


.. ok now I have to go mop the bathroom floor.... still in training..lol..drinker

no photo
Fri 11/07/14 02:59 PM
maybe you should lay out some newspaper No1:tongue:

green407's photo
Fri 11/07/14 03:25 PM
or get a larger bowl happy

HoneyFly's photo
Fri 11/07/14 03:52 PM
I think your an anus if you caused more damages than actually fixing it.

Nice guys aren't always heros.



Awatersign's photo
Fri 11/07/14 03:59 PM

I have been learning and training myself to NOT be a "nice guy" and a few moments ago I fell right back into it, trying to fix somebody's problem instead of just listening and being a friend. Thus making an anus of myself, again.

Anybody else have this experience?

frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated
I had a hard time adjusting at first,but NOW,I've got that $%&T in "full swing",it's that balance you gata find!:banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: shades

green407's photo
Fri 11/07/14 04:20 PM

I think your an anus if you caused more damages than actually fixing it.

Nice guys aren't always heros.


In my experience "Nice Guy's" are NEVER the hero. So then the question is, why do I even try?

HoneyFly's photo
Fri 11/07/14 04:22 PM
Nice guys always ask questions when they should already know the answers.

Mdarlene's photo
Fri 11/07/14 05:11 PM
because most guys want to be superman and save the world, nothing wrong with that:smile: