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Topic: Romance vs intimate encounter
gent_sol's photo
Mon 01/26/15 08:26 PM
Depends on your circumstances, expectations, frame of mind, maturity level -- these and a wide range of other factors actually.
First decide what precisely it is that you want (and/or are willing to accept in the short term to perhaps achieve a long-term goal) - then stick to it.
Whatever decided ... enjoy :-)

zzzippy56's photo
Tue 01/27/15 02:27 AM
Edited by zzzippy56 on Tue 01/27/15 02:28 AM

I m here for u please visit my profile


Look your 19 that tells me you have time to write a profile......
No answer or I'll tell you later......
These ladies have to much class for boys in here...
No answer isn't romantic its more comical

no photo
Tue 01/27/15 08:18 AM


I m here for u please visit my profile


Look your 19 that tells me you have time to write a profile......
No answer or I'll tell you later......
These ladies have to much class for boys in here...
No answer isn't romantic its more comical


:thumbsup:

Maxisu's photo
Tue 01/27/15 06:40 PM

After 3months here in mingle2 i finally found a guy that fits my standards. The problem is his profile says he is up to intimate encounter :( slaphead


I agree...only intimate encounter is dull....but so is only intellectual masturbation.

...so I wonder...once you start to really REALLY like someone...don't you WANT to become intimate ?...

:tongue:

Dodo_David's photo
Tue 01/27/15 07:09 PM

I m here for u please visit my profile


That post was deleted quickly. laugh

davidben1's photo
Tue 01/27/15 07:16 PM
hello...

they are both equal, in value and importance...

for the value of each thing be according to where each one exist in it's own brain and feelings...

and all things that exist as human, are perfect, to allow all human's, each them self, to come to the same understanding, of what is and be of MOST VALUABLE, to it self.

shall we deny some others the experience we our self had, to find what was important?

never.


valtheponytail35's photo
Wed 01/28/15 05:32 PM
Its not like the guy had lot of decent options to choose from as it has pre-set options:
Dating
Activity Partner
Friendship
Marriage
Relationship
Intimate Encounter.

I tried I cannot select multiple choices and add my own definition. I have to choose just 1.

You think your logic is fool-proof- if he looks for intimacy that must mean he can't be looking for anything else right? But see how the same logic turns against him if he chooses someting more "right answer"

Dating. Once he has selected Dating he is not looking for relationship or intimacy , he just wants to date and date and date. Really?

Activity Partner. Going to cinema, kayaking, horseback riding and playing chess together pretending to be on losing side. not into relationship, marriage nor intimacy. Why is he on dating site?

Friendship. Nothing beats the good old friend zone and listening you tell him horror stories what sort of jerks all other guys are who get to sleep with her. Its perfect...IF hes neutered. needless to say he must not want anything more, riiight?

Marriage. He hasnt even met you IRL and is already into Marriage? Grats- You found your prize. Have a wedding and lots of kids :)
Oh BTW - Practically the whole 3rd world and countries outside Scengen visa free zone are into Marriage because marriage means the can emigrate! Or did you expect something else?

Relationship. I guess he should have chosen this one to get white flag on not being a player. But if he has been in one before he must know that relationship doesnt necessarily mean she HAS to want same level of intimacy with him. In fact it'd be worthy to especially point out that he wants relationship WITH intimacy. It does NOT come for granted. Relationship may very well mean you live in same house share smiles and means and shopping and movies together and then its sleep only time. She didnt think he'd want it weekly. Who has gone through that needs to point out that he needs intimacy too

Intimate Encounter. Allright the Encounter word sucks. But he cannot edit it. For him it says he's not into lot of platonical communication ONLY to watch her go and have sex with someone else bold enough to choose THIS option. By your logic if he chooses anything else hes is OPTING OUT OF THIS ONE. Opting out of sex.
I dont think there's a normal healthy guy who wants to opt out of intimacy.

Long story short- He may be very well interested of relationship, dating and other options. You need to ask him.


jenaaa64's photo
Wed 01/28/15 10:11 PM
I have to agree with you moving on is the best she can do for herself! After all one is suppose to be honest about what it is they are looking for. Alot of people have been thru hell n back in relationships and just dont want to commit again out of fear of being hurt again. Some are wise enough to grow from a raw dealand learn. Some dont know how too and some just continue to dwell. While others are players and like that way!

no photo
Fri 01/30/15 09:32 AM
Gal much as i want to say run as fast as you can, deep down most guys are not out to look for a relationship until they meet a woman who makes them think otherwise. if he is unavailable is what you should findout? how regular does he communicate, delay s*x and see if he sticks around. note that some will keep around until they get it and voila, they are gone. so play along and see what happens you just may be one of those girls who makes a casual thing change into a meaningful one.

kenny517's photo
Wed 02/04/15 10:38 PM

After 3months here in mingle2 i finally found a guy that fits my standards. The problem is his profile says he is up to intimate encounter :( slaphead
who isnt though if yall are feelin eachother ......just because i state that wouldnt mean id sex everyone i came into contact with

kenny517's photo
Wed 02/04/15 10:40 PM


After 3months here in mingle2 i finally found a guy that fits my standards. The problem is his profile says he is up to intimate encounter :( slaphead


I agree...only intimate encounter is dull....but so is only intellectual masturbation.

...so I wonder...once you start to really REALLY like someone...don't you WANT to become intimate ?...

:tongue:
exactly

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