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Topic: When women ask you ....
theseacoast Joined Wed 07/09/14 Posts: 7419	Tue 01/27/15 12:57 AM
I am very scary Eat a guy for a breakfast No, but I am very open. Never approach the first, it would be exception, but I do show my interest. Always know what I want and I�m direct in that, but never force anything. If he doesn�t want, I step back. Simple as that. I�m always myself. Why complicate things, when life is already complicated enough?

Duttoneer Joined Sun 07/01/12 Posts: 4693	Tue 01/27/15 01:30 AM
^^^^ This is the style of approach I prefer in a woman, but sometimes guys can be blind to it, so when that happens it is good that a woman is not backward in coming forward, so to speak.

CremeBrulee Joined Tue 11/06/12 Posts: 2726	Tue 01/27/15 02:39 AM
I am very scary Eat a guy for a breakfast No, but I am very open. Never approach the first, it would be exception, but I do show my interest. Always know what I want and I�m direct in that, but never force anything. If he doesn't want, I step back. Simple as that. I�m always myself. Why complicate things, when life is already complicated enough? This ^^^^^

Scoobert Joined Sat 09/28/13 Posts: 12895	Tue 01/27/15 03:04 AM
<<<<<< is blind when this sorta thing may happen. I don't notice if a woman may have been flirting with me, until someone says something to me later, or I realized it very late. By that point, I'm just an idiot probably in her eyes.

theseacoast Joined Wed 07/09/14 Posts: 7419	Tue 01/27/15 03:16 AM Edited by theseacoast on Tue 01/27/15 03:30 AM
^^^^ This is the style of approach I prefer in a woman, but sometimes guys can be blind to it, so when that happens it is good that a woman is not backward in coming forward, so to speak. Well, if he�s blind, he won�t be so blind me, I�m really open And if a guy is scared of that, he�s not the right guy for me. I�m honest and never play games. Don�t want any pretendings or manipulations between us, any masks. If he�s strong enough to handdle with that, than we have a chance.

danglpz73 Joined Sat 01/24/15 Posts: 235	Tue 01/27/15 04:15 AM
why don;t people just be themselves. we can't appeal to everyone. just be as forward or shy as you really are and you will find someone who likes that kind of person. No one really appreciates finding out that someone is totally different than how they initially present themselves. Ya u are living in a fantasy world

Nocturnaeus Joined Mon 01/26/15 Posts: 17	Tue 01/27/15 08:06 AM
Thanks , will do .

lionsbrew Joined Tue 08/22/06 Posts: 14232	Tue 01/27/15 11:08 AM
Doesn't bother me in the least. A driven woman can be appealing.

jivanpawar488 Joined Mon 11/24/14 Posts: 1	Wed 01/28/15 09:21 PM
Hiii

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Wed 01/28/15 11:10 PM
when women ask you ..do you have the time.?. my response .is.. I always. have time, for a beautiful woman.. such as yourself!.. . when women ask you.. is this seat taken.?. my response is.. I was holding it in reserve, on the hopes 'and wishes 'that a beautiful woman such as yourself! would join me.... . I guess my wish ,just came true....

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Wed 01/28/15 11:11 PM
Hmm. just a tad bit! sugary sweet.. .. perhaps ,a little too smooth.. Lol

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Wed 01/28/15 11:19 PM
I have never been shy when someone catches my eye. I will wait for their interest to begin and then let them know I am interested. Is a woman who knows what she wants appealing or scary? Do other women do this? I like a woman who knows what she wants and isn't afraid to go after it. :) I will approach a woman of interest, but I don't mind if she approaches me first.

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Wed 01/28/15 11:26 PM
I like to play "hard to get"....Seems to work for me....haha I'm not a chaser, nor do I play games. When a woman tries to play hard to get with me, I just let her go. Unless of course she's just being playful, such as if we were already in a relationship and she tried to play like she wasn't in the mood, but I could tell she was.

jacktrades Joined Tue 09/11/12 Posts: 4395	Thu 01/29/15 12:16 AM
I think a woman who knows what she wants and has confidence is very appealing.

2469nascar Joined Fri 11/22/13 Posts: 5231	Thu 01/29/15 02:47 AM
I think most men like that when a woman makes the 1st move.kinda sexy.JMO

unknown_romeo Joined Wed 03/26/14 Posts: 7691	Thu 01/29/15 03:31 AM
I think most men like that when a woman makes the 1st move.kinda sexy.JMO when women do that it makes me happy

2469nascar Joined Fri 11/22/13 Posts: 5231	Thu 01/29/15 03:41 AM
I think most men like that when a woman makes the 1st move.kinda sexy.JMO when women do that it makes me happy I KNOW WHAT YOU MEEN. KINDA HOT WHEN A WOMAN ASK A MAN OUT FIRST

messi_is_a_tim_1888 Joined Fri 11/28/14 Posts: 3309	Thu 01/29/15 03:50 AM
I think most men like that when a woman makes the 1st move.kinda sexy.JMO when women do that it makes me happy I KNOW WHAT YOU MEEN. KINDA HOT WHEN A WOMAN ASK A MAN OUT FIRST Aye, but the question at the back of my mind also would be, just HOW many guys has she approached this way? Two sides to a coin, that's all i'm saying?

Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Thu 01/29/15 05:34 AM
I think most men like that when a woman makes the 1st move.kinda sexy.JMO when women do that it makes me happy I KNOW WHAT YOU MEEN. KINDA HOT WHEN A WOMAN ASK A MAN OUT FIRST Aye, but the question at the back of my mind also would be, just HOW many guys has she approached this way? Two sides to a coin, that's all i'm saying? Now thats when you Minglers of the same sex should befriend each other, so you can name and shame the players. Just a thought....do women wonder how many other women this guy has asked? Or does she feel chosen and special? Or does she/he be in the moment?

theseacoast Joined Wed 07/09/14 Posts: 7419	Thu 01/29/15 06:00 AM
I think most men like that when a woman makes the 1st move.kinda sexy.JMO when women do that it makes me happy I KNOW WHAT YOU MEEN. KINDA HOT WHEN A WOMAN ASK A MAN OUT FIRST Aye, but the question at the back of my mind also would be, just HOW many guys has she approached this way? Two sides to a coin, that's all i'm saying? Now thats when you Minglers of the same sex should befriend each other, so you can name and shame the players. Just a thought....do women wonder how many other women this guy has asked? Or does she feel chosen and special? Or does she/he be in the moment? Somehow neither of that. I�ll never think of how many women he asked out, never think about how many women he slept with, past is past and I�don�t care about it unless it has some influence on today. A new blanc sheet of paper. Do I feel chosen and special? No. I�feel chosen and special by time after he really shows me I�m chosen and special for him. At first moment, I�m just curious. But the third question I didn�t get what you ment by that ((Ladywind))