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brownsugar222 Joined Thu 11/06/14 Posts: 3	Tue 01/27/15 04:02 AM
I am a good woman and I know how to treat a lady but it seems like it's not enough. Am I too nice, too caring? What the hell do yall women want? If you rather be treated like trash that's not me so what should I do?

avamari2 Joined Sat 01/17/15 Posts: 86	Tue 01/27/15 04:19 AM
Always be you. Never change for anyone. You'll find her. Patience...

MadDog1974 Joined Mon 01/26/15 Posts: 5942	Tue 01/27/15 04:25 AM
Sounds familiar. Her: You're such a great guy. I'd love to find someone just like you. Me: I'm available. Her: Ok, but not you. To which I don't usually say anything. I just brush it off because she's lying about what she wants and she's not worth my time.

Jtevans Joined Fri 08/10/07 Posts: 30654	Tue 01/27/15 04:27 AM
you've gotta be a pimp in todays world

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Tue 01/27/15 05:27 AM
I am a good woman and I know how to treat a lady but it seems like it's not enough. Am I too nice, too caring? What the hell do yall women want? If you rather be treated like trash that's not me so what should I do? Its possible that you are too nice and passive. I wouldn't go to the complete opposite side of the spectrum, but try to find a balance between passive and assertive. Continue to be kind and caring, but you also have to have strong and protective side as well. You want her to know she is loved and that you can protect her from harm.

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Tue 01/27/15 05:29 AM
I am a good woman and I know how to treat a lady but it seems like it's not enough. Am I too nice, too caring? What the hell do yall women want? If you rather be treated like trash that's not me so what should I do? Its possible that you are too nice and passive. I wouldn't go to the complete opposite side of the spectrum, but try to find a balance between passive and assertive. Continue to be kind and caring, but you also have to have strong and protective side as well. You want her to know she is loved and that you can protect her from harm.

CremeBrulee Joined Tue 11/06/12 Posts: 2726	Tue 01/27/15 05:30 AM
I am a good woman and I know how to treat a lady but it seems like it's not enough. Am I too nice, too caring? What the hell do yall women want? If you rather be treated like trash that's not me so what should I do? Its possible that you are too nice and passive. I wouldn't go to the complete opposite side of the spectrum, but try to find a balance between passive and assertive. Continue to be kind and caring, but you also have to have strong and protective side as well. You want her to know she is loved and that you can protect her from harm. This ^^^^^^ is,a very good standpoint /trait!!!

theseacoast Joined Wed 07/09/14 Posts: 7419	Tue 01/27/15 06:27 AM
Sounds familiar. Her: You're such a great guy. I'd love to find someone just like you. Me: I'm available. Her: Ok, but not you. To which I don't usually say anything. I just brush it off because she's lying about what she wants and she's not worth my time. Very familiar to me, too. Or the guy who broke up with me because I was too good to him. After about five years he wanted to come back with words that no other was like me. Well, too late.

jacktrades Joined Tue 09/11/12 Posts: 4395	Thu 01/29/15 12:03 AM Edited by jacktrades on Thu 01/29/15 12:17 AM
I am a good woman and I know how to treat a lady but it seems like it's not enough. Am I too nice, too caring? What the hell do yall women want? If you rather be treated like trash that's not me so what should I do? It probably seems like things are not going your way but if you truly are a nice person love will come your way. Sometimes it takes awhile that's why it is so valuable.I hope you find what your looking for. Best wishes to you.

HoneyFly Joined Mon 01/27/14 Posts: 1962	Thu 01/29/15 12:05 AM
I agree with Tot's 2nd post.