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Topic: Feminism and Men
MadDog1974 Joined Mon 01/26/15 Posts: 5942	Sun 03/01/15 07:04 PM
Gaborney Sidibe is 31 years old, I doubt she's old enough to be your mother since you don't look that young. So since you did not answer my question, I am going to assume that you would NOT date and marry her. The point I'm trying to make is that men like you who deem women "ugly" by society's standard may have to conform to the term that men like you despise: "feminist." You wouldn't write that if you knew his taste in women. Jealous because it's not you?

urbanexchange Joined Sun 03/01/15 Posts: 172	Sun 03/01/15 07:08 PM
All I said was that she seemed to be asking a general question to those who hate feminists. And that those who hate feminists tend to be more conservative (think Rush Limbaugh and fans). I didn't see her accusing you, or anyone else of hating feminists. The problem with this statement is it assumes disagreement and hatred are the same thing. It was initially a question that you failed to answer. Instead, you circumvented the answer by FIRST stating that those women were older enough to be your mother. When I brought up the fact that Gaborney Sidibe (Oscar nominee for Precious) is 31 years old, you once again deflected the question by stating "I don't know who she is" and also by stating "even if I don't find her unattractive." Which proves my point. If Janet Reno and Hillary Clinton are deemed by society's standard as being "too old" for Men to date them, and if women are deemed by society's standard as being "unattractive" then they have to become a phrase that most extreme-right wing men hate "feminist." If the men won't take care of them, then how are they suppose to take care of themselves?? Personally, I believe "feminism" is a depopulation tactic created by the "elite" to weed the undesirables: societal eugenics. It has worked marvelous. The birth rate in the United States in 1957 was 3.65 Per 1000. Now, it's 1.8 per 1000.

IamwhoIam1 Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 6400	Sun 03/01/15 07:09 PM
I have nothing or no one to be jealous of.

yellowrose10 Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 52804	Sun 03/01/15 07:15 PM
I have a question to all the men who HATE feminist. Would you marry gabourey sidibe, Janet Reno, or hillary Clinton? Would you have a sexual encounter these these aforementioned women if they weren't in relationships? this really doesn't prove someone hates feminists. Could just be they aren't attracted.

IamwhoIam1 Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 6400	Sun 03/01/15 07:16 PM
I am pro-eugenic.

MadDog1974 Joined Mon 01/26/15 Posts: 5942	Sun 03/01/15 07:17 PM
All I said was that she seemed to be asking a general question to those who hate feminists. And that those who hate feminists tend to be more conservative (think Rush Limbaugh and fans). I didn't see her accusing you, or anyone else of hating feminists. The problem with this statement is it assumes disagreement and hatred are the same thing. It was initially a question that you failed to answer. Instead, you circumvented the answer by FIRST stating that those women were older enough to be your mother. When I brought up the fact that Gaborney Sidibe (Oscar nominee for Precious) is 31 years old, you once again deflected the question by stating "I don't know who she is" and also by stating "even if I don't find her unattractive." Which proves my point. If Janet Reno and Hillary Clinton are deemed by society's standard as being "too old" for Men to date them, and if women are deemed by society's standard as being "unattractive" then they have to become a phrase that most extreme-right wing men hate "feminist." If the men won't take care of them, then how are they suppose to take care of themselves?? Personally, I believe "feminism" is a depopulation tactic created by the "elite" to weed the undesirables: societal eugenics. It has worked marvelous. The birth rate in the United States in 1957 was 3.65 Per 1000. Now, it's 1.8 per 1000. You are making no sense at all. Men are not allowed to attracted to some women and not others unless they are sexist? Excuse me for not knowing every celebrity. I don't know who some actress is because I don't care about them. And for women older than my mother? Certain age differences are just a bit much. Guess what? I'm also not interested in a 20 - something. Does that make me sexist also?

yellowrose10 Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 52804	Sun 03/01/15 07:18 PM
I am pro-eugenic. I have an ex you can use for this cause

MadDog1974 Joined Mon 01/26/15 Posts: 5942	Sun 03/01/15 07:20 PM
I have nothing or no one to be jealous of. Yet you act like you are. It's really unnecessary.

IamwhoIam1 Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 6400	Sun 03/01/15 07:22 PM Edited by IamwhoIam1 on Sun 03/01/15 07:23 PM
You are really full of yourself now, Doggie. Don't make me c*m over there.

IamwhoIam1 Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 6400	Sun 03/01/15 07:25 PM
I am pro-eugenic. I have an ex you can use for this cause He must be hot, intelligent and multitalented then. Introduce us!

MadDog1974 Joined Mon 01/26/15 Posts: 5942	Sun 03/01/15 07:29 PM
You are really full of yourself now, Doggie. Don't make me c*m over there.

urbanexchange Joined Sun 03/01/15 Posts: 172	Sun 03/01/15 08:17 PM
Never accused you of being a sexist but the fact remains that United States has an extremely low birth rate. For a developed nation, we have twice as many 60-80 year old than we have 0-5 year old. You are totally correct. You have a right to be attracted to whomever you want but guess what? Depopulation in the United States is at full speed because of us being un-attracted and isolated from one another. The average size in United States for a woman is 14. Is size 14 advertised in our entertainment industry? Women who are deemed unattractive by societal standards have to become feminist.

MadDog1974 Joined Mon 01/26/15 Posts: 5942	Sun 03/01/15 08:44 PM
Never accused you of being a sexist but the fact remains that United States has an extremely low birth rate. For a developed nation, we have twice as many 60-80 year old than we have 0-5 year old. You are totally correct. You have a right to be attracted to whomever you want but guess what? Depopulation in the United States is at full speed because of us being un-attracted and isolated from one another. The average size in United States for a woman is 14. Is size 14 advertised in our entertainment industry? Women who are deemed unattractive by societal standards have to become feminist. Nobody has to do anything. You're basically saying that unless someone looks a certain way, they have to accept a certain point of view. I know plenty of women who don't fit the Hollywood Barbie Doll ideal who don't think of themselves as feminists, and plenty of women who do fit that ideal who fit the misandrist stereotype of a feminist. Likewise, just because Hollywood says that a size 0 is ideal doesn't mean that most men buy into that. And your argument also ignores the fact that certain unrealistic ideals are also in place for men. Some women buy into that ideal. Many more don't. Your argument is bordering on saying that people are too stupid to realize what their own attractions are.

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Sun 03/01/15 11:41 PM
Well this took an aberrant turn.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Mon 03/02/15 12:00 AM
Well this took an aberrant turn. See what you hath created valley girl?

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Mon 03/02/15 12:29 AM
Well this took an aberrant turn. See what you hath created valley girl? Pretty sure all this fem talk got you off country boi.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Mon 03/02/15 01:08 AM
Well this took an aberrant turn. See what you hath created valley girl? Pretty sure all this fem talk got you off country boi. Straight jackin!

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Mon 03/02/15 05:12 PM
Well this took an aberrant turn. See what you hath created valley girl? Pretty sure all this fem talk got you off country boi. Straight jackin! Was it really anywhere else?

messi_is_a_tim_1888 Joined Fri 11/28/14 Posts: 3309	Mon 03/02/15 10:02 PM
I don't mind a woman who knows her own mind and does the same things as I would do. I employ 3 lassies and they get the same rate of pay, from me for the same job, as the guys that work for me also. There's a fine line, between talking about woman's rights and then constantly harping on about the same subject, over and over again though? I would say the same thing to a guy who was talking about male topics constantly also. We're all equal in my eyes. So one shot at life, enjoy it while you're here and I just wish this battle of the sexes would go away and people would get on and get a laugh and a joke for a change? Burn your bra if you want and I'll burn my Calvin Kleins, but what does that tell you? That it was a waste of money buying the items of underwear in the first place?

MelMaxx Joined Thu 10/28/10 Posts: 4724	Tue 03/03/15 05:43 AM
Most women who embrace the label of feminist are generally misandrist hags who cite any disagreement with them, especially by a man, as misogyny. They are bitter, angry women who are just unpleasant to be around. I don't want a lecture because I dare to be nice and open a car door. That's not my way of saying you can't do it. It's my way of saying that you deserve to be treated politely and with respect. If you mean women who simply support equality, are educated, can articulate an opinion, and wants but doesn't need a man, and who will treat me with respect and won't accept any disrespect to her, yes, I not only can be with that kind of woman, but that's the only type I'm really interested in. But the misandrist hags who think they are superior to men? Hell no!