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| Topic: Is it okay for a lady to ask a guy out? | |
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Normally its the guys who ask girls on a date.. but I wanna know, as a lady, can you make the first move? As for me, I can't! cos if I do, and he rejects me, I'm not sure I'll be normal again :D  So frank you are while saying this...I will suggest you to learn to accept no...so the question don't arise in your mind again.
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if she is going to pay all that bills, then she can take me out. No problem If a guy asked me out, I wouldn't expect him to pay. I actually prefer to contribute myself because sometimes if a guy pays he expects more from you. i do this ^^^ if i don't like the guy... easier for me to turn him down eventually as for asking the guy out... maybe just to hang out as friends, but not as a date |
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Yes as you seem to want permission... Thanks for the permission...on her behalf! 
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Yes obviously you can and even if he rejects it is his loss not your
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can i
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There is absolutely nothing wrong with a woman asking a man out for a date. It is only a date, not a marriage proposal. Ladies, did you ever stop to think that men might be intimidated by your beauty and personality and will hesitate to ask you on a date? Just so you know ladies, men get confused easily when it comes to figuring out whether or not a woman is interested in them. I can say that because it has happened to me and some of my closest friends.
Ladies, go for it. 
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Welcome to life where rejection is normal. Have u been to job interviews and then be told u are not suitable ?? Have u rejected a man's advances because he is not suitable ?? Have u rejected friends that just want to hang out ?
If u dont ask u may loose him and he may pass by ! You could seek him out by by just letting him know you want to be around him Be noticed! |
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Welcome to life where rejection is normal. Have u been to job interviews and then be told u are not suitable ?? Have u rejected a man's advances because he is not suitable ?? Have u rejected friends that just want to hang out ?
If u dont ask u may loose him and he may pass by ! You could seek him out by by just letting him know you want to be around him Be noticed! |
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Depends on the lady
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Normally its the guys who ask girls on a date.. but I wanna know, as a lady, can you make the first move? As for me, I can't! cos if I do, and he rejects me, I'm not sure I'll be normal again :D This is the 21st Century, women should and some already do, ask guys for dates. We are all equal and women should have no fears about asking a guy out, even if they do sometimes find they are refused first time, they should always try again, guys like women that show a keen interest in them. Good luck. |
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if she is going to pay all that bills, then she can take me out. No problem If a guy asked me out, I wouldn't expect him to pay. I actually prefer to contribute myself because sometimes if a guy pays he expects more from you. Let him pay. Umphh that! That's the least he could do for the pleasure of a beautiful woman's company. |
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There is absolutely nothing wrong with a woman asking a man out for a date. It is only a date, not a marriage proposal. Ladies, did you ever stop to think that men might be intimidated by your beauty and personality and will hesitate to ask you on a date? Just so you know ladies, men get confused easily when it comes to figuring out whether or not a woman is interested in them. I can say that because it has happened to me and some of my closest friends. Ladies, go for it. That never stopped the ones I didn't like. It only stops the ones I want. Go figure. |
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if she is going to pay all that bills, then she can take me out. No problem If a guy asked me out, I wouldn't expect him to pay. I actually prefer to contribute myself because sometimes if a guy pays he expects more from you. i do this ^^^ if i don't like the guy... easier for me to turn him down eventually as for asking the guy out... maybe just to hang out as friends, but not as a date Guys - be cautious if a woman starts offering to pay during a date, because it can sometimes mean she's getting ready to ditch you in a polite way. lol |
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Normally its the guys who ask girls on a date.. but I wanna know, as a lady, can you make the first move? As for me, I can't! cos if I do, and he rejects me, I'm not sure I'll be normal again :D women are equal to men. or so they say. man up... bite that bullet. |
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Sometimes when a girl offers to pay its because she doesn't want the burden to be on the man. If the guy was yuck yea he can pay for the date. I find it easy to ask a guy out to something like tenpin bowling or watch a game over rugby with no other intentions. To ask a guy on a dinner date seems scary. I am too afraid they might say no. I dont think i could look them in the face after that. Myself I think I would like him to ask.
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Is possible
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If I am interested in someone and if timing is right I have no problem asking someone out on a date. With the understanding I'm paying...
I don't see the issue of it personally. It is a date it isn't moving in together or marriage... it is a date nothing more. I honestly believe when people start getting hung up on the little things is where the train derails... |
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of course it is. most of us neanderthals do get subtle hints unless they are wrapped around a brick
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Why not?
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Personally I don't think there is anything wrong for a lady to be asking the guy out. If you're interested, what's the harm? If you don't, you just might miss out on someone interesting!
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