The sad truth about men!
Most men are afraid of commitment.
It's easier than ever to get sex without marriage!
Most guys don't feel the need to marry a woman if he already gets her in his bed.
Why buy a cow when you can get milk for free?

Looking for attention are we. I suppose bad attention is better than none at all right.

MOST MEN? oh come on now. i have never owned a cow. get my milk from wal-mart. JK ya i can see how some PPL are afread to commit to someone after being stabbed in the back. guess it takes some PPL time to trust again. JMHO

Are you using laughing gas???

.. so the question .. needs to be asked..

.. and I say this in the nicest way possible...

.. why did your husband marry you then..... he is a man right..
.. and all US men are only out for one thing.. right..

Milk a bull.
He'll be your's for life.

Don't think it's that black and white ...
I think many women are equally afraid to commit, just that many women want to, doesn't mean they're not wary of it or able to.
I do think woman tend to open up more easily once in an established relationship, but wouldn't really dare say this is true without some solid statistics to underwrite it.

And let's say your statement IS true... then both genders have some serious thinking to do .. Men to analyze why they let that happen to them and why they don't 'recover'. Women to analyze why/how they contributed to men becoming that way.

Not all that simple. Pointing fingers won't get us anywhere...
If nothing else it will make men think "See, women are biotches!" and their reactions will make us think "See, all men are a-holes!"
Making us run around in vicious circles.

Any topic starter person can be called 'looking for attention' and 'bad attention' even depending on YOUR OPINION about the topic.

Here we talk about many different relationship topics. Sometimes they are called 'Boobs or ***?' and no one minds one little bit when it's obviously degrading towards women.

joethebricky- What is going on with you not liking this thread? Are you feeling a little bit guilty because you think you fit the description by any chance?

I admit, I do have a fear of becoming committed.
Though for slightly different reasons, I think.

Tell me again about how it's easy to get sex without marriage??? Seriously, because I haven't had sex in so long the very idea of it is now intimidating to me.

Women have an easy time getting sex when they want - all you have to do is ask and 90% of men (married or not) will say "Sure!" We actually have to work at it, date, buy dinners listen to boring cr*p we don't care about and still get told "no." I think you might have the sexes confused on this one.

Peeks in...backs out of door... I don't want to get cat scratch fever...

is that all us men or all U.S. men?

Don't you worry your little self sweetheart. You'd be the last person on earth that I'd date.
Now carry on living off the tax payer.

bad timing...?

You think you're funny but you're not.
I mean it!

OUCH!!!!!!

Funny is not my intent.
Just telling the truth.
I gotta be me.

Show some respect!

I don't know why most men don't want to commit to just one woman, even though I've heard every excuse in the book.