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I remember doing this for several years after my husband died...I would think I was over it, moved on doing wonderful then out of the blue. It would hit me like it was yesterday, man that sucked.. I still have days after 30 years, this year, that something will happen and I will remember such sweet memories of things that no one else on this earth could know or understand.. Those damn flashbacks will get you.. That is exactly how it is. Them flashbacks are bad  but somehow we get through it.. take that car out and put her through her paces and if that doesn't make you feel better nothing will
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I remember doing this for several years after my husband died...I would think I was over it, moved on doing wonderful then out of the blue. It would hit me like it was yesterday, man that sucked.. I still have days after 30 years, this year, that something will happen and I will remember such sweet memories of things that no one else on this earth could know or understand.. Those damn flashbacks will get you.. That is exactly how it is. Them flashbacks are bad but somehow we get through it.. take that car out and put her through her paces and if that doesn't make you feel better nothing will Yeah it sure will & a busy day ahead will too 
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Thanks all for your feedback.i really appreciate it. Altho i'm sharing things on here that i don't really share with people i know in real lol
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We all tend to share more with those we don't even know it is easier to talk about it to those you may never see. Then with friends you see every day..
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We all tend to share more with those we don't even know it is easier to talk about it to those you may never see. Then with friends you see every day.. Yes Kristi & thats a cute pic 
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Thank you that is my oldest grand daughter and I...
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Thank you that is my oldest grand daughter and I... You surely don't look like a grandmother 
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I've actually seen successsful & respected men in society that were evil & conniving creeps & i've also seen women like that....
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Posted in the wrong thread
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I thought this was gonna be a thread about that Johnny Deep movie.
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Edited by
no1phD
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Thu 05/07/15 07:39 PM
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Whenever something not too pleasent occurs in my life which gets me a lil low...i think of her & wish to hold her... coz just holding her during bad times would make everything ok. But those days are gone. Regardless of how many people are in my life sometimes i wish to touch & hold that special one & give her all my love. .yes.. those times when you have the wind knocked out of your sails.. . and you don't think you could take another breath... make another step forward.... those times when it would be nice to have a little guidance Council..... but that go to person is no longer the go-to person anymore... for me it was my dad... he was the one I would seek out... on those days I needed a little pick me up.....hmm.. however he is not there in person to pick me up any longer.. sadly.... then there was my oldest sister.... she was my second go to person... she always knew what to say... she was the master at tough love...lol... never any sympathy.... she would just tell me stop being such a little girl..... sadly.. . they are no longer here to pick me up by my boot straps...... ... but on those days I'm feeling particularly blue....... on those days I really know the meaning..... of loneliness..... the loss is palatable.. ... unconsoling..... but then I can hear her voice... stop being such a little girl.... and I can remember the times... . my dad would say..... it's going to be ok.. just keep putting one foot in front of the other and you will be fine....oui... . . . . |
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 <--------I just "talk to the hand" (sometimes we make love  )
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I thought this was gonna be a thread about that Johnny Deep movie. Ha! |
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I think missing that love that made you exquisitely happy is much harder than forgetting the one who was like a bad tooth you finally got the courage to pull out of your life.
I just wish more people would not assume that because you are single you are somehow deeply flawed. I see decent people , especially men , who seem to just watch life from the sidelines thinking they have to be perfect or find perfect to be happy and share love. |
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Edited by
SitkaRains
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Thu 05/07/15 08:20 PM
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Whenever something not too pleasent occurs in my life which gets me a lil low...i think of her & wish to hold her... coz just holding her during bad times would make everything ok. But those days are gone. Regardless of how many people are in my life sometimes i wish to touch & hold that special one & give her all my love. .yes.. those times when you have the wind knocked out of your sails.. . and you don't think you could take another breath... make another step forward.... those times when it would be nice to have a little guidance Council..... but that go to person is no longer the go-to person anymore... for me it was my dad... he was the one I would seek out... on those days I needed a little pick me up.....hmm.. however he is not there in person to pick me up any longer.. sadly.... then there was my oldest sister.... she was my second go to person... she always knew what to say... she was the master at tough love...lol... never any sympathy.... she would just tell me stop being such a little girl..... sadly.. . they are no longer here to pick me up by my boot straps...... ... but on those days I'm feeling particularly blue....... on those days I really know the meaning..... of loneliness..... the loss is palatable.. ... unconsoling..... but then I can hear her voice... stop being such a little girl.... and I can remember the times... . my dad would say..... it's going to be ok.. just keep putting one foot in front of the other and you will be fine....oui... . . . . Dayyyummmm  
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Edited by
jacktrades
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Fri 05/08/15 01:32 AM
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I think all relationships where there was honest and true love but went sour are almost the same. I could not wait for mine to end just to leave the anger and bitterness behind,then down the road away's the mind wanders back to the good old days when the love was strong and hell yea I miss it.One day day it will knock on my door again, until then live and learn life hurts sometimes.
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I think all relationships where there was honest and true love but went sour are almost the same. I could not wait for mine to end just to leave the anger and bitterness behind,then down the road away's the mind wanders back to the good old days when the love was strong and hell yea I miss it.One day day it will knock on my door again, until then live and learn life hurts sometimes. is that just being nostalgic? miss the good times looking back now the fights and hostile insults thrown back and forth? uhhh not so much |
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I think all relationships where there was honest and true love but went sour are almost the same. I could not wait for mine to end just to leave the anger and bitterness behind,then down the road away's the mind wanders back to the good old days when the love was strong and hell yea I miss it.One day day it will knock on my door again, until then live and learn life hurts sometimes.
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Don't waste time looking back, rather look forward to the day when a beautiful heart will walk into your life, because she will.
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Don't waste time looking back, rather look forward to the day when a beautiful heart will walk into your life, because she will. ^
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