Topic: haunting question
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Mon 07/13/15 01:59 AM
How do you deal with..
Loss of health
Loss of life
Loss of faith.

shedelfino's photo
Mon 07/13/15 02:05 AM
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..insanity

Awatersign's photo
Mon 07/13/15 02:10 AM
Edited by Awatersign on Mon 07/13/15 02:11 AM
Pray,pray,pray,and pray,and lost of health depends,could just be a matter of discipline , determination and dedication,that's for like the things you can control,like maybe obesity ECT,lost of life,time heals all wounds,good luck!

Awatersign's photo
Mon 07/13/15 02:10 AM

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..insanity
:laughing:

Annierooroo's photo
Mon 07/13/15 02:20 AM
One day at a time.
I found writing everything thing in a journal helps
Experiences, the good and the bad. Memories.
And also think positive. There is always good, sometimes we have to look more in depth.

Awatersign's photo
Mon 07/13/15 02:22 AM

One day at a time.
I found writing everything thing in a journal helps
Experiences, the good and the bad. Memories.
And also think positive. There is always good, sometimes we have to look more in depth.
So true (a POSITIVE ATTITUDE),it's highly underrated!!:thumbsup:

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Mon 07/13/15 08:28 AM
Edited by SitkaRains on Mon 07/13/15 08:29 AM

How do you deal with..


Loss of health

Well I have had some major health issues. I choose to take it one day at a time and do what I can knowing that I will overcome it in time

Loss of life

When I lost my husband, I mourned deeply and for years, Then slowly but surely I started remembering all the wonderful things that we shared and things he said to me.


Loss of faith.



When I lost faith I was thankful I had my journals to reread to find all the reasons where faith had carried me through the rough times and caused me to rejoice when things were wonderful.
I personally take a moment each morning as I awake to remind myself of 5 things I have been blessed with so I dont' loose my faith ever again, I think the day I lost my faith was harder to endure than when I lost my husband.

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Mon 07/13/15 08:58 AM
Edited by Lukinfolov on Mon 07/13/15 08:58 AM

How do you deal with..
Loss of health
Loss of life
Loss of faith.



Loss of health - If you are not too old and don't have a life threatening disease, you can gradually get back your health through nature cure. I do it for others.

Loss of life - I doesn't bother me. Everyone has to die one day or the other. Its all in the divine plan, so can't change it.

Loss of faith - Faith is blind, so I don't have any faith or belief. I am open to things I don't understand.

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Mon 07/13/15 09:03 AM


How do you deal with..


Loss of health

Well I have had some major health issues. I choose to take it one day at a time and do what I can knowing that I will overcome it in time

Loss of life

When I lost my husband, I mourned deeply and for years, Then slowly but surely I started remembering all the wonderful things that we shared and things he said to me.


Loss of faith.



When I lost faith I was thankful I had my journals to reread to find all the reasons where faith had carried me through the rough times and caused me to rejoice when things were wonderful.
I personally take a moment each morning as I awake to remind myself of 5 things I have been blessed with so I dont' loose my faith ever again, I think the day I lost my faith was harder to endure than when I lost my husband.



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Mon 07/13/15 11:35 AM
How do you deal with.. Loss...

The same way every other human being on the face of the planet deals with loss.

First I whine and pule (sometimes internally, sometimes externally) believing I'm aww awone, da only one, and no one has ebber ebber gone tru wut I have becuz Imma widdle victim.
Using this loss to find "meaning" and "depth" which is really just stroking my own ego to make myself feel special.

Then, after an indeterminate amount of time, depending on the severity of loss, I jump through the stages of grief.

Then, I act towards filling the hole of loss with something else.
Sometimes with help.
Sometimes without.




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Fri 08/07/15 03:53 AM
A grieving process needs to run its course for any loss. I think after a while acceptance takes hold and people adjust to the situation. It's easier with help from family, friends, and some unbiased counseling if needed.

The things we lose over time are common for many of us. Eventually we all start to lose our health, loved ones (people and pets), and at least once a job.

For me it helps to keep busy and focus on newer memories as the older ones sting less.

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Fri 08/07/15 04:00 AM

A grieving process needs to run its course for any loss. I think after a while acceptance takes hold and people adjust to the situation. It's easier with help from family, friends, and some unbiased counseling if needed.

The things we lose over time are common for many of us. Eventually we all start to lose our health, loved ones (people and pets), and at least once a job.

For me it helps to keep busy and focus on newer memories as the older ones sting less.


:thumbsup: :smile:

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Fri 08/07/15 05:14 AM
Allowing yourself to go through the grieving process, keeping busy, and knowing that you do have one good friend to talk to, someone who will listen, and be a shoulder for you to cry on.