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Topic: So many things
theseacoast Joined Wed 07/09/14 Posts: 7419	Tue 07/14/15 01:21 PM
Of course!! ((((Sea))))Sending you all my love! (((Lu))) my beautiful friend, love you and thank you

IamwhoIam1 Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 6400	Tue 07/14/15 01:32 PM
Hang in there. Things look darkest before the dawn. There are days you want to... But the next day, when you wait it out, you will be glad you waited it through. I understand the feeling of despair and frustration. Stay strong.

PacificStar48 Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 13764	Tue 07/14/15 02:21 PM
Sorry to hear you are feeling so overwhelmed. Been there , done that , got the t-shirt so you have my sympathy. I will say sometimes you have to be your own best advocate and learn that it is ALWAYS ok to use the magic word NO and or say Time out to recharge your batteries (REST) when your feeling like more is more than you can handle. We all have limits and what we can handle on one day is not always what we can handle when things tend to "snowball" which they often do. People find this out often the hard way when they hit the wall and have to try to pull themselves up with very little help. Hard as it is letting friends or even strangers help is perfectly acceptable. I have found that very few problems are not easier if taken on in small "baby" steps than trying to think of some grand answer. Very few situations come on over night so not likely to get gone over night either but sometimes just journaling the issues helps me sort out problems and see if any solutions are available for parts of the problem and when/where I can get started. The older I get I find most issues women face are NOT "new" and there is generally someone around with experience that can help "light" the way if we ask. Have a lot of experience and caring here in Mingle land if you want to tap into it. Good Luck.

theseacoast Joined Wed 07/09/14 Posts: 7419	Tue 07/14/15 02:22 PM
Hang in there. Things look darkest before the dawn. There are days you want to... But the next day, when you wait it out, you will be glad you waited it through. I understand the feeling of despair and frustration. Stay strong. (((Iam))) yes, you are right. I will try. Thank you

Redbutterfly098 Joined Tue 08/19/14 Posts: 2761	Tue 07/14/15 02:50 PM
Sorry to hear you are feeling so overwhelmed. Been there , done that , got the t-shirt so you have my sympathy. I will say sometimes you have to be your own best advocate and learn that it is ALWAYS ok to use the magic word NO and or say Time out to recharge your batteries (REST) when your feeling like more is more than you can handle. We all have limits and what we can handle on one day is not always what we can handle when things tend to "snowball" which they often do. People find this out often the hard way when they hit the wall and have to try to pull themselves up with very little help. Hard as it is letting friends or even strangers help is perfectly acceptable. I have found that very few problems are not easier if taken on in small "baby" steps than trying to think of some grand answer. Very few situations come on over night so not likely to get gone over night either but sometimes just journaling the issues helps me sort out problems and see if any solutions are available for parts of the problem and when/where I can get started. The older I get I find most issues women face are NOT "new" and there is generally someone around with experience that can help "light" the way if we ask. Have a lot of experience and caring here in Mingle land if you want to tap into it. Good Luck.

eric22t Joined Wed 08/13/14 Posts: 27928	Tue 07/14/15 03:00 PM


Annierooroo Joined Mon 10/20/14 Posts: 12552	Tue 07/14/15 03:08 PM
Yes praying for you. are coming your way. Here if you need me.

unknown_romeo Joined Wed 03/26/14 Posts: 7691	Tue 07/14/15 03:12 PM
I�m losing strength to cope with all what is happening now. What exactly is happening now, as you say

wolfchic Joined Wed 09/26/07 Posts: 8036	Tue 07/14/15 04:49 PM
Prayers on there way! Things will be okay. Just Believe!

SitkaRains Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 17228	Wed 07/15/15 07:28 AM Edited by SitkaRains on Wed 07/15/15 07:31 AM
are going wrong. Please can you remember me in your prayers? I�m losing strength to cope with all what is happening now. I�m so very sad... Thank you I am so sorry to hear that life is getting to you, this is so sad since you are one that is so positive..Will definitely keep warm thoughts and prayers going for you.

TMommy Joined Fri 05/10/13 Posts: 9850	Wed 07/15/15 11:21 AM
some say that trouble comes in three's not sure I believe it but I do know that withing course of a week my computer died that I needed for grad school, had to spend over 600 bucks getting brakes fixed and had to come up with money to pay for my son's class trip and this was right after I graduated and was trying to save every penny for moving..I was a nervous wreck for awhile there..worrying if I was gonna have enough money for down payment and moving truck, if my oldest son was gonna be able to take time off of work to help ..worry worry worry worry its what I do ..hahhaa deep breahth...let it out one thing at a time handle what you can handle today.. if the answer is ya just dont know yet how that is gonna work out then ok..that is the answer

theseacoast Joined Wed 07/09/14 Posts: 7419	Wed 07/15/15 12:21 PM
(((Eric))) thank you

theseacoast Joined Wed 07/09/14 Posts: 7419	Wed 07/15/15 12:23 PM
Yes praying for you. are coming your way. Here if you need me. (((Annierooroo))) thank you so much

joethebricky Joined Sat 08/04/12 Posts: 12740	Wed 07/15/15 01:13 PM
Sea Why don't you talk to a professional, it's an option at least and better than keeping it locked in. Let it all out, it's what they're there for.

theseacoast Joined Wed 07/09/14 Posts: 7419	Wed 07/15/15 01:30 PM Edited by theseacoast on Wed 07/15/15 01:32 PM
Sorry to hear you are feeling so overwhelmed. Been there , done that , got the t-shirt so you have my sympathy. I will say sometimes you have to be your own best advocate and learn that it is ALWAYS ok to use the magic word NO and or say Time out to recharge your batteries (REST) when your feeling like more is more than you can handle. We all have limits and what we can handle on one day is not always what we can handle when things tend to "snowball" which they often do. People find this out often the hard way when they hit the wall and have to try to pull themselves up with very little help. Hard as it is letting friends or even strangers help is perfectly acceptable. I have found that very few problems are not easier if taken on in small "baby" steps than trying to think of some grand answer. Very few situations come on over night so not likely to get gone over night either but sometimes just journaling the issues helps me sort out problems and see if any solutions are available for parts of the problem and when/where I can get started. The older I get I find most issues women face are NOT "new" and there is generally someone around with experience that can help "light" the way if we ask. Have a lot of experience and caring here in Mingle land if you want to tap into it. Good Luck. (((Pacific))) yes, too many things and on some I can have only limited influence to change. And I am used to never ask for help of others that�s true too. Hate to rant or whine and annoy others with my problems when I know they have enough of theirs, more I am supporter. Just sometimes I lose strength too. And am afraid how I will handle it all by myself and what will come next. Seking a new job, lost previous one more than two months ago, deep financial problems, not to count others and the last one which almost broke me down the most - yesterday when I posted this topic I thought that I lost one very, very dear friend for good - and couldn�t do anything about it than to respect his choice. Just felt enormous emptiness and felt as giving up everything. Thank you so much for your kind and warm words and offer. Thank you. It means so much to me that I�m just not so alone

Annierooroo Joined Mon 10/20/14 Posts: 12552	Wed 07/15/15 01:31 PM
Sea Why don't you talk to a professional, it's an option at least and better than keeping it locked in. Let it all out, it's what they're there for. Great idea Joe I find writing a journal about things help me too. I don't dwell on it but it gets it out of me.

theseacoast Joined Wed 07/09/14 Posts: 7419	Wed 07/15/15 01:39 PM
I�m losing strength to cope with all what is happening now. What exactly is happening now, as you say I said it - part of it - when I replied to Pacific

theseacoast Joined Wed 07/09/14 Posts: 7419	Wed 07/15/15 01:41 PM
Prayers on there way! Things will be okay. Just Believe! Thank you for your support (((Wolfchic)))

theseacoast Joined Wed 07/09/14 Posts: 7419	Wed 07/15/15 01:52 PM
are going wrong. Please can you remember me in your prayers? I�m losing strength to cope with all what is happening now. I�m so very sad... Thank you I am so sorry to hear that life is getting to you, this is so sad since you are one that is so positive..Will definitely keep warm thoughts and prayers going for you. (((Sitka))) thank you for your warm words and beautiful quote. Yes dragon can be beaten. And everyhing will come to the right place. Just hang on. Thank you

SitkaRains Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 17228	Wed 07/15/15 01:55 PM
Well you are a wonderful positive lady and when you are struggling it brings us all together to help fight the dragons... Be at peace special lady