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Topic: open relationship
Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48916	Mon 08/24/15 02:01 PM
there is a thing called safe sex . . . but an open relationship isn't it.

Torgo70 Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 27387	Mon 08/24/15 02:19 PM
Is an open relationship anything like an opened-face sandwich?

mightymoe Joined Sun 11/19/06 Posts: 37362	Mon 08/24/15 02:24 PM
tell her no and you won't get to be around her at all... so i guess it depends on how you will handle it... forcing people into your will is just as bad, IMO...

1onlyaname Joined Sun 08/09/15 Posts: 1041	Mon 08/24/15 02:25 PM
serious question you are having a relationship with your best friend most beautiful person you have ever seen and its an open relationship. can you handle it and how? I wouldnt do it... but hey, whatever trips your triggera. Just watch out for some other dudes peter tracks when you lay down on her bed. actually this case there's only one man anyone else involved would be female. Ahhh....so you believe in this 'open' relationship, youre the only guy she's banging. snickers him: babe I am thinking we need an open relationship. You are really close friends with what's her name...the blond you work with right? soooo how about we open this up and invite her in? Her: you mean Bambi the new secretary? you wanna invite her into the bedroom...well.....I dunno...I guess that would be alright... but then let's also invite your golfing buddy Rod in..ya know the one who is home for summer from college and is all tan and muscled..and.. him: hey...dat sheet ain't funny Spot on not even close ur talking about a man having a fantasy threesome. not having threesome.

2469nascar Joined Fri 11/22/13 Posts: 5231	Mon 08/24/15 03:02 PM
serious question you are having a relationship with your best friend most beautiful person you have ever seen and its an open relationship. can you handle it and how? I wouldnt do it... but hey, whatever trips your trigger. Just watch out for some other dudes peter tracks when you lay down on her bed. sooo true,,now he will be checking next time he gos over for a quickie LOL

1onlyaname Joined Sun 08/09/15 Posts: 1041	Mon 08/24/15 03:54 PM
serious question you are having a relationship with your best friend most beautiful person you have ever seen and its an open relationship. can you handle it and how? I wouldnt do it... but hey, whatever trips your trigger. Just watch out for some other dudes peter tracks when you lay down on her bed. sooo true,,now he will be checking next time he gos over for a quickie LOL lol why would I check for anything? I don't have a jealous bone in my body. that be like searching for drama I'm not into that.

stefiepek Joined Wed 08/05/15 Posts: 720	Mon 08/24/15 04:12 PM
To me open relationship are somebody who only desire sex and not the commitment in a relationship. Since the person is your best friend then why do that to a friend.. I won't be able to handle it.. he will no longer be my friend if he start to suggest this.

SitkaRains Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 17228	Mon 08/24/15 06:25 PM
serious question you are having a relationship with your best friend most beautiful person you have ever seen and its an open relationship. can you handle it and how? Sure I could handle it.. Would I not on your life or his ... I believe in commitment all the way.. I have no problems and actually encourage him to have many friends of both sexes.. And if he wants to continue in a relationship with me, the it would behoove him to remember it is platonic friends..

1onlyaname Joined Sun 08/09/15 Posts: 1041	Mon 08/24/15 07:18 PM
serious question you are having a relationship with your best friend most beautiful person you have ever seen and its an open relationship. can you handle it and how? Sure I could handle it.. Would I not on your life or his ... I believe in commitment all the way.. I have no problems and actually encourage him to have many friends of both sexes.. And if he wants to continue in a relationship with me, the it would behoove him to remember it is platonic friends.. this started many years Ago as no strings attached and developed into best friends lovers never a commitment I myself will never marry I can love and commit just don't believe in that institution

jacktrades Joined Tue 09/11/12 Posts: 4395	Mon 08/24/15 07:40 PM
If it works for some people then I say it is just fine, but for myself I am looking for a more traditional relationship.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Mon 08/24/15 07:52 PM
serious question you are having a relationship with your best friend most beautiful person you have ever seen and its an open relationship. can you handle it and how? As long as she makes me lasagna before she hits the streets.

1onlyaname Joined Sun 08/09/15 Posts: 1041	Mon 08/24/15 08:03 PM
If it works for some people then I say it is just fine, but for myself I am looking for a more traditional relationship. I've heard you never really know someone till you divorce them. suppression leads to depression leads to revolt. I would never suppress anyone's desires. if no one is getting hurt enjoy life.

1onlyaname Joined Sun 08/09/15 Posts: 1041	Mon 08/24/15 08:05 PM
tell her no and you won't get to be around her at all... so i guess it depends on how you will handle it... forcing people into your will is just as bad, IMO... forcing controlling manipulating all forms of violence right

johnsonfaculty Joined Sun 08/23/15 Posts: 5	Wed 08/26/15 08:30 AM
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ciretom Joined Wed 06/18/14 Posts: 4953	Wed 08/26/15 08:58 AM
I've heard you never really know someone till you divorce them. suppression leads to depression leads to revolt. I would never suppress anyone's desires. if no one is getting hurt enjoy life. If you never really know someone till you divorce them...how do you know that you are or aren't suppressing their desires? How do you know whether or not they are getting hurt? Suppression can lead to depression and repression until revolt. Suppression can lead to depression and repression, without revolt. Someone can be a "suppressor" and not realize it, unable to see themselves as such.

matutum63 Joined Sun 09/29/13 Posts: 52	Wed 08/26/15 09:03 AM
as long as you can just stay best friends then it doesn't matter what she or he does with other people- all there is is a best friend relationship-

Yasmeen9 Joined Thu 08/27/15 Posts: 3	Thu 08/27/15 01:41 PM
With a best friend I could.

Justfun_1 Joined Tue 07/23/13 Posts: 698	Thu 08/27/15 01:55 PM
serious question you are having a relationship with your best friend most beautiful person you have ever seen and its an open relationship. can you handle it and how? That's not my idea of a relationship. Too many complications and possibilities of losing that friend...

IgorFrankensteen Joined Thu 10/01/09 Posts: 5444	Thu 08/27/15 05:13 PM
A so-called "open relationship" isn't a committed one. It's just thinly disguised screwing around. Kind of like referring to slavery as "enforced employment."

1onlyaname Joined Sun 08/09/15 Posts: 1041	Thu 08/27/15 07:38 PM
A so-called "open relationship" isn't a committed one. It's just thinly disguised screwing around. Kind of like referring to slavery as "enforced employment." I'm going out on a limb and say I bet people have kept friends they love in their lives longer than a lawful spouse considering lawful commitment average 8 years in the USA. here a heterosexual man is in love with bi sexual woman they have been best friends and lovers for 5 years without a till death do we part contract. so if the man sets limits does not allow the bi sexual woman to be bi sexualvhas he not just made her his slave.