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I don't know I'm a grown man she's a grown woman we go out on a date we get along we laugh we like the same things..... we know we are going to end up in bed together eventually..
and usually by the time you find this person that I'm describing above you are so horny by then lol I'm thinking why wait  
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So what makes you think that if she gives you sex when she meets you that she won't be giving it to someone else if she meets them? How do you trust someone like that? You be at work and she be out meeting someone else having sex same day. I never knew a man would want a woman like that unless he is only after sex. Back in the day when I was dating before I got married a man is gonna take it if she gives it. But it wasn't the kind of woman he wanted to settle down with. he wanted a good woman to share hs life with. Makes good sense. So I don't get it. most dont want to put in the time for a good woman only if shes worth the time... most aren't... the nicer we are, the more she either pushes away, or the more she emasculates us... the good ones do neither, but understand who we are... |
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. so what's the difference between a good woman and a frigid woman means she is waiting to see how they feel about each other if there is a connection, communication, affection first most men know this answer already especially the ones who are divorced and it tends to piss them off which is why some go for the young ones who may be easier to convince or the ones who do not have issues with casual flings sheeet they don't even wanna open car door for ya, spring for dinner or buy ya flowers they just wanna know if you will be spread eagle on table by dessert  depends on the dessert... |
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Yeah I don't know.. you meet this perfect woman she's good for you you're good for her.. but she makes you wait for 2 to 3 weeks before you are intimate with her so she can demonstrate what a good woman she is.. meanwhile I have to continue rubbing one off .. for the next 2 to 3 weeks... I think a good woman wouldn't let that happen lol
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So what makes you think that if she gives you sex when she meets you that she won't be giving it to someone else if she meets them? How do you trust someone like that? You be at work and she be out meeting someone else having sex same day. I never knew a man would want a woman like that unless he is only after sex. Back in the day when I was dating before I got married a man is gonna take it if she gives it. But it wasn't the kind of woman he wanted to settle down with. he wanted a good woman to share hs life with. Makes good sense. So I don't get it. most dont want to put in the time for a good woman only if shes worth the time... most aren't... the nicer we are, the more she either pushes away, or the more she emasculates us... the good ones do neither, but understand who we are... 1- if you are nice to a woman she will _____ you said push you away meaning what exactly? like magnets..one repels the other because it is uneven? you feel more for her than she does for you or is it because she feels as much as you but she is carrying so much baggage she cuts and runs instead of sticking it out 2 you said emasculates us meaning what ? if ya got the time respond and I will read it over coffee 
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Yeah I don't know.. you meet this perfect woman she's good for you you're good for her.. but she makes you wait for 2 to 3 weeks before you are intimate with her so she can demonstrate what a good woman she is.. meanwhile I have to continue rubbing one off .. for the next 2 to 3 weeks... I think a good woman wouldn't let that happen lol . 
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Well "yeah"..
... I'm rubbing one out right now
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Omg.. so kidding of course
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To be honest sex is not my main agenda with a woman, I want companionship. If I just wanted sex, well, I have money and paying for a postitute is not illegal in Sweden. (Strangely being a prostitute is illegal).
I go out to dinner with anyone because I am looking for good conversation and having a great time getting to know that person, or if it's a friend, male or female, just being with my friend. Oh, and hopefully good food. When I go out sometimes I pay, sometimes she pays, it isn't important. I definitely don't feel like she owes me anything if I pay, that would make her a prostitute. |
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Ohhh.. I gotta borrow that last little bit of your post.. no baby you can pay for dinner because if I paid I would think you would think that would make you feel like a prostitute .. lol freaking brilliant buddy I'm never paying for another meal ever again lol
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awww damn see now we are getting to thick of it..I can't stay up all night delving into this 1- if you are nice to a woman she will _____ you said push you away meaning what exactly? like magnets..one repels the other because it is uneven? you feel more for her than she does for you or is it because she feels as much as you but she is carrying so much baggage she cuts and runs instead of sticking it out 2 you said emasculates us meaning what ? if ya got the time respond and I will read it over coffee women don't wanna date "nice" guys or should i say "yes dear" types, they want a man who isn't a pushover... it's part of their inherent wiring that tells them what a man should be... |
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Very well said TMommy. Some woman are comfortable with casual sex. Some woman are happy with that. More power to them. Im not judging them.But you said it well
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First of all that is your problem thinking all woman are the same. You take your past experiences with other woman and place them on other woman. That is messed up. When your seeking a relationship and the chemistry is there with both people its not about any of the crap your talking about. As far as im concern most of the things your talking about is high school crap. Its about being together loving each other making each other happy. Its about pleasing each other taking care of each other. Its not a game.
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Together loving each other and making each other happy..
totally agree with this.... and making each other happy means stop playing so hard to get !and give up the cookies sweetheart.Lol again just kidding..
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I agree NorCalSwe.
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It takes to much effort.......All I can say the effort you put out is the same kind of effort you get back.
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Together loving each other and making each other happy.. totally agree with this.... and making each other happy means stop playing so hard to get !and give up the cookies sweetheart.Lol again just kidding.. You men are always hung up on this "playing hard to get" bollocks. Who says it's anything to do with that? I've often wondered if that maybe is an American thing? Seriously never got this 'hard to get' BS. I've never played hard to get, but I don't necessarily jump in the sack with a guy on the first date either. If I'm going out with a guy to see if there's something long term there, there's no need (yet) to get intimate, is there? And if all he wants is sex, he ain't the right one for a LTR so why would I waste my time? How would you feel if you were seeing a woman for a LTR and then find out she's slept with every guy she's dated? Which seems to be what you men want her to do when YOU are on the receiving end. So what if you'd end up with that woman in a LTR? Would you still be happy about it? I know I wouldn't be keen on being with a man who'd dipped it in everyone he's met. I don't need to be with a male sl*t. I want a man who can think with the head on his shoulders, even when the one between his legs is screaming. |
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if she is amazing she won't be easy. If she is easy won't be amazing That's the biggest non sense I have heard in a while :D |
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I want sex
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Together loving each other and making each other happy.. totally agree with this.... and making each other happy means stop playing so hard to get !and give up the cookies sweetheart.Lol again just kidding.. You men are always hung up on this "playing hard to get" bollocks. Who says it's anything to do with that? I've often wondered if that maybe is an American thing? Seriously never got this 'hard to get' BS. I've never played hard to get, but I don't necessarily jump in the sack with a guy on the first date either. If I'm going out with a guy to see if there's something long term there, there's no need (yet) to get intimate, is there? And if all he wants is sex, he ain't the right one for a LTR so why would I waste my time? How would you feel if you were seeing a woman for a LTR and then find out she's slept with every guy she's dated? Which seems to be what you men want her to do when YOU are on the receiving end. So what if you'd end up with that woman in a LTR? Would you still be happy about it? I know I wouldn't be keen on being with a man who'd dipped it in everyone he's met. I don't need to be with a male sl*t. I want a man who can think with the head on his shoulders, even when the one between his legs is screaming. man: " I want a chick that I do not have to work hard with, that sex is a guarantee and I don't even have to offer to pay for dinner..I want her to offer up sex on first date or at least be uh ...open to idea if I initiate it but I want her to only do this with me and no one before or after me cause after all..I am special"
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