The memo was sent. Didn't you check your junk mail?

Statistically speaking... I have gone on a lot and I mean a lot . of first dates... and I would say 95% of those dates ..Have being more than willing
.. to partake of some type of intimacy on that first date... with very little persuasion From me... I believe it has more to do with their belief that the first date is going to turn into something more long term more of a commitment... you have to remember after all !.you have spent some time talking to this person Be it through texting and phone calls.. for a period of time before the actual first date.. you know! getting to know them!.. so the seed of commitment has already being planted so to speak... therefore being intimate on the first date is just the natural progression. .. now after being sexually intimate on that first date.. if it happens out !..that there isn't a second date.. well that's usually because I found some flaw in their personality.. like oh my god !!!. what a skank I can't believe she slept with me on the first date.. .. so kidding On this last part .... the only time sleeping with somebody on the first date is a bit sketchy.... is if you just met them an hour before your first date . and you know very little to next to nothing about them..and then you slept with them...

O P.. I believe they used to call that back in the old days getting picked up at the bar lol. and I'm sure we all remember what that was like...
thank God for internet dating at least now you get to learn a little more about them.. . before you Nail them..


.. geez I kind of miss the good old days Didn't have to spend so much time and energy.. getting to know them..wink: .. just buy them a drink and they're yours for the night

A man can want sex on the first date all he wants... Whether he gets it or not depends on if HE is amazing.

When men don't get this they tend to spend a lot of time complaining about frigid women with their good friend Mr Handy.

You could still do that, what's keeping ya?
Someone I know regularly ended up with a bloke after a night out in the pub. She does drink and gets tipsy (at least), I don't. I've never been there myself, thank god for that. Cos the friends I have (had) that did end up with some bloke from a bar the next morning, were not always too chuffed about it, lol. From what I gather, they almost go home with whomever.

Oh hang ... suddenly this one event comes to mind... Long time ago ... Oh my god... Well, I didn't wake up with him, haha. Just ended up in a rather awkward situation, lol (Rather is an understatement here )

*I'm outta here, lol*

I'm old school I don't do sex first date I would have to really like you before I even attempt a kiss.

I think everyone thinks about sex on the first date.
Even if it is a wonder hmmm..I find them even more attractive in this setting than I did on phone, email, public meeting whatever.

I dont' believe it is just the men, I have to many GF's that say if the timing is right they have done it. I personally am not one of them.

As for the OP saying that if you wait she will be more amazing. I am not going there for the simple fact..He or she will be amazing if they are amazing doesn't matter how long before you jump into the sack with them.

And if should get better as time goes on.


This kind of reminds me of a friend that when she went out on first dates.
She wouldn't shave her legs then she knew no matter what she wouldn't be sleeping with them. No matter how she was tempted, that way they wouldn't know she wanted to as bad as they did.

i will only say this wanting and expecting are 2 entirely different things unless of course you are including the bottom feeders in with the good ones

ya but...I refer to all my mail as junk so maybe it got lost in the shuffle


oh man I hate not having a multi-quote

for NO1
yes sweetums you are indeed special but then ya already know that

Iam watingforsex

True

True

Well first, if he doesn't want sex with me the second his eyes
land on me I will be wondering why not.

It is a naturally recurring phenomenon.

But, asking for sex before building up some affection for the
other, would put my brain in the 'Seriously?' loop from which
it probably would not recover.

may lead to serious neck trauma from doing this

some are neither easy... NOR amazing.

It's interesting when men or women have these revelations of how their counter part work.

Sex on the first date... wow it really depends a lot on the situation so it's really hard to have a base opinion about this haha

Sometimes it can say something about the person for sure.
But then again sure why not. Why would it have to mean anything?

Y are you on this site then

who me? hahaha I am the odd ball darling
I am actually here for the conversation

yes...

When you first start dating is sex one of the main things on a man's mind?

Is he thinking when am I going to get it?

If that's the way you women want to play it, fine. I just won't call you again. Two can play that game.