I have never been able to figure out why the guys who want sex on the first date, or for that matter, those who think that sending a picture of their junk to someone will do anything other than make them seem like an absolute douche.

What about Men wanting sex even BEFORE the first date? Like YEARS BEFORE.

What about men that want sex even BEFORE they KNEW EACH OTHER? Like before he even saw her mingle profile?

Those need therapy, right?
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theres no way i would expect sex nore would i want to have sex with a woman on our first date,around here we call that a slut, if shes gona put out with only just getting to know each other,,idk,guess iam kinda weard like that,,,,

I don't agree sweetie

I think I understand you,come to think of it,what if she wants sex in the first day just like he wants it too,is there a problem with that?

the title is misleading. a man ask a woman on a date to get to know her. even a kiss goodnight is up to the woman. she can refuse the kiss. enjoy the kiss. or grab the man pull him inside the door. I hope its very few men that think hey if she doesn't put out on first date I'm not calling her again. one night stands happens only by the woman's choice.

Well, they are foolish men who don't think of anything else but sex......and what I'm thinking of that junk is........i wanna feed it to a hungry doggie come doggie doggie doggiee.....I have a new slurpy hotdog ice cream for you this must be yummy! Take a bite doggie! Good! foolish men!

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This subject has been beaten to death over the years and is just over rated. Not every male on this planet is some stupid slave to his gland that he needs to feed its desires. I was potty trained long ago and I can get quite suspicious of a woman who wants to dive into sex or even to dive into a relationship. There are acts of desperation in many ways --- needing sex right away, needing companionship right away, needing food right away, needing to get there right away or wanting anything right now. The word "wait" is the biggest curse word to many.

Even the act of assuming that most men are that way shows up in the attitude of many women. They assume too much.

If there was to be sex on the first meeting with someone, it would have been discussed quite a bit in detail, including getting blood tests, long ahead of the arrangement. Old people might do it because there might not be much time left and that does happen in nursing homes during evening hours. They have nothing to lose and no possibility for any long term relationship.

What works for you may not work for someone else. Holding out on sex doesn't mean you're better or worse than someone who has sex quickly.

I don't want sex on the first date because I want to get to know her first. I had a lot of casual and first date sex when I was in my 20s. Now I want to make love to a woman, so I will wait until those strong feelings and connection develops.

I don't want sex on the first date because I want to get to know her first. I had a lot of casual and first date sex when I was in my 20s. Now I want to make love to a woman, so I will wait until those strong feelings and connection develops.

If I didn't think I wanted to have sex with her. I probably wouldn't be dating her. But I'm willing to wait. She might be crazy.

Wham, Bang, thank you ma'am...C'mon ladies, do you really want that? Where is your self respect ?



I totally agree with you. I guess I was just raised different. and just because the whole world is doing doesn't mean Im going to follow in everyones footsteps. I will make my own path and walk down it. When I made the post I was speaking for me, about me. I believe they call it having morals. And of course you may think about wanting to have sex who doesn't. When I became of age 18 and was dating a man did not want a fast women well they did for a one night stand. They didn't want a woman who ran around sleeping having sex with everyone she met. And if any man thinks that if he takes me to dinner Im suppose to give it up. That man must of fell and bumped his head. I can take my own self out to eat. Im a lady and I will be treated as such. People only treat you the way you let them.

I disagree it is NOT over rated. Not over here in Pa. And when you meet them and don't give it to them you just never hear from them again. I met a guy from here we sat down talked 10 minutes later he said your cute and sweet let go to bed now. I said gee wouldn't you like to go out a few times. Suddenly he had to go back to work. Lol when he just got off work. Met a guy I really really liked a week before that we went out and had a great time laughed and we both paid our own way but later on when I said no I don't even you know you well enough. Oh well the next day he ignored me. We were working the same place for the rest of the weekend.

I never had a man disrespect me by expecting me to sleep with him right off the bat. The men I have dated are gentlemen. I don't know what caliber of men everyone else is dating.

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if sex is the ONLY thing you want from some one, your no different than a dog