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hey man don't be referring to my sheet as trivial...

only if it doesn't stink

I have and well I still know and chat with some..

Serious:

You are committed to her.
You are doing everything to make the relationship work.
That includes finances, workload, bail-outs, credit cards, from dinner to round the world vacation.
You accept that she has kids of whom you are [or not lol] the father, at least legally.
You will shoot yourself if she ever decides to leave, no matter the reason.


Serious?
This world is a Joke!

When you insert your nozzle in her exhaust outlet instead of her gas tank inlet...

That is pretty serious...

I was thinking if she had a clown suit n handcuffs in her closet that might be serious

Yes me Please

Usually a cliche.

Like "I'm intelligent, funny, I like spending time with my friends and family, long walks on the beach, I like to laugh. I can dress up or wear jeans, I like going out or staying in, looking for someone serious!"


Other than that on a lot of "popular" free dating websites have it somewhere on their site the number one frustration with online dating is people aren't "serious," (and they never really define what that means, it's just what people said when they were deleting their account) so in filling out your profile talk about hopes/dreams/goals, and music, so people can see that you're "serious," and it just works its way into the collective unconscious that it should be put in profiles.

IMO it is self explanatory.
It means, not here to be messed around with or mess around.
Matters of the heart are serious to women.

Next question please 1andonlyme.

I don't have a serious bone in my body.. all I have is this limp biscuit.. seriously lol

Then maybe it is time to rethink why....:
Oz has hearts....

Serious means you are genuine not fake Some people don't want to mess up with anyone, their time is too precious to waste it with a good for nothing talks you know. It's about sincerity in your dealings with an individual, not playing around with anyone's feelings; You give concern toward others, have careful thoughts with your words and actions avoiding to hurt others and you are considerate of ones feelings and thoughts. You are here to make real connection with real people.That's SERIOUS

I think it is people just hoping to skip the people who just want to play the field at what ever level is mutually acceptable on a temporary basis.

But yea if someone starts dictating that only serious apply then I get a little gun shy that they are desperate for and instant commitment and that scares me. I can't possibly tell you if I am going to get serious with you until I have dated you a while.

all the scammers say they are "serious" set yourself apart from them say genuine down to earth fun but not player.

genuine and down to earth arwe the most prevalent self-describing words i find here.

down to earth means to me:

stuck kneedeep in the mud with 3 Kids, no job, no education and a Truckload of debt.
very pragmatic lifestyle trying to get out of that mess, no resources for extras like holidays.
Often stressing out because life sucks
Have a ton of ex-Boyfriends and am sick of romance - all i want is my shiney prince in silver armour, nothing else.

please write your message in my email address,
I'm looking for real love,
I'll be waiting for you in my email : oebaey@yahoo.com

I agree with this.

I know when I've met men who want to get serious straight away, its because they wanted to label me as ''there's'' straight away and only there's. They then think they have got 'hold' of you that way as well, and it makes them feel more secure.

I have been told this by men who I've met.

I was also told if I was ugly it wouldn't be this way because other men wouldn't be so interested, so they actually blamed me and said it was my fault for being 'pretty, sexy etc' so its just very bad insecurity and they just want to keep you for themselves from day one, because they have claimed you.

I should add the one's who managed to claim me, it still wasn't enough. I was told I couldn't go out with my friends unless 'HE' was there.

I avoid men like this now. They just want total control over you because of the fear they will loose you to some other man.All of this straight away is way to demanding for me.

This is the reason I get to know him well now before committing BUT this still isn't the perfect way, because even if they trust you, they then turn around and say 'I trust you, but I don't trust other men' and that's a fact, its happened to me. Even so getting to know someone first is still the best way.

NOT all men are like this, im talking about my experience with the majority of men I have met.

That is why you need to make a connection with people in order to get to know the real ones. If you just base it from the profile, it could be deceiving sometimes, some people doesn't divulge all the personal information there but it's up to an individual who is really serious in knowing somebody. Even in real life , we get acquainted with people whom we thought are true or real to us, even the so thought real friends that we have could betray us. It is up to one's conscience on how he or she behaves towards other people, either be real or not. Who would know unless you really wanna know, try to CONNECT with people, SELECT whom you are interested, REJECT if you think she's not real or WELCOME/ACCEPT if she is worth knowing and may lead to finding THE RIGHT ONE for you.