Or do you think a guy has a chance if he has other qualities?

what kind of leagues?
I play rookie league softball.

ya mean like bowling? little league? " A League of their own" " the league of extraordinary gentlemen" The Justice League?

the NfL

I think he's talking about like "out of your league".

And yes there are leagues. So don't hope for a career in the majors if you can't hack it the minors.

i know what youre saying and honestly everyone has a league that youre either in or out of. your qualities are going to determine if you are or not just like it would for a guy. It may be looks or wealth. It may be humor or how romantic a person is. Maybe a certain cool factor or sex appeal. Could be smarts. To be in some ones league you have to have a quality they are looking for and visa versa.

Damn im screwed then haha

me too lol
come on bud we'll go fishing

Ok if we are saying a league is common interests and goals I can walk part way down this path..I can't go there for looks, wealth those can be so fleeting.

I personally don't believe in leagues.. I have had men say that to me and I found it very insulting to be told.. I was so far out of their league.. because I would have dated them. Instead they insult me and shoot themselves in the foot.

I think for the most part we women want someone that is confident in their own skin... If they are confident in who they are and have some goals then they are a lot more attractive than some eye candy that has nothing inside...except Hey... and that is the whole bag of tricks ..Nope interest just went to nil.

Yea I guess I just feel like I'm trying to talk to girls I have no business talking to

Well I am curious why you shouldn't be talking to them...

no harm in talking. Theyll stay or go.

I guess that's true. I worry too much. I always hear how girls hate being approached by guys unless he's cute, then he's just creepy. So I've pretty much just shut thrown myself in the bottom league by not participating lol. Sigh someone inject me with self confidence

it took me 15 years to stop doing that to myself. Grantide im still single. But I'm confidently single. Ha ha ha.

My league is simple. She must be loyal and honest and she MUST laugh at my terrible jokes. Im not concerned with brains or looks or wealth, none of those reflect how pure thier heart is. I love romance though. A girl that can be romantic id die for. Coffee on the porch earlie morning, cuddling under stars, having a food fight with pop corn cuz the movie keeps skipping.

You are a handsome guy and no im not gay but i can compliment a man. So reconsider yourself and go get em tiger

If that is you true picture, you are good looking young man.. Get yourself some swagger, be funny and honest and you will do OK.

I once told someone I felt they were out of my league, but it was because I looked at their profile, and thought that what they described themselves as looking for in a mate was so far beyond what I was capable of supplying to them, that it was best described in that way.

It wasn't a case so much of different interests and so on, which I would have characterized as simple incompatibility. They described the life they expected to lead in such a way that I was certain that I would have enjoyed it very much, however I would have gone broke and then collapsed from exhaustion within a few days of trying to keep up with them.

what she said

People are just people. Like attracts like. Don't give up. Just chill and one day the chemistry will just flow.