Topic: Do guys like big girls?
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Mon 11/23/15 03:36 PM

In terms of weight and/or size, yes, I like bigger girls. In terms of distribution, I prefer larger below the waist line.


And if the guy is large above the waste line its a perfect fit.. like puzzle pieces

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Mon 11/23/15 03:49 PM

Well, where I come from they don't like bigger size woman. Its really sad as i see my skinny friends gets married one by one and having children ...while I am still single...really really sad..


Well I can not account for cultures where I have never lived so I won't dispute your assessment but here in the USA size sure does not seem to matter in the dating scene and or the wedding industry. You see beautiful plus size women in all venues and if you try to find a plus size party dress , wedding dress, or business clothes they are often sold out because of so much demand.

I don't know if you have the option to relocate but I have always said you have to be in a "target rich " environment. That can be related to your age, faith, education, number of children, or even size but if you are in a location that is going to make a disproportionate number of women for the number of men who want them your chances are going to be dismal.

This is particularly true of smaller communities or highly segregated communities where if you do not fit and exact mold you are stacking the deck against yourself.

Maybe it is not changing every factor in your life but modifying some. Maybe you will have to enlist family and clergy and friends and non traditional means to find your opportunity but they are out there.

One thing I know for a fact is that there are men who don't have the perfect measures, and or men who do, and just pain don't care about measures because other things are what really matter to them. I will keep you in prayers that you find one soon. Good Luck

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Mon 11/23/15 04:18 PM
hello hello

jccharlie1234's photo
Mon 11/23/15 05:21 PM
Im sure there is many men out there who love a big women

Marigold576's photo
Tue 11/24/15 04:11 AM
Inner strength is better than everything

Marigold576's photo
Tue 11/24/15 04:11 AM
Inner strength is better than everything

mohitt's photo
Tue 11/24/15 09:29 PM
Edited by mohitt on Tue 11/24/15 09:30 PM
Yea coz they r bold and more experienced than us. huh love

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Tue 11/24/15 10:49 PM
It's funny to me how men don't seem to care, at least to a point about a woman's size. But the same can't be said about women not caring, at least to a point about a man's size. Seems a little one sided there. At least until they get pregnant and gain 50 pounds in the process.

Another thing I've noticed. It seems to me that "fat" is becoming the new "average." I see it a lot in profiles on another site. Now, me personally, I like a woman with some weight on her. Especially if it's all in the right places. But the fact of the matter is, for most women it's not. And for most men, it's not either. The man may have a big gut. And the woman may have a big butt.

I personally don't think that any of us should put great stock in the outer person. It's not the size of the gut or the butt we should pay the most attention to. But the size of the heart. I think if a lot of people learned to do that, The rate of single people would go down.

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Tue 11/24/15 11:14 PM
Perfectly said Charles
I agree with you.

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Wed 11/25/15 12:56 AM


Well, where I come from they don't like bigger size woman. Its really sad as i see my skinny friends gets married one by one and having children ...while I am still single...really really sad..


Well I can not account for cultures where I have never lived so I won't dispute your assessment but here in the USA size sure does not seem to matter in the dating scene and or the wedding industry. You see beautiful plus size women in all venues and if you try to find a plus size party dress , wedding dress, or business clothes they are often sold out because of so much demand.

I don't know if you have the option to relocate but I have always said you have to be in a "target rich " environment. That can be related to your age, faith, education, number of children, or even size but if you are in a location that is going to make a disproportionate number of women for the number of men who want them your chances are going to be dismal.

This is particularly true of smaller communities or highly segregated communities where if you do not fit and exact mold you are stacking the deck against yourself.

Maybe it is not changing every factor in your life but modifying some. Maybe you will have to enlist family and clergy and friends and non traditional means to find your opportunity but they are out there.

One thing I know for a fact is that there are men who don't have the perfect measures, and or men who do, and just pain don't care about measures because other things are what really matter to them. I will keep you in prayers that you find one soon. Good Luck


Moving elsewhere on my own is really not an option Ofcourse unless I meet someone worthwhile moving for...I am generally a shy person and it took me so long just to get here now! When I was younger it was what others had wanted me to do and I just conform, and now when I really am starting to come out of my shell well the man here where I'm from are all married!

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Wed 11/25/15 07:25 AM
Edited by mohitt on Wed 11/25/15 07:25 AM

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Wed 11/25/15 09:00 AM
Because we want to touch some big things. . ;)

spiderkingrobin's photo
Wed 11/25/15 09:36 AM
yes..i like themmm

Duke721's photo
Wed 11/25/15 09:41 AM
it shouldn't what her body type is it should be about that person.

Duke721's photo
Wed 11/25/15 09:45 AM
it shouldn't what her body type is it should be about that person.

ghost63's photo
Wed 11/25/15 04:26 PM
I like a girl for what they have inside far more than what they are on the outside

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Wed 11/25/15 04:43 PM

Perfectly said Charles
I agree with you.


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Thu 11/26/15 06:17 AM
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Thu 11/26/15 06:17 AM
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Thu 11/26/15 06:19 AM
:kiss::clap_tone1:very well said!!