Topic: So why are you single?
Valeris's photo
Sun 11/15/15 02:12 PM

Why are you single?






shades

VioletTigress's photo
Sun 11/15/15 04:18 PM
shades shades

EmJ1504's photo
Sun 11/15/15 04:40 PM
Not going to rush around anymore just dating anyone who comes along and ending up in relationships without realising it.

Gonna take my time and try my best to get the next one right!

TMommy's photo
Sun 11/15/15 04:50 PM
Edited by TMommy on Sun 11/15/15 05:00 PM
here's a prime example of why I am single


get this message yesterday NO NO NOT FROM HERE
seems like a nice enough guy
around my age
fairly good looking with a beard
so I answer his message

on another site
yada yada
he has two kids
so do I
He was married for 15 years
she left him
ok not too bad so far..


asks me what I am doing on my saturday
I tell him I have a big paper to write
worth 100 points and I am gonna
be typing like crazy all day

so I have it set up so my phone will buzz if I get a message
uh huh...

so 20 minutes later it buzzes
he is on way to mall to take his daughter shopping with her b-day money

ooooookay have a nice day then

half hour later
another message
he is at the mall, girls are in the store boot shopping
he is standing outside bored

wtf?? sorry to hear that bye now

hour later
another message

hour later another one

I must have gotten 8 messages from this guy who took his daughter shopping

so the last one says
" hey babe so whatcha up to? have any fun today? LOL"

" %^^$#@%&**(&^^%$$%!!!!!"


graygentleman's photo
Sun 11/15/15 07:13 PM

here's a prime example of why I am single


get this message yesterday NO NO NOT FROM HERE
seems like a nice enough guy
around my age
fairly good looking with a beard
so I answer his message

on another site
yada yada
he has two kids
so do I
He was married for 15 years
she left him
ok not too bad so far..


asks me what I am doing on my saturday
I tell him I have a big paper to write
worth 100 points and I am gonna
be typing like crazy all day

so I have it set up so my phone will buzz if I get a message
uh huh...

so 20 minutes later it buzzes
he is on way to mall to take his daughter shopping with her b-day money

ooooookay have a nice day then

half hour later
another message
he is at the mall, girls are in the store boot shopping
he is standing outside bored

wtf?? sorry to hear that bye now

hour later
another message

hour later another one

I must have gotten 8 messages from this guy who took his daughter shopping

so the last one says
" hey babe so whatcha up to? have any fun today? LOL"

" %^^$#@%&**(&^^%$$%!!!!!"





I admit that I am sometimes clueless about which questions to ask? slaphead

But there were a lot of things I would have wanted to know...what is the paper on? What a you majoring in? Questions about your kiddos??

Definitely not whining about being bored....How much I hate shopping...How about that you are enjoying spending time with your kids!!

CranberrySweet's photo
Sun 11/15/15 07:23 PM
I flushed my ex down the toilet bowl...

Now waiting for the right one to come, at the right place, right timing........ where are you???!!!??

riyazbasha753's photo
Sun 11/15/15 07:31 PM
I don't really know what to talk i need some friends

VioletTigress's photo
Mon 11/16/15 02:42 PM
I will tell you later.

no photo
Mon 11/16/15 03:03 PM
because she had to make a choice.. the bottle of Vodka or her husband...and I came in 2nd

TMommy's photo
Mon 11/16/15 03:08 PM
because counseling did not even scratch surface of the issues we had
because in order to work on a problem you must first admit it exists
because every disagreement became a battle of the wills
because you cannot change someone who does not want to change
because we were in constant competition with each other
because he was a master manipulator
I got good at that particular chess game
until finally I walked away

noahk23's photo
Mon 11/16/15 06:11 PM
I'm trying to get things together, besides I just want to settle down for a while

noahk23's photo
Mon 11/16/15 06:23 PM

Still searching for my soul mate!!!

Exactly

Spike1964's photo
Tue 11/17/15 04:46 AM
Well I'm quite happy being single really no pressure to get a girlfriend was with my last partner for over twenty years and we are still very good friends.

no photo
Tue 11/17/15 06:16 AM
I'm trying to see if the friend I have a crush on, will take me on. He's flirted with me a lot, and I thought I'd love to turn the heat up. Lol

laterask's photo
Tue 11/17/15 01:20 PM
i usualy have dates but once guy come to know when ask about my past that am widowed he prefer move on, i dont know whats wrong, but if my hubby died in duty it doesnt means i have to mourn all my life, he alone said get married again in case it happens and have kids and be happy so am single from 2010and why am single well,,, guess i dont meet real mens

2old4thiscrap's photo
Tue 11/17/15 02:02 PM
Why am I single? Nobody in my area wants a real relationship. They just want to **** around and play games.

no photo
Tue 11/17/15 03:01 PM


i usualy have dates but once guy come to know when ask about my past that am widowed he prefer move on, i dont know whats wrong, but if my hubby died in duty it doesnt means i have to mourn all my life, he alone said get married again in case it happens and have kids and be happy so am single from 2010and why am single well,,, guess i dont meet real mens

Two things. Reading your post made me think of Tim McGraw's' If you're reading this. Second, it amazing the baggage that divorce and widowship creates. I, like you, see nothing wrong with getting married again if the opportunity presents itself.

no photo
Tue 11/17/15 06:21 PM

i usually have dates but once guy come to know when ask about my past that am widowed he prefer move on, i don't know what's wrong, but if my hubby died in duty it doesn't means i have to mourn all my life, he alone said get married again in case it happens and have kids and be happy so am single from 2010 and why am single well,,, guess i don't meet real men

Man, I don't understand that. I *absolutely* agree with the "if my hubby died in duty it doesn't means i have to mourn all my life" philosophy. It's very sad that your husband was taken away too early - but there's *NO* d@mn reason that _two_ lives should end when one does.

You're an attractive lady, & I hope that you SOON find a great guy who will build a wonderful new life with you. flowerforyou

trinitytroptimide's photo
Tue 11/17/15 06:31 PM
Edited by trinitytroptimide on Tue 11/17/15 06:37 PM

I'm single because I have spent the last 8 years discovering who I am as a oerson and what i like. I am on a journey of knowing me not as someone's wife or mother.
I love myself and at the moment I don't want to share.



I love your reply....
Simply, honestly, the best drinker



2469nascar's photo
Tue 11/17/15 08:40 PM
cuz i havent found a good woman that can drive the gettaway car..Bonnie were are you?