Hi

I would have to say no to sex on the first date, you have to get to the know the person before you give your goodies away, sex is an emotinal encounter that should be shared with someone special.

Now that's called confidence

I wana any gIRL here

sounds more
like a eager beaver

Sex on a first date is an only date for most. That's a one night stand.

I had a one night stand that lasted 5 years!

I am not one to even think about the possibility of sex on the first date (or even the fiftieth). To me, sex is so much more than just the physical. Yes the physical is an enjoyable; however, when you also have an emotional bond it becomes oh so much more.

For me to even consider having sex with a girl, the following needs must be met:

1. mutual want: In other words, BOTH people must want it to happen, withOUT reservation or hesitancy.

2. Friendship: I need to be able to be friends with her and to know that she IS my friend in return, regardless of anything else.

3. TRUST: Yes, I put the biggest, baddest four letter word in the dictionary out there, lol. There has to be TRUST, on BOTH sides. I can not just let a lady in, take her to my bedroom, then say good bye to her when all is said and done. As I said above, there is so much more than just the physical. When all is said and done, I need her to be not only willing, but wanting, to go to sleep next to me, with my arms and legs wrapped around her. I want to wake up and have her beautiful face and smile, be the first things I see. I want to occasionally slip outta bed without waking her, go make breakfast and bring it in to her as she wakes up for the day.

Sex, just is not enough for me. I want it all, and it can not possibly happen on the first date.

Yes. It is okay to go with the flow, and if that flow leads to the bedroom, one should do so with their own discretion. This isn't 1955.

I am thinking to worry about this you actually have to achieve a first date???

Even miss Michigan refuses a date anymore

Sex on the first date

I was told by doing this you are selling yourself short
You deserve more
Those who wait get the best

Tried to send you a message Annie.

Not bragging or bitching but I have had one date in almost 5 years of being single.

Kind of pathetic huh???

Well if you think that is pathetic you are going to think this is

No dates in Seven years but it doesn't worry me. I didn't have the time or energy to put into a man

Being a parent,
What sort of message would I be sending to my kids
If I had sex on a first date?

To my kids,
I am their sooper dooper dad
A role model for them to learn from.
And spiritual and comical guide

Depends might do I'm a man lol.

Hi everyone, just thought I'd say hello and break the ice. New to internet dating, never done this before and it seems a bit daunting, but I'm a tough cookie. Due to my work/study responsibilities, it is impossible for me to meet new people. I am not desperate in any way. Should I stay single, then so be it, good things are meant, never forced. But I'll be damned if I don't try this online technology thingie. Maybe I can meet some good people, if we strike friendship, good, if we strike something that has a future together, even better.
Whatever happens, I'm sure it will be a good experience.
Sending you all kind regards and good wishes. =)

'My heart belongs to..Daddy' :-)

Awesome Jaan

Awesome Jaan

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