Concerns about the underage issue are duly noted and are appropriate. As for the morons that post up a picture of some chick...well sorry, in my book...that has absolutely NO PLACE in my life as a GAY MAN, unless it happens to be his mother. And then I have to ask myself WHY he's posting a pic of his mother on a gay dating site, which is a cause for grave concerns in a potential relationship.

That said, one should always ask themselves the question as to whether or not the real reason they are not "attracted" to a person is really just due to their own self-centered egotistical vanity, or because they WANT something that is not necessary, and often not particularly conducive, to a strong relationship. (i.e. You don't NEED your man to be a greek god, or to make X amount of money, etc.- The sorts of things that lend toward an arrogant and prideful personality- which mark my words- sooner or later, will DESTROY a relationship anyways.)
If one then finds they are not attracted to this person out of their own egotism and selfishness, then my suggestion would be to take oneself OUT of the dating environment, until you adjust yourself mentally to where one is CAPABLE of maintaining a relationship, which means being capable of treating other people the way they want to be treated, as opposed to devaluing them in an effort to suit one's own needs without regard for others.