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Topic: To find true love we need to make sacrifice
peggy122 Joined Sun 12/27/15 Posts: 6525	Sat 02/27/16 08:37 AM
I don't think you have to make sacrifices to find it , but sometimes you may have to make sacrifices to preserve it..

sparkyae5 Joined Thu 03/28/13 Posts: 1595	Sat 02/27/16 09:28 AM Edited by sparkyae5 on Sat 02/27/16 09:32 AM
BULL SHEET...THE BEST WAY TO GET WHAT YOU DO NOT WANT IS TO NOT ASK FOR WHAT YOU REALY WANT......THIS IS SOMETHING THE LADIES HAVE A HARD TIME UNDERSTANDING..... P.S. WHEN WE DON'T ITS LIVEING A LIE....PEOPLE NEVER GET TO KNOW THE REAL US.....

Jimoh Joined Sat 01/16/16 Posts: 114	Sun 02/28/16 03:20 PM
i dont think so everyone comes with baggage.Find someone who Loves you enough to help you unpack.

catinidaho Joined Fri 10/24/14 Posts: 10623	Sun 02/28/16 03:31 PM
It's called compromise.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33251	Sun 02/28/16 03:34 PM
To find true sacrifice we need to make love .. Huh? I don't think there is such a thing as sacrifice when there is (unconditional) love. I don't get your statement.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33251	Sun 02/28/16 03:37 PM
The first -and prolly only condition- to finding true love, is to truly love yourself.

Charles1962150 Joined Tue 03/13/12 Posts: 3403	Sun 02/28/16 03:51 PM
I don't think you have to make sacrifices to find it, but sometimes you may have to make sacrifices to preserve it. That's just it. No one now wants to make any kind of sacrifices. A lot want what they want. And will do anything almost to get it. But once they have it, they don't want to do what it takes to keep it. A lot of those who don't have it, that swear up and down would do anything to have it, They, in reality, don't want to sacrifice anything to get what or where they say they want. People now, for the most part, want instant gratification. With the least amount of input. They want things in general, husband, wife, money, etc. But they don't want to sacrifice anything or do any kind of work for it. A lot of people now are, "FUBAR." And they wonder why they are alone.

TMommy Joined Fri 05/10/13 Posts: 9850	Sun 02/28/16 03:59 PM
I know we both did a heck of lot of it over the years when we were married and raising kids

Frankk1950 Joined Sat 09/12/15 Posts: 493	Sun 02/28/16 04:44 PM
I don't think you have to make sacrifices to find it, but sometimes you may have to make sacrifices to preserve it. That's just it. No one now wants to make any kind of sacrifices. A lot want what they want. And will do anything almost to get it. But once they have it, they don't want to do what it takes to keep it. A lot of those who don't have it, that swear up and down would do anything to have it, They, in reality, don't want to sacrifice anything to get what or where they say they want. People now, for the most part, want instant gratification. With the least amount of input. They want things in general, husband, wife, money, etc. But they don't want to sacrifice anything or do any kind of work for it. A lot of people now are, "FUBAR." And they wonder why they are alone. 10% correct,90% incorrect.We may not want to make sacrifices but the majority do not have a choice.About the only thing we do that is not a sacrifice is sleep.Most other things are a trade off,i.e. a sacrifice in one form or another.We sleep for 8 hours,we work for 8 hours.If we are lucky we have two or three hours each day when we can really do what we want e.g. read a book,exercise,watch tv.

N2000 Joined Sat 07/27/13 Posts: 103	Sun 02/28/16 06:23 PM
TRUE TRUE TRUE

Charles1962150 Joined Tue 03/13/12 Posts: 3403	Sun 02/28/16 08:23 PM
I don't think you have to make sacrifices to find it, but sometimes you may have to make sacrifices to preserve it. That's just it. No one now wants to make any kind of sacrifices. A lot want what they want. And will do anything almost to get it. But once they have it, they don't want to do what it takes to keep it. A lot of those who don't have it, that swear up and down would do anything to have it, They, in reality, don't want to sacrifice anything to get what or where they say they want. People now, for the most part, want instant gratification. With the least amount of input. They want things in general, husband, wife, money, etc. But they don't want to sacrifice anything or do any kind of work for it. A lot of people now are, "FUBAR." And they wonder why they are alone. 10% correct,90% incorrect.We may not want to make sacrifices but the majority do not have a choice.About the only thing we do that is not a sacrifice is sleep.Most other things are a trade off,i.e. a sacrifice in one form or another.We sleep for 8 hours,we work for 8 hours.If we are lucky we have two or three hours each day when we can really do what we want e.g. read a book,exercise,watch tv. Sir, I have to ask, Have you ever dealt with the public? Like working a public job? Like a Cop, Security, Ambulance Service, Just curious.

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48913	Sun 02/28/16 08:32 PM
Yes...we must sacrifice virgins to the Mingle2 gods....or was it goats? Not goats. Instead, the sex-crazed male virgins who keep showing up on this site.

Frankk1950 Joined Sat 09/12/15 Posts: 493	Sun 02/28/16 10:14 PM
I don't think you have to make sacrifices to find it, but sometimes you may have to make sacrifices to preserve it. That's just it. No one now wants to make any kind of sacrifices. A lot want what they want. And will do anything almost to get it. But once they have it, they don't want to do what it takes to keep it. A lot of those who don't have it, that swear up and down would do anything to have it, They, in reality, don't want to sacrifice anything to get what or where they say they want. People now, for the most part, want instant gratification. With the least amount of input. They want things in general, husband, wife, money, etc. But they don't want to sacrifice anything or do any kind of work for it. A lot of people now are, "FUBAR." And they wonder why they are alone. 10% correct,90% incorrect.We may not want to make sacrifices but the majority do not have a choice.About the only thing we do that is not a sacrifice is sleep.Most other things are a trade off,i.e. a sacrifice in one form or another.We sleep for 8 hours,we work for 8 hours.If we are lucky we have two or three hours each day when we can really do what we want e.g. read a book,exercise,watch tv. Sir, I have to ask, Have you ever dealt with the public? Like working a public job? Like a Cop, Security, Ambulance Service, Just curious. Not in any of the areas you mention,however I have run a service business for over 30 years.

kelvinol Joined Thu 02/25/16 Posts: 1	Mon 02/29/16 01:44 AM
there is noting to do with virgin is mingle2

Duttoneer Joined Sun 07/01/12 Posts: 4665	Mon 02/29/16 01:47 AM
To find true love we need to make sacrifice Sacrifice - meaning to give something up which is precious to us - is true in the sense that we do give up certain freedoms in my opinion. We do not normally continue to do all the things we do as single people, maybe because of financial constraints, so we usually compromise as others have said. ( The Ford replaces the Jaguar for example ) . However, the rewards in finding true love far outweigh these sacrifices in my opinion.

Conrad_73 Joined Sat 09/29/07 Posts: 22488	Mon 02/29/16 01:49 AM
why do you call your best actions a Sacrifice?

Conrad_73 Joined Sat 09/29/07 Posts: 22488	Mon 02/29/16 04:18 AM
True or false? Sacrifice for who?. You accept the person you love for who they are, they for who you are. You don't ask them to change. You don't change who you are. There is no reason to sacrifice anything. If you can't live together like that.. you have the wrong person.

peggy122 Joined Sun 12/27/15 Posts: 6525	Mon 02/29/16 04:52 AM Edited by peggy122 on Mon 02/29/16 04:53 AM
True or false? Sacrifice for who?. You accept the person you love for who they are, they for who you are. You don't ask them to change. You don't change who you are. There is no reason to sacrifice anything. If you can't live together like that.. you have the wrong person. Even if you find someone who accepts you as you are, would you say that spending quality time together is an integral part of a successful relationship? Will your mates schedule always line up with yours ? Will your activities and interests always synergise ? What about decision making where finances and kids are concerned.?Will you always be in sync with your partner on all of those? What do you do when such differences arise ? Keep moving.on from partner to partner till you find someone whose decisions and schedules are perfectly aligned or do you mutually make compromises and sacrifices to accomodate inevitable differences?

ashzayn Joined Mon 01/25/16 Posts: 486	Thu 03/03/16 09:46 AM
Depends