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Topic: Single & Getting Too Used To It?
butribu Joined Tue 03/17/15 Posts: 10495	Mon 03/14/16 11:09 AM
Its no longer possible to meet girls in real life I mean if I try to flirt with them at a retail store they would think I am a creep why would they think that? i do not get it. people can flirt even at a bank queue lol Women yes....men it would be a little iffy, especially if she was holding a wad of cash lol do you mean that compared to women, men are shyer about giving a small sign like smiling, saying hello etc. that kind of first steps..

gaming16 Joined Mon 01/11/16 Posts: 110	Mon 03/14/16 11:10 AM
Another issue is in these small towns they have their groups of friends etc and will not let a outsider like me in

butribu Joined Tue 03/17/15 Posts: 10495	Mon 03/14/16 11:18 AM
if i were a man hahhhhhhhh i have to give you hints guys if they are hanging with the groups, go to the places that your fancy girl's group goes do not get people with you, choose to be on your own single and unaccompanied man, with a bit of cool behavior always catches the interest a man with a group of friends does not catch an interest there are some hints that i can give you what kind of glances you have to throw out but that will be difficult to decribe here lol

gaming16 Joined Mon 01/11/16 Posts: 110	Mon 03/14/16 11:21 AM
if i were a man hahhhhhhhh i have to give you hints guys if they are hanging with the groups, go to the places that your fancy girl's group goes do not get people with you, choose to be on your own single and unaccompanied man, with a bit of cool behavior always catches the interest a man with a group of friends does not catch an interest there are some hints that i can give you what kind of glances you have to throw out but that will be difficult to decribe here lol Boy I would like to know those hints. small towns are way to hard to try and get a gal.

butribu Joined Tue 03/17/15 Posts: 10495	Mon 03/14/16 11:23 AM
if i were a man hahhhhhhhh i have to give you hints guys if they are hanging with the groups, go to the places that your fancy girl's group goes do not get people with you, choose to be on your own single and unaccompanied man, with a bit of cool behavior always catches the interest a man with a group of friends does not catch an interest there are some hints that i can give you what kind of glances you have to throw out but that will be difficult to decribe here lol Boy I would like to know those hints. small towns are way to hard to try and get a gal. i live in a small town as well as soon as possible u are making a membership at a fitness center best place to meet girls lol

blah..blah.. Joined Sat 04/26/14 Posts: 1648	Mon 03/14/16 11:25 AM
What women don't realise about men not taking hints is this: example: you are in a bar or any public place, woman catches your eye, woman smiles at you, you smile back, woman playfully strokes her hair, you smile, woman, seductively licks her lips gently, you smile, woman touches her knee/thigh, you smile. you then go to the toilet or the bar, and decide to aproach said woman on the way back, plucking up courage, you smile,say hi, ask her if she wants a drink etc. by this time though, woman has changed her mind about dropping hints and makes you look like a total plank!

gaming16 Joined Mon 01/11/16 Posts: 110	Mon 03/14/16 11:26 AM
Thanks one problem though with these small towns they will not let a outsider like me in. its the worst feeling. its like I am a alien.

butribu Joined Tue 03/17/15 Posts: 10495	Mon 03/14/16 11:28 AM
What women don't realise about men not taking hints is this: example: you are in a bar or any public place, woman catches your eye, woman smiles at you, you smile back, woman playfully strokes her hair, you smile, woman, seductively licks her lips gently, you smile, woman touches her knee/thigh, you smile. you then go to the toilet or the bar, and decide to aproach said woman on the way back, plucking up courage, you smile,say hi, ask her if she wants a drink etc. by this time though, woman has changed her mind about dropping hints and makes you look like a total plank! i couldnt know what to say you poor guys. life is even harder for you

butribu Joined Tue 03/17/15 Posts: 10495	Mon 03/14/16 11:31 AM
Thanks one problem though with these small towns they will not let a outsider like me in. its the worst feeling. its like I am a alien. i couldn't imagine what kind of a town you are living in. sounds too exaggerated to me

gaming16 Joined Mon 01/11/16 Posts: 110	Mon 03/14/16 11:31 AM
butribu I wish we can be friends. I need help with gals.

blah..blah.. Joined Sat 04/26/14 Posts: 1648	Mon 03/14/16 11:34 AM
I don't know about "getting used to it" i've been single that long that i can't remember any different Join the club I couldn't imagine not being single and have to go shopping on saturdays when sport is on They have phone in shoppers now just for that. i don't want to go shopping, that's the point lol

butribu Joined Tue 03/17/15 Posts: 10495	Mon 03/14/16 11:35 AM
if i were a man hahhhhhhhh i have to give you hints guys if they are hanging with the groups, go to the places that your fancy girl's group goes do not get people with you, choose to be on your own single and unaccompanied man, with a bit of cool behavior always catches the interest a man with a group of friends does not catch an interest there are some hints that i can give you what kind of glances you have to throw out but that will be difficult to decribe here lol Boy I would like to know those hints. small towns are way to hard to try and get a gal. i live in a small town as well as soon as possible u are making a membership at a fitness center best place to meet girls lol Fitness centre....Sounds like a lot of hard sweaty work to me we get very attracted by a fitness doing, sweating, average guy even doesnt have to be very handsome lol. it is worth trying lol

butribu Joined Tue 03/17/15 Posts: 10495	Mon 03/14/16 11:36 AM
butribu I wish we can be friends. I need help with gals. that is all from me my friend the rest is with you lol good luck

butribu Joined Tue 03/17/15 Posts: 10495	Mon 03/14/16 11:37 AM
I don't know about "getting used to it" i've been single that long that i can't remember any different Join the club I couldn't imagine not being single and have to go shopping on saturdays when sport is on They have phone in shoppers now just for that. i don't want to go shopping, that's the point lol ahahahahhahahahahahhahahaha ahahaha ahahaha lol

gaming16 Joined Mon 01/11/16 Posts: 110	Mon 03/14/16 11:39 AM Edited by gaming16 on Mon 03/14/16 11:41 AM
butribu I wish we can be friends. I need help with gals. that is all from me my friend the rest is with you lol good luck Oh No well how do i ever know when a girl does like me. I am really starting to think I am ugly or something.

blah..blah.. Joined Sat 04/26/14 Posts: 1648	Mon 03/14/16 11:44 AM
if i were a man hahhhhhhhh i have to give you hints guys if they are hanging with the groups, go to the places that your fancy girl's group goes do not get people with you, choose to be on your own single and unaccompanied man, with a bit of cool behavior always catches the interest a man with a group of friends does not catch an interest there are some hints that i can give you what kind of glances you have to throw out but that will be difficult to decribe here lol Boy I would like to know those hints. small towns are way to hard to try and get a gal. i live in a small town as well as soon as possible u are making a membership at a fitness center best place to meet girls lol Fitness centre....Sounds like a lot of hard sweaty work to me we get very attracted by a fitness doing, sweating, average guy even doesnt have to be very handsome lol. it is worth trying lol Gym etiquette states that you shouldn't talk to strangers using the equipment and that you don't try and "pull" whilst using the equipment. i can safely say that i wouldn't dream of trying to hit on a girl at the gym no matter how hot, steamy and sweaty she looked

4king Joined Thu 03/10/16 Posts: 1	Mon 03/14/16 11:50 AM
i am joining mingal 2 but no one rpl me

butribu Joined Tue 03/17/15 Posts: 10495	Mon 03/14/16 11:51 AM Edited by butribu on Mon 03/14/16 11:51 AM
Gym etiquette states that you shouldn't talk to strangers using the equipment and that you don't try and "pull" whilst using the equipment. i can safely say that i wouldn't dream of trying to hit on a girl at the gym no matter how hot, steamy and sweaty she looked do not talk then make a foursquare or swarm check in and make a like on the girl's notification and wait for her to response back my tv show is beginning thanks for the chat guys catch you later

VioletTigress Joined Sun 03/22/15 Posts: 458	Mon 03/14/16 12:14 PM
Yes I think that the longer you are single, the more you get used to it. Even if you haven’t been single for that long, but have spent a lot of your time being single I think you get used to it.

Twintidbits24 Joined Tue 07/28/15 Posts: 825	Mon 03/14/16 12:44 PM
Its no longer possible to meet girls in real life I mean if I try to flirt with them at a retail store they would think I am a creep Understand your words....flirting in a retail store??...maybe you just try to be casual and maybe... just maybe... you'll get their attention and they won't think of you as a creep....